ENVY , THE FOUNTAIN
HEAD OF MISERY , JEALOUSY THE DRAGON
WHICH SLAYS ITS PREY BUT ALSO TORMENTS AND TEARS UP ITS OWN RAGING HEART- CAPT AJIT VADAKAYIL
In this post I will
reveal a few of my secrets.
I will reveal how I put
ulcers within few people who deserved nothing better— this goes beyond getting
under somebody’s skin.
It takes a bit of
intelligence to do this, and everybody cannot do this.
Often my critics and my
well wishers ask me why I self inflict and deliberately keep the Sword of
Damocles dangling all the time over me .
Throughout my professional career I did that. It was apparent to all, and they could never
get over this.
I never bothered to
explain. I just tell them – it
is mE style.
When it came to myself ,
here is the secret--
Insecurity or the sword
of Damocles is the chief propulsive power in this world. A maverick,
like “yours truly” needed a quickened pulse caused by an adrenaline rush , to
perform.
I had always treated
this as an ally . It gave me a kick to convert fear into excitement, flight
to fight.
When my shore bosses gunned for me it gave me a chance to prove myself,
by doing things my way, by getting out of
the beaten track . It was the only way,
as the lack of grey matter at sea is mind boggling.
Only people who have
sailed with me know what I mean, rest will wonder WTF?
Punch into Google
search BLUE OCEAN LEADERSHIP VADAKAYIL.
I have explained my
type of leadership , tried and tested for 30 years as a leader of
multi-national men.
This was about myself. Now let me explain
about others.
Often people who know
me professionally have wondered about the type of official communication, I had
with my bosses .
My ship was an oasis of
efficiency , peace and harmony. My officers and crew will vouch that we had a
ball, like a huge happy family. We worked hard and played hard.
Yet I wore the pants, and walked around with
an iron fist in a velvet glove. There was never a Lok Sabha or a Rajya Sabha on
my ship. Yet, I brainstormed frequently and got valuable feedback.
My shore bosses whom I liked , because they were clean hearted , I spared . The rest of the black hearted knaves , I converted into their own worst enemies, for they deserved it. I just made them jealous.
My shore bosses never
dared to tell me from ashore " CAPTAIN HARD-A-PORT! " . They did this
to other Captains , never me.
My shore bosses whom I liked , because they were clean hearted , I spared . The rest of the black hearted knaves , I converted into their own worst enemies, for they deserved it. I just made them jealous.
Jealousy has the power
to destroy. There is no greater
punishment than the primal emotion of jealousy, for it is the most potent cause of unhappiness.
Jealousy causes negative feelings and
misery which corrode your innards like rust to iron.
When you get jealous
you drink poison and wait for the other person to die- TEE HEEEE!.
Yes, now some people
who read this post will remember that I would boast almost like Mohammed Ali ,
to a selected few “ I float like a
butterfly and sting like ze bee”.
I must emphasize here. A competent and self-confident person is
incapable of jealousy at all. People whose jealousy can be kindled are insecure
neurotics.
Let me put this in most
lucid terms, meant for a layman .
What do you mean by
kindling jealousy ? If you are not good
enough you can be burnt very badly . Basically I am a non-conformist who plays better to a hostile crowd. I love to hit consecutive sixes into hostile raging faces.
Three and a half
decades ago, as young men, we were all
standing in line to enter the examination hall at Mumbai MMD, for the First Mate's
exam.
One of my long lost
friends, shouted out from behind the
long line ( i was in front )--" Ajit , well prepared?"
I shouted back " Hum fail hoyega to kaun pass hoyega, saala "( Buddy, if I fail, who will pass ? )
And this made me very
unpopular with the dumbos and the paranoids in line , some of whom who were
giving their 3rd and 4th shots.
Now after giving this corny
dialogue , If I fail, you can very well imagine my condition, for we all stayed
together at the Seamen’s club at Ballard Estate.
Now I am rising above myself,
to explain what jealousy is.
When I went to Russia
in the Communist days , I noticed that all very happy. All were on a level
playing field -- ( just forget for a
while about the Jewish Communist party members , their dachas and their watch
dog Jew commisars).
There was no
jealousy-as there was nothing to compare? There was NO keeping up with the Joneses.
But then this is NOT
the way god made human beings. We are all
hard wired and soft programmed for jealousy. Communism failed because even a baby girl would
take care of her own doll, not the government’s common doll.
The was bound to be
resentment when a genius knew that a moron gets the same salary as him.
And the Communist government
tried to censor what type of fancy life went on in the Capitalist countries,
and failed . Word leaked in that life is far better in a
Capitalist society. And that people had
a choice of what to eat , wear and how to live.
By the way, Communism
was run by Jews. Marx, Lenin, Stalin,
Trotsky were all Jews.
The Zionists stole the
enormous wealth of the Czar, then they siphoned off the spread out wealth of
the common man, as they could NOT own property in a communist state. In your home even your pillow was owned by the
state.
The Russian communist people got news of the
unlimited freedom in the rest of the world. It created
jealousy. Basically it created “grass is greener o the other side” effect. If the whole world would be communist. Then
there would be no jealousy amongst people, and the communist idea might work
out better.
In the deep countryside of Russia, people didn't know about the capitalist
west. All they knew was communism. And
because they didn't know there was something else, they didn't mind it. They
loved communism, and even today they vote for the Communist party.
See what jealousy or lack of it does? Jealousy doesn’t do anybody any
good. It makes you feel needlessly miserable
and insecure.
Jealousy is very
clearly seen in infants as young as 6 months old. This is the basis of sibling
rivalry. The child knows that his younger brother or sister gets more attention
and parental response to crying than him,
and it creates deep rooted resentment and animosity.
Sometimes the parents spoil it by creating a
role model for the rest of the brothers and sisters, and indulging in favoritism.
This jealousy lasts till death and it is programmed into the DNA of the child. Have you noticed how a small baby gets upset
when some other child starts playing with her doll or toy?
Jealousy is a raw human
emotion created when a person feels insecure about his value to other people. It consists of negative feelings, revolving
around fear and anxiety over an anticipated loss . When you compare yourself to others , it will
lead to destructive thinking.
That is why you should
never buy a flat in a building meant for the super rich and powerful. You and
your wife may not feel it being mature and self confident, but your children
will start to compare and this will make them most miserable.
The other children have flown off the Paris ,
Switzerland and Aruba for a holiday. Their
parents own Hummers, BMW’s and Mercedes SUVs'. And
here they are watching corny desi programmes on TV and eating bhajia and riding
a battered Ambassador car.
Have you noticed how people go on Facebook and feel miserable.
For all and sundry are waxing lyrical of ZE good life. Nobody complains on Facebook that she has PMS migraine or that he bled a glass
of blood from his piles or their child failed in class or takes hallucinatory drugs .
They have put in rosy
pictures of their fancy holidays , how great a party they held with hundreds of
cheering well wisher friends , how their child came first in some bullshit event , the expensive diamond
ring presented by the husband ( it would be a fake actually ) , how loving and smart their pet dog is , their
new SUV, their dream promotion at the work place- the drinks are on me -- BLAH
BLAH.
You start comparing and
this plays up in your chattering mind. Everybody
in your circle is having a fabulous time but you.
Jealousy surfaces and they feel frustrated with their own lot. . And believe me , they are comparing themselves with their true friends and relatives— and they are supposed to feel good at their “success” instead of turning green with envy .
Jealousy surfaces and they feel frustrated with their own lot. . And believe me , they are comparing themselves with their true friends and relatives— and they are supposed to feel good at their “success” instead of turning green with envy .
They get depressed ,
and short changed at being forced by destiny to take in the short end of the
stick, not knowing that everything on Facebook
is sugar coated.
When you are constantly
comparing yourself to the Joneses, you’ll suffer unintended consequences.
Jealousy does not do
you any good . If you feel needlessly unhappy, and are having negative thoughts , and have started dishing out fake smiles , is it worth being on Facebook?.
Facebook is a forum
where you give others the power to make you jealous and feel miserable. Unless
you are ze guy who holds 3 aces all the while.
This planet has been converted to a page 3 party place . You will see how a woman so wrapped up in herself , ( who thinks only she is worth it while the rest are not ) , will drag 4 feet of her white gown on the dirty red floor to draw the eyes of the world.
Above: When trying to wrangle a trophy they tell the world that they want to be the next Mother Teresa, save the children , save the environment -- SNIFF - BOO HOOOOOO !!!.
Some Western middle aged fat ugly women share on Face Book how many times they made love the previous night, after she put her man on fire with her sexy bikini . Whether you will fall victim to this bull , and get mired in self pity, it is up to you ?
So Face Book is for shared laughter? Oh Yeah?
This planet has been converted to a page 3 party place . You will see how a woman so wrapped up in herself , ( who thinks only she is worth it while the rest are not ) , will drag 4 feet of her white gown on the dirty red floor to draw the eyes of the world.
Above: When trying to wrangle a trophy they tell the world that they want to be the next Mother Teresa, save the children , save the environment -- SNIFF - BOO HOOOOOO !!!.
Some Western middle aged fat ugly women share on Face Book how many times they made love the previous night, after she put her man on fire with her sexy bikini . Whether you will fall victim to this bull , and get mired in self pity, it is up to you ?
So Face Book is for shared laughter? Oh Yeah?
Worrying about how you
don’t measure up , and how your earning spouse is a loser, robs you of your
present happiness. It leaves you unable
to think about how you really want your own life to look.
Friend or no, envy is
an overwhelming emotion. When you are jealous you count the other fellow's
blessings instead of your own, and lose your peace of mind—rather burn up
inside.. It is in the character of very few men to honor
without envy a friend who has prospered. The sure mark of one
born with noble qualities, is being born without envy.
Of the seven deadly sins, only envy aint no fun at all.
Let me digress briefly to
“dog eat dog” office politics . It is purely based on jealousy. Jealousy is, the worst of all faults as it makes a victim
of both parties. It is not love that is blind, but jealousy.
Knowledge of human
nature and even style is the corner stone of political education. Recognize tactics used on you.
Power does not come
with position of authority. Sometimes a
slave could be more powerful than the great almighty Caesar . Having said that be aware that knowledge is
power— be respected and valued at all levels .
Be confident. Every power
play attacker enjoys seeing fear in the victim. It is a valuable skill to know
when to yield. Keep your emotions under a leash even when you are outraged, but
don’t allow yourself to be the scapegoat for someone else’s mistakes.
Keep away from vicious
smear campaigns. Do not encourage lying and deception. You will be judged by
your communication styles—if you are defensive all the time—you give yourself
away.
Be aware , stay focused
and continue being the team player who will share man of the match awards. To
stay focused you need to know the larger picture. Do not use the larger picture as a convenient
exit route.
In a shore office (
unlike a ship ) do not tell anyone anything that can be used against you—don’t
let go too much even over a Saturday night beer session with buddies who may be
opportunists —don’t even pass on rumors or share negative career experiences.
Be a friend on matters that do not involve the
office and an employee on issues that involve your career prospects. There is
no need to prove your friendship at the expense of compromising your values.
The truth is without
engaging in some sort of political activity or trying to develop followers ,
your career will stagnate. This is why
old blunt seadogs , like yours truly, who are not limelight oriented are
misfits ashore.
Do favors and help
others out. Even asking for help creates bonding ( what a paradox!).
Know your power—unleash
it only when necessary at the right time.. Control impulses and rushes of
blood.
Gain the trust of those
with influence, be genuine here.
There are insecurity
driven turds , in every office with the “crippler, undermining ,divide and
conquer mindset” who enjoy telling you that you are worthless and unloved. It gives them temporary happiness and how.
Sailors who have sailed with me will cry “ Capt
Vadakayil was the answer to these turds in the punch bowl . He was proactive and not reactive, with such
miserable black hearted knaves “.
Do not allow yourself
to be emotionally blackmailed by con artists who misrepresent their authority. Use your intelligence and gut feeling here.
Don’t hurt working
relation ships—you may need to be a hypocrite here. maintain your sense of humor.
There is no hypocrisy at sea. You don’t see each other’s faces after a contract
together. You can be yourself.
When negative politics
are used by team members or negative energies are channelised for selfish
needs, the resulting conflict can corrode the core of the team. Team efforts are swamped by power struggles.
The jealous co-worker can
be easily identified. He will give you
competition which gets obvious. And he
gives himself away when badmouths you
for any mistake you may make, behind your back.
Don’t cry wolf every
time there is a common place power struggle. Play only by your own rules or the
rules of the company. and don’t get too predictable lest you become a easy
target ( aaha now every body knows why Capt Vadakayil keeps a cat as a pet ) . Timing is everything .
Make sure you want what
you get and not vice versa.
Surround your desk
which trivia which makes you feel good—no!, you cant bring your pet along!!
Do not expect things
beyond your talent.
At the work place
productivity soars when everyone is working as one team instead of pointing
fingers and trying to outdo each other. There must be an atmosphere of “we’re
all in this together.”
Women with a high level
of intrasexual competition are more jealous if the rival is a woman who is more
attractive and more envious if this rival is more powerful .
Happiness is a victory
lap—so solve problems, talk big ( like you know who ), keep the colour in your
cheek and the glint in your eye. Be yourself, and have good friends who accept
you as you are.
Laughing and crying are
signs of relief valve lifting on the overstrung—JUST SMILE
Here is some wisdom--- Champions
and heroes who challenge themselves have the knowledge, talent, skill ,
attitude and determination to easily handle the lifetime ahead of them—it is a
piece of cake.
Can you name one
country who is burning with jealousy? Yes, you got it right- Pakistan.
The wicked envy and
hate, it is their way of admiring. Anger, resentment and jealousy doesn't change
the heart of others-- it only changes yours. The jealous are troublesome to
others, but a greater torment to themselves.
Pakistan sees India only though jaundiced eyes. For none of the Muslims in India want to go to Pakistan, and we have more Muslims than them.
Pakistan sees India only though jaundiced eyes. For none of the Muslims in India want to go to Pakistan, and we have more Muslims than them.
The surest route to
breeding jealousy is to compare. Since jealousy comes from feeling less than
another, comparisons only fan the fires. For Pakistan jealousy is just a reflection of their
own pathetic failures. We Indians know that when Pakistani criticism doesn't
make sense, it is surely coming from a different place marked J in upper case.
Insecure Pakistan tries
to put happy and prosperous India down to raise themselves up. They have now downgraded themselves to peeing
on India to mark their territory. Jealousy
is an awkward homage which inferiority renders to merit.
The below list is wrong-India is ahead of Japan.
The below list is wrong-India is ahead of Japan.
Jealousy is the
religion of the mediocre. It comforts them, it soothes their worries, and
finally it rots their souls, allowing them to justify their meanness and their
greed, until they believe these to be virtues. The fenced-in dog always
barks at the one running free.
In base minds worth begets envy, in great noble souls, emulation. Wanna check out India’s perspective? Well, there was no pleasure like being envied on a mass scale from across the border. Heart-stopping envy is the sincerest form of flattery
And in India we had enough of Pakistan’s moral indignation thing. This is an outlet where envy or hate can be acted out under the guise of virtue. We are NOT dumbos out here.
I suggest Pakistan must be content with with what Allah has given to them by saying Maashallah ( God has willed it )
In base minds worth begets envy, in great noble souls, emulation. Wanna check out India’s perspective? Well, there was no pleasure like being envied on a mass scale from across the border. Heart-stopping envy is the sincerest form of flattery
And in India we had enough of Pakistan’s moral indignation thing. This is an outlet where envy or hate can be acted out under the guise of virtue. We are NOT dumbos out here.
Do you want proof of
Pakistani jealousy?
The Pakistani spy agency ISI employs several trolls on the
internet.
On the TIMES OF INDIA E-newspaper
, these trolls work overtime, trying to
drive a wedge between Indian Hindus, Muslim and Christians.
These
trolls assume various avatars-- they come dime a dozen, as ‘Indian Dalits in
India”, “Indian Muslims in india” , “Indian Muslims abroad”, “Hindus abroad”, “ Christian foreigners abroad”, “Indian
Christians in India” , “Indian christains abroad” etc. Hey, how about "Dalits abroad" , thrown in for good measure?
Their whole day’s job is to abuse India, spew venom and drive communal wedges
in the comments column, and click on “Like / Dislike/ Recommend” .
To these Paki trolls I will say “ Remove your not-so-bright head from that smelly dark place and take us head on !!”
I suggest Pakistan must be content with with what Allah has given to them by saying Maashallah ( God has willed it )
Enough of petty minded Pakistan !!.
To find out a girl's
faults you wish to marry , praise her to her girlfriends. One by one they will
reveal all her faults.
He that is jealous is
not in love. Jealousy is bred in doubts.
When those doubts change into
certainties, then the passion either ceases or turns absolute madness.
True love is a unique
condition where the happiness of the one you love is essential to your own. Love
looks through a telescope and envy, through a microscope. When jealous behavior goes completely haywire,
it can erupt into aggression and possibly turn violent. .
It may be perfectly
normal to feel brief pangs of jealously in response to a perceived threat, say
if your girl goes to a strip club with a group of friends. Or your wife wears
mini skirt and sits with her legs splayed for the benefit of a handsome guy whose
eyes are transfixed you know where.
If a husband suspects
another man is flirting with his wife, healthy feelings of jealously will surface. He accepts them as a reminder of how
much he cares for his wife and is quick to let them go because this relationship
is based on mutual trust.
Jealousy is the result
or fear of losing your girl to another. In romantic relationships, both men and women
continue to check out other men and women. It's biologically driven and it's natural. However,
it does not mean that the person wants
to leave the relationship. It is, for
most people, about appreciating the opposite sex human form and not about a
roaming eye. Touching is taboo, but
jealousy makes looking also taboo.
On a ship if you have a
beer with a buddy daily, and one fine
day you wait for him and see him having a drink with someone else without
telling you, you are bound to feel the
pangs of jealousy.
Normal jealousy in a
relationship generally stems from a place of love and commitment. When jealously gets out of control, it becomes
injurious to both parties involved. Unhealthy jealousy uses up precious energy
and steals quality time .
Self worth comes with
self appreciation and love. People who
are truly comfortable and secure with themselves, rarely let jealousy get in
the way .
Celebrate the positives
in your own life . No matter what your
situation is, youmust have few things
that many people don't have. You can
actively think about the great things that are in your life. At least you must be healthy. Sit
down and be grateful for your good health at least. Cultivate an attitude of
gratitude. Only fools live in the past
or carry envy to the present.
In Hinduism, envy is a
disastrous emotion. Hinduism maintains
that anything which causes the mind to lose balance with itself , leads to
misery. Envy cannot coexist with truth
and spiritual wisdom.
CAPT AJIT VADAKAYIL
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Captain,
ReplyDeleteOn Facebook: You have nailed it...:)
Thanks,
Shrinath
Hello Captain,
ReplyDeleteThank you for your fantastic blog post, I'm a regular reader of them and have immensely gained from it.
Can I ask an off topic qn now:
I'm a male and I have this urge to crossdress. It's been there for the past 20+ years - I'm 30 and single now. I find it hard to figure out what is wrong with me. In daily life I'm a friendly, honest and optimistic young man.
What is your take/opinion on cross dressing? Can this habit be ever overcome? I have tried couple of times unsuccessfully. I consider myself to be bisexual/ or may be bi curious. Do you consider homosexuality to be a taboo? IS there any scientific evidence for cross dressing tendencies in males? Or is this just a fetish one can get over by some means?
Thanks
hi,
DeleteYou must know that in Indian society cross dressers are socially ostracized. Hence whatever you do must remain a private fetish.
Your own family will be badly hurt if you are shunned by society.
Cross dressers want to shed the burden of being a man . It feels good , that it why they do it.
This comes of out a glitch in DNA programming.
Personally I do NOT appreciate homosexuality. But as you can see the world is slowly changing.
Once you get married you will change. Meanwhile get involved in some sport which makes you feel like a dominating man.
Heavens forbid that your wife or children catches you. She and your kids will want a HE-man , not a woman.
capt ajit vadakayil
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Thank u for the quick reply, captain. It would have been great if you can shed some more light into this topic from Science/Sociology point of view through a blog post here.
DeleteBy the way, I'm not sure of the change one can have by getting involved in some sport which demand masculine activity. One can find cross dressers all over even at unlikely of professions/activities. If it is something as a glitch in DNA how to overcome it?
Thanks again.
hi sunny,
Deletepunch into google search CELLULAR MEMORY, COMPLETE HEALING VADAKAYIL
capt ajit vadakayil
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Dear Sir
ReplyDeleteI am a victim of jealousy, where i work all of my colleagues are getting higher salary. Even junior girl who has same designation get double of mine. My boss is repeatedly belittled me. I becomes lethargic, lost interest in job, just continuing to pay EMI. I am demotivated, nothing can motivates me to do great job in office, earning good money, promotion.
Any suggestion.
hi das,
Deleteyou need to change.
punch into google search CHANGE MANAGEMENT VADAKAYIL
there is nothing as bad as losing respect at the work place.
wherever i worked -- my officers and crew would say , that " capt vadakayil is the slave whose is more powerful than almighty caesar . he is our role model "
there was only one reason they said that. nobody could do my job better than me. it is a great feeling.
SO CHOOSE A DATE. THAT DAY DRESS UP DIFFERENTLY FOR THE BETTER. GO TO OFFICE 15 MINUTES EARLIER AND GET OF 15 MINUTES LATER.
DO YOUR JOB THE RIGHT WAY. WORK FOR YOURSELF AND NOT TO PLEASE YOUR BOSS, FOR A CHANGE.
after 6 months if things are not getting better for you, scout for another job, where you can start on a clean sheet.
capt ajit vadakayil
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Thank you Sir.
DeleteLike what usually remarkable depth analysis and realistic !
ReplyDeletehi,
ReplyDeleteIt would be extremely helpful if you could post an article about how to take over as a mate/master on parcel carriers. Esp new mates/masters would find it really helpful.
Thanks,
ravi
Dear Captain ji:
ReplyDeleteGreat post. Sometimes I think jealousy manifests itself not from one's self but as a result of somebody else's actions. I've seen this particularly in groups where there are school going kids. The parents are friends.. but once their kids get to school age and comparisons are drawn.. the game of jealousy starts.. It can bring out the worst out of clean hearted people.
Could you provide an insight on how to get ahead of these situations and move away from these useless or rather uncontrollable situations?
A professor (Phd) once told me that he believes in favoritism. I was aghast when I heard that. He was clear in his intentions.. and even said that he would rather help his own son than a friend's son to be ahead of the competition. I lost my respect to that professor after hearing this.
I think unless people start practicing the principles laid out in the Bhagawat Gita, particularly about Karma Yoga, we'll continue to see these fissures in social relationships.
hi,
Deletewhen my sons were in LKG and UKG I went to school for some competition programs.
the competition was NOT among children, but among parents.
some of them were even involved in bribing the judges, using political pull etc -- all for a recitation contest or something like this.
some mothers were even blatantly cheating by prompting from hidden areas, when the child forgot the lines -- all planned well in advance.
capt ajit vadakayil
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Dear Sir
ReplyDeleteShould we enroll for Aadhar Card?
Govt is making it mandatory. It seems that everyone could be tracked from the card. Should we wait untill next election?
Please advise.
hi,
DeleteUPA is making sure that you cannot function with AADHAR card.
i do NOT have one yet.
the whole idea is to make sure that the banking cartel controls you.
today in USA nobody takes hard cash.
very soon you cannot travel, or cook, or withdraw money or stay in a hotel or visit a hospital etc -- without aadhar card.
capt ajit vadakayil
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Slowly truth is coming out in mainstream media....
ReplyDeleteBut we already knew it because of Capt. Ajit.
http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/world/uk/Mother-Teresa-saint-of-the-media-controversial-study-says/articleshow/18760028.cms?
Capt.
ReplyDeleteGood one yet again. Had been reading but did not comment.
Am already way too confident about myself and with loads of positivity. Even when people said that I would go thru a bad time due to my nakshatra and rashi, I din't feel so.
I have already read your post on the black onyx stone. I 've one stone on me all the time. Does nakshatra and rashi and lagnam have something to do with the black onyx stone on some one. Or is the stone good for any one. What's your take. Also what's your take on colour of clothing and other things to do with nakshatra and rashi
hi keeth,
Deleteeverybody has a stone which is good for him, based on his horoscope.
punch into google search DOWSING, POWER OF QUARTZ CRYSTAL VADAKAYIL
the west thought that this is indian mumbo jumbo superstition till they invented the kirlean camera.
when you wear your stone, your aura gets brighter and larger.
at the micro level your body is just energy.
capt ajit vadakayil
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Capt.
ReplyDeleteThanks for your response.
What I understand is, Black onyx cannot be worn by anyone or everyone. It should be worn only if it suits him based on the horoscope. Correct me if I am wrong.
ho keeth,
Deleteonyx which is brown, orange, red, honey ,is worn by leo and capricorn.
BLACK ONYX is universal, can be worn by all.
capt ajit vadakayil
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Thank you for the clarification...
DeleteA question out of your response... is the English zodiac relevant or true than the Horoscope which has stars and raashi etc... because person's birth on the same day in a English month but different time, differs in nakshatra and raashi... but in zodiac sign they will be "LEO" for example if their birth was between July 22nd to aug 21st. ???
hi,
Deleteleo is zodiac.
greek system is copied from india, as pythagoras and plato studied in india.
punch into google search VEDIC COSMOLOGY OF INDIA 5000 BC VADAKAYIL
capt ajit vadakayil
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Capt.
ReplyDeleteI think I did not ask my question clearly...
1000 people born between June 22nd and July 21st will be "CANCERIANs" according to Zodiac signs...
But, 2 people born on the same day, one at 9 AM and another one at 10 AM will have a different Nakshatra and Raashi...
So, which is right ???
hi keeth,
Deletei suggest you consult people who make a professional living out of this.
capt ajit vadakayil
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Nakshatra and Raashis should not be confused with Zodiac signs..Zodiac signs ARE CONSIDERED IN WESTERN ASTROLOGY on the position oF sun while Raashi and Nakshatras are considered in in Eastren or hindu or vedic astrology on the position of moon.People born between particular time period for example 22 jun-21 jul are "CANCERIANs" as there sun sign is cancer which is same for all but rashi is a moon sighn which would be different for different people.
DeleteHi Keeth
DeleteZodiac signs.. based on the birth dates are calculated as the position of sun while zodiac sign in horoscope are calculated on position of moon.Moon signs are calculated as Raashis not the sun signs.
Hi CaptainJi,
ReplyDeleteI have this problem that i sometimes makes silly mistakes (logical & arithmetic) . I know 100% that i would have done it right first time. And later on i feel very depressed and curse myself for this.
Its like some kind of "missing" while i do it.
Is there any way to streamline thought process. ? Or is it a limitation of my brain ?
Will wearing gem/diamond help ?
regards,
Mahesh
hi mahesh,
Deletedo SO HAM.
punch into google search SO HAM MANTRA VADAKAYIL
capt ajit vadakayil
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Sir,
ReplyDeleteThis is by far, your best article till date. This is a must read for everyone!
Rgds
ReplyDeleteAnup March 8, 2013 at 12:05 PM
hello capt
very happy and impressed to see your huge ocean of knowledge about our dharma and proud to be a part of the BESTEST of the world only one wish that you shold some day take on one on one that a** h*** fakir naik. Its ok for him to propogate his own religion but why does he need to show other religions specially sanatan in bad light.
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Capt. Ajit Vadakayil March 8, 2013 at 4:50 PM
hi,
dr zakir naik is sponsored by WTE ( waitress turned empress ).
this man is very shrewd, and used loud FALSE rhetoric to score brownie points, which no other religion does.
all religion ( including islam) praised their own religion. But zakir Naik pushes down hinduism-- that is his whole and sole agenda.
i head him telling on TV that atharva veda tells that sun goes round the earth. this is a blatant lie.
punch into google search HELIOCENTRICITY VERSUS GEOCENTRICITY VADAKAYIL
indians were the first to say earth goes round the sun-- rest only stole and copied.
I heard zakir naik tell on TV that lord shiva cut of his own son's head and put an elephants head instead. he said that this son was created by parvati by making a statue with MAILA ( waste ) from her BADAN ( body ).
this is again a big lie.
punch into google search LORD GANESHA AND THE MILK DRINKING EPISODE VADAKAYIL.
whatever he tells about hinduism is a lie. today even his DUMBO followers do not believe him any more unless they are muslms first and then indians ( terrorists and pakistanis ).
hinduism cannot be damaged by this CHOOHA.
capt ajit vadakayil
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@Sunny
ReplyDeleteIn addition to excellent suggestions by Captain, May I also suggest you watch Alizee sing and dance (videos on youtube). Instant cure :-D
hi,
Deletepunch into google search-
FROM ALIZEE TO SALMA BALMA VADAKAYIL
capt ajit vadakayil
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Facebookiney kurichu paranjathu valarey correct. Spot on.
DeleteI need to get that pic at the top off my mind.
ReplyDeleteIt's so gore. Feels like I may get that seeing it. Sooner I forget it the better.
"In this post I will reveal a few of my secrets.
ReplyDeleteI will reveal how I put ulcers within few people who deserved nothing better— this goes beyond getting under somebody’s skin.
It takes a bit of intelligence to do this, and everybody cannot do this."
I see what you mean Captain!