Thursday, November 14, 2013

NAGGING, UNHAPPINESS AT HOME , DEATH OF MARRIAGE- CAPT AJIT VADAKAYIL

TO NAG OR NOT TO NAG ,   WORLD DIVORCE RATES ,  CULTURE OF CYNICISM ,  BATTLE AXE SHREW,   SEXUAL FRUSTRATION AND NEGATIVITY IN MARRIAGE,  EGO AND THE NEED TO DOMINEER AT HOME,   BOHICA  -  CAPT AJIT VADAKAYIL





Country  /         %  Divorce    
Albania /                     19       
Armenia/                     17       
Australia/                    48       
Austria/                       47       
Azerbaijan/                  12       
Bahamas/                     5         
Belarus            /           45       
Belgium/                      71       
Bermuda/                     25       
Bosnia & Herz/             8         
Brazil/                         24       
Bulgaria/                      47       
Canada/                       49    
Chile/                           3         
China/                         22       
Colombia/                    9         
Costa Rica/                  47       
Croatia/                       25       
Cuba/                          53       
Cyprus/                       28       
Czech Republic/           66       
Denmark/                    49       
Dominican Rep/           41       
Ecuador/                     20       
Egypt   /                     17       
El Salvador/                23       
Estonia /                     58       
European Union/          47       
Finland    /                   47       
 France            /           55       
 Georgia/                     19       
 Germany/                   49       
 Gibraltar/                    49       
 Grenada/                    22       
 Greece              /        25       
 Guatemala/                 5         
 Hungary/                    67       
 Iceland           /           37       
 India/                         0.08                
 Iran/                           14       
 Ireland/                       15       
 Israel/                         30       
 Italy    /                      27       
 Jamaica/                      9         
 Japan  /                      36       
 Jordan  /                     25       
 Kazakhstan/               27       
 Kuwait           /           42       
 Kyrgyzstan/                16       
 Latvia /                      52       
 Lebanon/                    17       
 Libya /                        5         
 Liechtenstein  /           48       
 Lithuania/                   53       
 Luxembourg   /           62       
 Mauritius/                   17       
 Mexico  /                    15                  
 Moldova/                    42       
 Mongolia/                   32       
 Montenegro    /           14       
 Netherlands/               46       
 New Zealand /            45       
 Nicaragua/                  17       
 Norway/                     46       
 Panama/                     27       
 Poland            /           28       
 Portugal/                     69       
 Qatar  /                       29       
 Rep of Macedonia/      11       
 Romania         /           28       
 Russia /                      51       
 Saudi Arabia/              20       
 Serbia /                       22       
 Singapore/                   28       
 Slovakia/                    47       
 Slovenia/                    38       
 South Africa/              17       
 South Korea/              35       
 Spain  /                      62       
 Sri Lanka                   0.19                 
 Suriname/                   31       
 Sweden/                     49       
 Switzerland/                52       
 Syria   /                      9         
 Tajikistan/                   6         
 Thailand/                    25       
 Trinidad nTobago/      35       
 Turkey   /                   20       
 Ukraine/                     42       
 United Kingdom/         51       
 United States /            56  
 Uzbekistan  /              8         
 Venezuela/                 27       
 Vietnam/                    4          


The foreign funded Indian media is engaged in endless propaganda to divide India by gender.   Today your wife can divorce you for marital rape ( claim she was raped 10 years ago or forced to do oral/ anal sex ) ,  and grab your ancestral property,  thanks to the Catholic waitress.


Hinduism survived 800 years of slavery and repression, only because there was spirituality and happiness in the home. BIG BROTHER wants to destroy this happiness.   

If you see MTV ROADIES / BIGG BOSS  etc you will come to know.    Women are encouraged to abuse men in a most filthy manner, on national TV.   

They get the worst Indian shrews on TV for this.

In Goa the Pope was successful in destroying Hindu values.  A big percentage of the miniscule divorce percentage of India is from city bred Goan Catholics—mostly in Mumbai.

Punch into Google search-

PORTUGUESE INQUISITION IN GOA ORDERED BY FRANCIS XAVIER VADAKAYIL



How do I qualify to write a piece on nagging?

Well, 30 years of marriage – not one single fight – not one single occasion to get nagged !

Does that mean I am a perfect husband?

No – it just proves that both me and my wife know the ground rule — and that is ( there are no rules at home ) ,  we do NOT breach -nay- betray a trust at home .  


There is a deep sense of belonging.  

It is give and take.

Why is the Indian divorce rate the least?  

Why do you think the white man has always come to India for life management solutions?   They give a damn for their own Oprah Winfrey and Sigmund Freud.

Western marriages fail as there is too much of DRIP DRIP nagging at home..  Nagging focuses on what a person is not doing,  and hence has a negative focus .

The white man goes to a marriage counselor , to iron out his problems at home. 

What they do NOT realize is ,  nagging is just a symptom of a deeper psychological conflict.  So how can nagging in itself be a marriage killer.  

If you have some perception, it aint possible, right? 


Nagging destroys the mindsets of young growing up children psychologically.  Nagging is an enemy of love , if allowed to persist .  When one spouse acts like a parent or a mean boss to the other one,  it erodes the institution of marriage.

Most of the nagging takes place in a western home , as they have love marriages where the equation is 50:50.  Before they get married they show the best profile to each other. 

After two months of marriage , the sexual attraction weakens and slowly they start noticing each other’s warts,  which were camouflaged before .  


Previously he used to wake her up with breakfast in bed and kisses galore.   Now he expects bed tea from her, with NO kiss in sight..

In an arranged marriage the equation is never 50:50,  for there can never be two captains on one single ship.   Rather it is 49:51.

Love is spontaneous , and is a fresh flower. Marriage is calculating and is a plastic flower. That is why the married woman is frustrated , because she is waiting for certain things that happened in the past, to happen again – whispers of sweet nothings, those moonlight walks -- 

Why are they not happening again? 

They cannot happen because now there is no spontaneity; now love is a mundane routine. Now everything is expected and demanded.  Now love has become a duty, not a fun. It was fun in the beginning; now it is a duty. And duty cannot give you the same bliss that fun can give. 

Her mind has created the whole thing. Now she goes on expecting, and the more she expects the less is the possibility of its happening.

Nagging—the vicious verbal abuses,  the demeaning talk,  the blame game, the one upmanship,  the personal attacks,  the immoral manipulations,  the need to make the husband feel stupid , the heartache rising out of vulgar ultimatums, the endless pestering—nay- hectoring , does not put a man into a giving mood— and thus a vicious cycle is born.



Above : Standing in front of the TV while nagging , makes things worse.


Nagging  promotes negative and destructive emotions such as vitriolic censure, anger, condemnation and deep emotional agitation cum resentment in both partners.  

Nagging can never be an effective way to communicate your needs and will almost always produce negative results. He will just cut you off mentally , stop hearing you, and the more you nag, the less he will respond to your needs. 


Somewhere along the line, the woman has graduates from partnership to dictatorship.   There is no reality, only perception.   What seems an imminent need or a dire emergency for the pea brained woman many not be the same for the husband, who has just home after a hard and enervating day at work.


Quite often out of spite, she will make her husband watching a favorite LIVE soccer match on TV , strip, to put his clothes in the laundry machine , to fill it up — when there is NO need to do this—he has alteast 20 such pairs of washed clothes lying in the wardrobe.


In a happy home, there must never be a call to surrender your dignity.  Support must be politely invited not commandeered.  There must not be any rules for rules sake.  


In arranged marriages we avoid, all these petty quarrels, as both husband and wife come from the same culture, and they know what their parents did and how they managed their daily mundane chores.  This division of household chores has come down generations, since antiquity. 

All this is NOT engraved in stone.  There is give and take in a pleasant graceful atmosphere.  In Hindu homes we do NOT have raised voices.  

In my wife’s ancestral house , girls were meant to be seen and NOT heard.  Unless a woman is a schizophrenic or suffering from hysteria ( a medical condition ) she will NOT be shouting and screaming at home.


It does NOT means there can be no disagreements at home.  Truth and tact co-exists with grace.  Even if there is a minor argument, the aim is progress for the family and household , never personal victory and one upmanship.


No husband will want his wife and children to suffer, or loss of finances because he refused to do something,  or he is laid back for a while on a Sunday.   It is the battle axe shrew’s “I want it to be done now”  and “on the spot” decisions that leads to this emotional tussle.   

And most of the time, it is all about her hormones (estrogen dominance over progesterone ) playing up  - or plain starvation of a good manful pounding.  Because it is a vicious cycle, a beautiful woman woman can become as attractive as a drowned cat when she starts drip drip nagging—and it is difficult for a man to get it up.

Now what is this good manful pounding or humping ?  When this happens the woman ( in the throes of immense pleasure) sounds like a wounded animal . 

Punch into Google search-

MURINGAKAI , QUANTUM MEDICINE AND HAPPINESS TREE VADAKAYIL

I have explained it very well here.




Hardly any husband on this planet would expect his wife to shovel the snow or carry the heaviest shopping bag , unless he is having a bad back.  Which man will expect his wife to change the car tyre or fight off a bully?  

But he may not like to hang out the linen to dry on the clothesline in the yard ,  because it is NOT a manly thing, and none of his forefathers had ever done it.   He would rather prefer to employ a maid and waste some money from the tight budget , rather than to do this simple chore which erodes his mindset as a protector and a provider ..

I remember once, I had to go on the bridge for arrival port at 4 AM, and the passage was very tricky.  Since I had NOT got enough sleep, I made strong coffee in my cabin itself.  While taking this cup up to the bridge I spilt some coffee on the stair case.  I went on the bridge checked out everything and then came back to my cabin for a crap.  

I nearly slipped on my spilt coffee , a grave near miss . 

Instead of waking up the steward or telling the quartermaster/ lookout man  on bridge to clean up the spilt coffee ,  that I took a wet mop and mopped the splilt coffee up.  And after that , being in an expansive mood  ( I was reminded of my happy cadet days ) I started mopping the whole staircase, singing an old song out of nostalgia.  I felt some eyes boring my head from the back.

After a month Chief Officer told me that most of the crew got up from their sleep , and came to see Captain wiping the floor with a mop in that unearthly hour.  And the hot subject of discussion was , if I am still fit to lead .  


For them I am a awesome man whose aura is so powerful that they would NOT come within one metre of me while passing by in an alleyway ,  to avoid getting an electric shock by induction.

As my neighbor I had the ex-ruling Varma family of North Kerala .  The wife was a silent shrew.  She used to make her peace loving husband do all petty chores.   



When I am in the lawn,  I pretend I cannot see him out of sheer kindness ( I liked that bloke ) ,  for he would die a thousand deaths .


The wife’s  nagging might be the repetition of unpalatable truths, but the husband hates nagging, especially after a hard day. Men unwind by forgetting problems..  To be treated like dirt by the woman he married is slow death for a man.  

When nagged 99% men will  stop communicating and go into a deep sulk .   The women nags just to get centred,  men cannot handle this .

If a man screws  up royally , say he bought some rotten vegetables ( TEEE HEEEEE ! ) , if you say—“ it was not your fault”, he will love you for the support and acceptance as he is —this is not the time to go into a high pitched, high octave truth finding exercise. Would he ever bring rotten vegetables to the house , if he could avoid it?

Men want space, give him that. Man can get angry ( actually upset ) if he has no dang idea what to do next—it need not be finger pointing at the woman.

Give man the freedom to say NO—it does not mean he means NO and will not say YES as a matter of free manly choice.

When your husband is upset lie low, till the hurricane passes.  This is a bad time to match him blow for blow.


A man who has leadership spirit will rarely suffer nagging at home.  He ensures that there is open minded spirit at home, not defensive egos.   He gets compliance out of commitment and he applies this rule to himself first. 




Punch into Google search-
BLUE OCEAN LEADERSHIP VADAKAYIL

At sea, the sailors are the children of the Captain – whom he has to take care 24 hours a day.

I had written a poem about this.


THE CAPTAIN SLEEPS TONIGHT-

after six months of camping, in lonely avenue
wound up taut,  like a high tension spring
suffering from the blues , when lonely winds blew past
falling apart from the seams,  when bad new came from home
yet,  never allowing a sight to get out of his heart
controlling his biological urges,  being the perfect family man
changing coats constantly,  as the situation on board deemed
judge, doctor, policeman, accountant, pest control, cook
journalist , plumber, head shrink, soldier ( without license to kill )
businessman --you name it--he does it as part of his job
round the clock, not 9 to 5 -- day after day, without holiday
giving away prizes, which he , and only he had earned
yet, willingly being the scapegoat , when murphy's law ruled
trying to figure out the blurred line between fact and fiction
living on the edge, never feelin' immune to the prospect of failure
working for bosses who had mastered the art of exploiting vulnerability
steeling himself to read telexes which started -- "we fail to understand--"
being the punching bag for thankless owners , managers and charterers 
being forced to take uncalculated risks, against his better judgement
trying to push his ship, to keep pace with a pea brained schedule
pushing mr.pride aside,  when dealing with customs and coastguard
itching to bloody their noses , but somehow,  holding his peace
forcing him to add more names, to the list of people who could kiss his ass
being patient to wait for one more minute, past eternity
dealing with faceless men, and spineless backdoor hustlers
who got their kicks ,by sending missiles by telex from overseas
rubbing shoulders with powers that be , who put their mouths into motion
without putting their collective brains into gear --even once
deadening his raw nerves in the cold comfort of whisky heaven
--the days his bosses played petty mind games of domination on him
distrusting angels which fly too low-- not believing in messiahs
burning bridges behind him , when the situation became 'no go'
combating the sinkin' feeling that time is running out on him
time and again, counting the odds against tomorrow
wearing lucky charms , combating ulcers and nose bleeds
yet thriving on the virus of pressure , like the quintessential shark
which need to suck salt water past its gills to stay alive

after all this--
this modern seafarin' gypsy has passed on his crown of thorns
packed his bags,  and is now a stranger in even stranger lands
destination home-sweet-home, his DTGH is only one 
wending his weary way to his hotel room, he drops on the bed
the windmills of his mind come to a smooth halt , as he falls into slumber
they had been ceaselessly turned by winds of anxiety, the last six months
it is unwinding time now for this poor wanderer

HUSH!
NOT A SOUND!! 

THE CAPTAIN SLEEPS TONIGHT!!!




A nagging woman sweats the small stuff for no reason at all and loses grace under this self imposed pressure.   She labors to change the wind in a pea brained manner , when all it needs is to adjust the sails a wee bit.  

She is always  in tunnel vison , microscope mode.  Getting into the telescope mode to see the big picture is beyond her hare brained mental faculty,  which gets its input from mindless chess board logic.  

She has her eyes fixed on the rear view mirror most of the time and is unable to discard the shed snake skins of the past.  Her huge ego is always on the front burner boiling over .   Her own bullsh#t map is more important for her, than the real terrain.



She cannot distinguish between constructive criticism and destructive personal attack.  She employs crude ego powered strategies like name calling in raised shrill voice.  Her queen sized ego confuses opinions with facts.  She is unable to distinguish between action and reaction any more .  


By the way does any of our foreign funded Indian media ever distinguish between action and reaction at Godra.   They never dwell on the fact that the 2002 riots in Gujarat were a REACTION due to an ACTION of dozens of innocent Hindu women ( 25 ) and small children ( 15 ) being burned alive with kerosene in a train compartment.

The nagging shrew must wax indignant, opening past baggage strewing the sordid things around – only to get the upper hand ,and live in it , and never to draw healing lessons.   



She finds it necessary  to re-open old healed wounds on her own time table , all the while moaning aloud in persecution mode. 





She revels in high handed domination and intimidation—some times snide hints that she might commit suicide if something is NOT done the way she wants and the minute she wants.   The man knows that if he does not acquiesce she will give him an overdose of indifference, apathy and lack of enthusiasm , as punishment.  

She will blow hot and then blow cold- from high pitched yodeling and melodrama to sullen silence , like how dentists pries your teeth out with a to and fro movement.


She is addicted to self pity and gets stuck in that moment. She burns all her energy in sustaining her falthu ego and then gets pooped. 


Above : Every body in England knows this battle axe Julie Griffiths, who gets fined often for noise pollution. Wanna marry her?  She is available !

She shifts goal posts whenever she wants and rearranges blind spots and shadow sectors in her radar in a vulgar and mean manner.


Above: We in India , know this virago.

When she is in full NAG NAGG flow, the things that matter most are always at the mercy of things that matter the least.


Harsh words by a woman (who has lost her moral compass) , to her beloved husband are like nails driven into wood.   She may later remove the nails, by way of making up — but these holes remain forever in the psyche.

Many men yield when nagged, only because they know that yielding is a valuable skill to preserve sanity and for the larger interests of the children.   He tries to brainwash himself that his wife’s NAG NAG is the power of accurate and wise expression and NOT cynicism at its fuc#in' best.   


Maybe unknowingly he really fu#ked it up— like the quintessential tom cat who always wonders what it dragged in..

Tasting success she will now nag even more—like small kids crying for ice cream and getting it for sure , while they cry..


Above: Any takers -- wanna marry this BIG BOSS shrew ?

She will NOT understand that in a home ethos is shared, and the concept of scapegoating cannot exists , if there has to be harmony.   That a house must be run on trust and not control.   How lomg can the poor husband romance the stress while on the receiving end hour after hour.  

Whatever needs to be done had to be done sans all the endless drama , without trampling on the dignity of everybody else in the house.

BREAK : Now let us look at the silver lining -- at least by reading this post --  

moth eaten faces who come on TV in prime time   giving "extravagant advise" to the nation ( their only qualification being PHILMI-- nay - filmi journalism of cash and kind ) --

can figure out there is more to perception and thinking -- and they can NEVER EVER do this even in a hundred re-born lives. 

Getting back-

She will NOT understand that if a man perceives that he is being coerced and arm twisted into doing something , it erodes the relationship.   

There are some gold digging women who do this --  when she sees a money bag she can con into marrying her — and then kick out the LOSER first husband .

If a man cannot fart and scratch his balls to his heart’s content in his own home, while having a beer and watching his favourite soccer team on a Sunday  , where is he gonna do it?  -- in his neighbour’s home?.



Socrates and Abraham Lincoln were famous people who went home only to sleep — as their wives were battle axe nags.  

In Hindu homes, the hardest task master is the own conscience of both the husband and wife. As mentioned in the Bhagawat Gita , all live in the moment. This is why the Indian divorce percentage is miniscule.  

Whatever percentage you see are the HI FI chutney Marys and Pickle Johns and the moth eaten faces, who ape western culture..have love marriages and have Valentine’s day.  

The Catholic priests who have never married, give marriage counselling.  

I was once given a blow by blow account of this “counseling” by my Chief officer – a Goan Catholic, who lives in Mumbai .  He said he was sort of brainwashed that he must obey his wife and keep her happy at all costs — by a gay priest ( notorious and well known ) .  

"You have to put your spouse's needs before your own -- and when she is forced to nag you  that's a sign  care-taking is not happening BLAH BLAH ".


" In case your future wife nags you, you must accept full responsibility , and must strive to improve the  home environment that has triggered a nagging response in your future wife—OH BOY !.


Marriage counselors know that nagging is the leading cause for discord and divorce. So make the husband nip nagging in the bud—by “total surrender” .  TEE HEEE !



My wife verified this with his wife,  just because I could NOT believe all this.   A gay bachelor priest advising a young couple about to be married on how to sustain a marriage.

In Hindusim we do NOT have a holy book or a Pope type middle man .  The Bhagawat Gita swearing was a requirement in courts as per British law.   Hindus use their conscience and culture embedded in their DNA.   Statistics speak the truth , right?

Punch into Google search-

DHARMA IN HINDUISM, CORE VALUES OF SANATANA DHARMA VADAKAYIL

The nagging woman has taken a trick out of "evangelist" religion— to create a "sense of guilt", so that she can milk the situation.   She uses perfectionism to achieve this goal, and this perfectionism arises out of repressed sexuality .   Perfectionism is nothing but a deep ego trip.   

She will NOT allow her husband’s  life its freedom.   All her so called pain is all self chosen, as nagging is a vicious self defeating cycle..  She is literally shooting herself in the foot by this endless nagging, as this will surely deny her the joys of a happy marriage.

The nagging  is so busy comfortable in finding fault with her husband , that she fails to see any good in him . Her husband is afraid to show any love and affection, for fear of caustic rejection –with a kick on the shin for good measure.   After all this she may say it was not her intent but it was a faulty delivery. But Madame MIM , delivery is what matters.

She fails to see innocence in her husband’s mistakes.  Her falthu sense of justice cannot be balanced with an iota of compassion.  She would rather spin her wheels endlessly on enforcing compliance to her stupid rules . You see she is the queen bee and NO worker drone can challenge her “inflicted “ status quo and activity traps.  

She is unable to even listen to a point of view without getting threatened and flowing out a flood of tears.  The husband is at the receiving end of her selective perceptions and distorted and pea brained interpretations.   

Grace and honour within the confined of the home , has gone for a toss.  The impressionable children die a thousand times unable to digest all this.   Even these small kids know that the mother is trying hard to win a bullsh#t battle at the expense of losing the war — which means divorce.

Her love for her husband is limited because insane ego and selfishness is contained in it , and hence she wastes her energy in resentment.   Her unhappiness is an ego created mental cum emotional disease. The chatter of her ego continuously disrupts her natural state of well being.  Her stress is all within her mind , not by external threat from her husband or children.

Her queen sized ego creates suffering without recognising it.  She lugs a huge  amount of unnecessary baggage, both mental and emotional through out her married life.

She has to hang on to  old emotions to strengthen her identity and gain leverage and hence an upper hand. She will  disagree with her husband in public  just because he is the one who said it.  He fathu ego makes her take everything personally.


She deliberately mistakes a short memory for a clear conscience and hence is miserable within. Her overbearing ego must  create rules for rules’ sake in the home; Her family will  NOT even miss her if she goes on a 3 month vacation to the Himalayas.

She will brood endlessly on her petty grievances, and can never hold a vision that can lift her out of herself.

She substitutes her thinking capabilities with  loud cynical hollering capabilities.  When she argues with her husband she will act as if she is fighting for survival and there is a imminent need to win at all costs. OK, she wants a sense of order and security—but hey, how about giving a sense of freedom to other people in the house, who are NOT retards, as she thinks .

Such is the self delusion caused by female ego which  thrives on reactivity.  The danger zone is when she starts thinking that her so called  accomplishments earns her the right to be condescending, obnoxious and down right abusive.  

The PARADOX is that suffering caused by the ego eventually destroys the ego—she realizes that after a couple of divorces, and when her children refuse to acknowledge her as their mother.

Someone just broke my “rant against the shrew” flow by making a comment , about giving some advise to men.

So here we go—

Women like to talk, and are generally not satisfied with grunts, monosyllabic responses.  If a man must praise another woman's beauty ,  cooking skills etc , don't get extra effusive.   Better keep it short, academic, and low-key,  for a woman has an elephant’s memory when it comes to giving it back to you with interest .

Sometimes when woman nags , don't jump into conclusions and start feeling guilty just yet because chances are that her nagging has very little to do with you.

Most western women nag because it is in their nature to do so.   They grew up watching all this on TV , most of the women around them doing it , and so they figured out that it was the best way to handle men and their occasional inability to function to their expectations.

Psychologically a woman wants you in her moment of need , not the next hour.   Some women even nag to unwind – it is her away of getting her problem over to you.   If you can show some understanding, care, and respect, without argue with her feelings, it will help.   But remember , you cannot be an as$hole and allow her to carry on hour after hour , day after day.

You breach trust when you intimidate her , or lash out physically -- the relationship is now irreversibly weakened—like milk which has curdled.   If you have done that mistake, make amends immediately .  Take her out for a drive ,  buy her some gifts, give her a good manful pounding even if you do NOT feel like it— will it was your fault, right?

Validate her feelings if she is upset. Compliment her cooking—all her dishes cant be horrible, right?. Sometimes women nag over some seemingly insignificant thing in order to work their way onto larger issues.  If you dig in deep , chances are her intentions are good, she just needs a little work on her tact and approach.  

So unless you plan on dumping her, you gonna have to learn to anticipate, deal with, or simply avoid her nagging.   In Hindu homes we do NOT have the luxury of dumping her. The word divorce does NOT exist in our ancient scriptures and the Sanskrit dictionary. Good relationships are based on mutual care taking and love.

Most women give off signals when they're unhappy.   If she gets unusually silent, ignores you with a sullen face, or is just plain indifferent,   sh#t is gonna hit the fan sooner than later.  

Try to figure out what she's angry about,  before she tears into you innards , and fix it good —that is if your care for your children.   But if the fighting and nagging outweigh the good times, and the children are getting traumatised ,  it might be time to move on...

Be prepared that your next woman might be ten times worse,  and you with get a different type of a nagging shrew,  who may hit you or BOBBITT you while you sleep.


Lorena Bobbitt who cut off her husband's penis.



Lorena Bobbitt cut off her husband's penis, while he was sleeping at midnight. Then she drove far away and threw the severed penis into a unused field . 

She later said in court-. ."He always have orgasm, and he doesn't wait for me to have orgasm.  He's selfish."

Nagging disguises a basic feeling of weakness and provides an illusion of power and superiority—this is psychology.

What the Bobbitt incident proves is that most heavy naggers are mildly psychotic, if not full-blown lunatics.   Most of the schizophrenia and OCD drugs are consumed by women all over the world. Husbands with such wives , you must know that this can happen to you too.   

When my parents seared for a bride for me, the No 1 item was there can be no schizophrenics in the immediate family.  

Mr Bobbitt whose penis got chopped off will agree with me.  His fault was that he did NOT continue humping till she too had an orgasm.  But Madame MIM , that is not the way the cookie crumbles. 



Once a man has an orgasm, his “apprentice saab” –nay-  favourite member goes limp--PHOOOSSSSS !.


When a man marries a woman he has accepted her with all her imperfections— which crops up day after day, after he gets married --for love marriages.   He has  to accept her and all of her imperfections if he really wants to keep her.   

After deep unhappiness caused by drip drip nagging,  worse than Chinese water drop torture-  he must decide how long he can deal with it, or if it's worth dealing with at all.  When incessant nagging gets to a point where he just can't take it anymore, then it might be time to let go.   

Chances are that you both already know it's over, and that is one of the reasons she is griping so much.  Chances are that she wants to grab half your money and move on to greener pastures.

Most women do NOT know that incessant nagging not only drives her husband mad,  it deflates his libido which hurts intimacy.

Women must know that broken record nagging -- asking for the same thing over and over again – will never ever work.  Such whining and nagging takes the form of verbal reminders, requests, and pleas.


Above: Pea brain in action.  Women’s lib magazines are dedicated.  50% of the magazine is about how men are such dirty pigs.  The other 50% deals with how to attract such a pig.   It is NOT about fish or child support.


When the nag nag woman approaches a man baring her teeth, and her claws ,  berating him with vile criticisms, and nagging his head off,  his body perceives danger and switches into the fight-flight mode.  Since he doesn't want to fight her, he flees instead to the nearest bar or golf course or movie theatre.

When the husband is under attack and in the defensive mode,  his receptive antenna for feelings is shut down.   So the nagging woman may as well benefit from a “white flag” heart to heart session, than from the hounding, pouncing or  “let ze sh#t fly”  mode . 


When a man gets  verbally castrated every hour at home,  he cannot be happy.   Nor can the children who love their dad.   Women who nag their children destroy what balance fragile self-esteem they might have, leaving them a legacy -- the therapist's couch.

Couples who went for love marriages first revel in their similarities , as they hid their warts from each other.  Gradually they get to discover their differences , and the woman tries to nag her husband to safe common ground.  How many of you have heard of a nagging husband ?

When a nagging woman sees her 7 year old son enjoying a cone of icecream ,  she has to fast-forward to obesity and diabetes.  She has never been in the moment-- the way the Bhagawat Gita want us to be.. 


This is what she has become -- a misanthrope monster !.   

While the husband would be enjoying the sweet sight of his dear son slurping and drooling all over the icecream.


Is it ever possible to nag someone into permanent change?  Having worked as a change manager myself, I can tell you, it is impossible.   Nagging can  produce only a short-term result that looks positive.



I have been a ship captain and leader of men for 30 years.  Have I ever done any nagging like a woman as a leader of men? – all this extravagant faultfinding,  endless whining,  biting criticism,  cynical tongue lashing,  hairsplitting,  nit-picking,  persistent pestering,  phlegmy wheedling , relentless swiping and sniping --



Nagging puts the vicious disrespectful woman is the parent role and her "inadequate" husband ( at the receiving end ) in the child role.  This tears the marital  relationship  asunder .

If the nagging woman avoids blame game phrases, "You always..." and "You never..." ,  and switches to a more respectful "would you " rather than "could you "— she could make things happen.  

Tone matters.

No self respecting man will respond to sniping condescending retorts – for he does not deserve the indignity of an elaborate response.   Rather she has to find another way to deal with her personal frustrations.

I would suggest that she buy a white board and a marker pen with three different colours—red ( imminent ) , blue  ( urgent ) and black ( at your convenience ) .  

Don’t fix it behind the TV, and steal his moment--  rather fix it near the door.

PAY ELECTRICITY BILL— RED

CHANGE BULB IN GARAGE --  BLUE

MOW THE LAWN  -  BLACK.


Above must be done only if there is a TOTAL breakdown in communications.  The woman must learn to communicate in a graceful and constructive manner with her spouse for her own good.  

It’s annoying to hear a hectoring voice, so the white board is a way to suggest tasks without words.


Now try and remember you  idiot , I’ve told you a dozen bloody times,  to stop off at the supermarket and but some butter . You will forget as usual .   If you come home without it today , you’re going right back out ! ”  . Instead just write – BUTTER.

If a wife has decided she wants you out of her life, nagging may be her way of forcing you out of the home you share.  This was told to me by an old Swedish  captain.   

Over a couple of drinks in a pub ,  he told me how one fine day his girlfriend walked into his house with a suitcase of dirty underwear,  how they became man and wife, and how she changed into a drip drip nag, and after 8 years how he had to leave his own house under court orders ( she made his darling daughter lie in court that she is afraid of her father ) ,  with a suitcase of dirty underwear.  And within a week she had taken in her lover.

The Swedish Captain was caught unawares. He said that he kept a check for missing money.  A woman who plans to leave her husband often becomes nagging prior to actually leaving.  The nagging may simply be a way to distract her husband while she steals his money and hides it in a new bank account. In his case she cleaned him out and forced him out of his own home.


Nagging gives the husband a feeling that he is being scolded by his mother.  He has grown out of this pahse of life and he does NOT to go back there again—for the rest of his married life.

He does NOT respond usually because probably it is an unpalatable truth thrown at him without tact and he knows that his answer will disappoint his wife or get her even more pissed off.  

Pretty soon he will fight with his wife about her nagging rather than talking about the issue at the root of the nagging—which could be plain sexual repression.

The husband at the receiving end of severe nagging may look superficially to be cool , with a glazed long distance stare-- but internally he is in knots with even his brain clenched.

If the wife has to curb her nagging , first of all she has to accept that she is a nagger and stuck in a rut or mud or whatever.


Above:   Battle axe shrew nagging her car-- " IT IS ALL YOUR FAULT!! "


She must look at the mess from her husband’s perspective.  Why does she put all my good qualities and deeds in her shadow or blind sector —  which she keeps shifting around within in her personal radar at convenience – doctoring feelings just to gain the vulgar upper hand .


Not many husband will mind too much if his wife cautions him against excessive drinking,  smoking or eating unhealthy food bad for his heart.  Rather he will appreciate her love and concern deep within his heart.

But if her nagging is an effort to perfect her partner and polish his manners or etiquette he does not want it. He is happy the way he is , and it puts him off.


Bumpkin cricketer  Azharuddin tried to keep up with the style of his HI FI actress wife , and got disgraced for life.

The nagging shrew tries to dominate her husband subconsciously,  while trying to get a point across –rather she piggy backs on each point,  to rub his nose on the ground.

Psychologists will tell you that wives who nag are often saddled by a deep inferiority complex and are insecure. Their nagging tries to camouflage this feeling of inadequacy-- it provides an illusion of power and superiority.

No marital relationship is that perfect ( leave out Capt Ajit Vadakayil ).   At one time or another, one partner will  end up doing something that upsets or annoys the other.


Every husband perceives nagging as a form of punishment by a control freak.    A real man can take a blow, but harsh demeaning words linger for ever in his psyche.

You must have heard of the LTTE movement.  

The root cause of this,  is that the Sri Lankan Buddhists soldiers took an air chamber filled with sh#t in a helicopter and sprayed it on Tamilian  Hindu villages.

Nobody talks about it today.


This type of a demeaning act of contempt can never be forgotten.  If they had bombed the village killing a few people, it could have been forgotten and forgiven.

Having said so much, let us go back to square ONE now--  

When a woman nags her primary aim is to nitpick and find fault in her husband, right?

How can this ever build up a relationship?

It will break it down, right ?  If you don’t agree with me, tomorrow go to office and bad mouth and demean your boss.  Come on—take a chance !



Do we need psychologists to figure all this out , right? — or for the matter a marriage counselor,  who tries to milk the situation.   He will put his hooks on and milk you multiple times.

These people make you lie on a couch—take answers out of you and give it back to you gift wrapped, for a price.


Only by eliminating nagging can you eliminate negativity, resentment and hostility. Only then can the your relationship  blossom .  Marriage has to be viewed as a compromise, in this context—if you want to foster acceptance and a  healthy relationship. 

Remember it is within your control to turn this situation around for the sake of happiness and peace at home —and for the benefit of your children who are in the cross fire or wind tunnel or whatever.  All it requires is some emotional integrity.

Home is a place to de-stress, if you have some commonsense , you will know what I mean. No point in white knuckling your life at home.  Remember it never hurts to ask politely rather than complain like a bit#h.


A husband –wife relationship is inter-dependence, with of course a fair amount of independence. There is NO need to box each other in. Get rid of the negative energy in the house.  Focus on the positive in the relationship and refuse to allow negativity into your relationship space. 


Negativity in a marriage is emotionally draining, and constant negativity and complaining on the part of the wife may make the husband simply give up trying to be positive.

Whatever is needed must be requested in a polite and respectful manner.  If the wife wants a heart to heart , first ask if it is a good time to talk.  Just say what you want and then shut up—don’t go on and on.   Shed your high and mighty attitude. Remember your husband does NOT have the same priorities as you.  

Let him do certain things on his own terms.  Men love the feeling involved in making his woman happy, and they become more giving and proactive in response to being appreciated.

The woman may perceive that thinking aloud as being a good thing at home. When you are a certified nag , even this is construed as nagging.  The poor guy will think that by thinking aloud his wife is giving him a list of problems that she expects him to fix,  and will get stressed out.  It  is better NOT to do that.



In India we have slums where a mother and a baby sleeps just 3 meters away from the railway track. A dozen trains may go up and down,  the mother does NOT wake up.  But the moment her baby even whimpers in the sleep, the mother wakes up to nurse the baby .  Same with loud nagging for the man — his brains filters it out.

The man with a nagging wife must know the symptoms of obsessive compulsive disorder— OCD—in which case his wife need all his support and love , till she can be cured or managed.. 

Same way, It has been shown medically that during a woman's ovulation and menstruation, particular hormones are being released and these hormones have some irritable effect on the woman, which for some can be translated as nagging.  


Only the erudite woman will understand what is happening to her from her insides.  Hormonal changes as she ages cause frustrating symptoms, such as  pussy- nay-  vaginal dryness, loss of orgasm and low libido.  


Above:  When I put this graph for my Karva Chauth post --  many Pickle Johns called me " Doctor at large" -- wanna do it again? ,  ye brown sahibs or wannabe gora fuck#n' sahebs or whatever ?.

For women, progesterone and estrogen must be maintained in a delicate balance to ensure optimal sexual health.  Estrogen dominance is a common problem observed in nagging women of all ages. 

Women suffering from low levels of progesterone or too much estrogen may find their mental state unraveling and their relationships difficult to manage.  The man must know that estrogen powered nagging is NOT a behavior pattern motivated by a need for dominance.



In my home there is hardly a waking hour where we do NOT laugh and make merry.  There is no feeling in anybody , to lash out at anybody .  

Nobody has the sneaky feeling that he or she is under attack.  My home has never known backbiting,  griping and bad mouthing. There is never splitting of hairs.  

We have never tried to change the culture in which we grew up,  and hence we are in our comfort zones.  As the man of the house,  my position is never ever under threat.  My position is less as a controller and more as a coordinator.  

I balance my authority at home, with a sense of humour.  Laughter is extra ordinarily liberating as well as healing.

Sailors who have sailed with me will vouch that the captain is a Master in Humor Management.

Punch into Google search-
HUMOR MANAGEMENT VADAKAYIL

Shared laughter creates a bond . Laughter is the shortest distance between human hearts . Lasting happiness comes from accumulation of unforgettable fun moments . 

These moments must be mostly moments of achievement while you had fun too. In a unhappy state everything gets blown out of proportion, magnifying fathu concerns. 

At home we tap into moments of joy again and again and absorb them into our present moment. The key to success is to ride the line between happiness and contentment and to balance satisfaction with aspiration.

And I do NOT betray the trust of my family,  come what may.  

If I tell my wife “ I am gonna divorce you”— she will just go to the kitchen , make a cup of strong coffee for me ( or a chilled beer ) --- and them command me “ Come on , have this and go to sleep, el pronto  !”   She will NOT believe me at all .

Attitudes in my home are caught and never taught.   I feel good when I see my 19 year old son, saying a small prayer in Malayalam prose before he goes to sleep.  Sometimes I eavesdrop, and his prayers are really hilarious – innocence and good upbringing at its best.  

The first thing my wife does as soon as she gets up is to light the lamp in our puja room.   The pet cats will always follow her ,  jump on the window sill , and watch every inch of her progress, while she prays.   


I guess they feel that a good thing is going on, for they run to the puja room before she can enter.



In my home, nobody is required to fake his or her true behavior.  We are ourselves, for everybody else has been taken, right?

In my home, if you see hard labour, it is always self imposed and self started.  Ego is sacrificed on the altar of co-existance.  All know what is expected of them, and they do it cheerfully. We do NOT see the present with eyes of the past conditioned and coloured by ego.  

Any change is the home is anchored culturally.

As a ship captain and a leader of men, I have gone out of my way to respect the culture of united nations crew.  I give them their type of food for starters.  

I remember a South Korean Chief Engineer joined my ship,  and he was so surprised to see Kikkoman’s soya sauce on the dinner table, right in front of him, with some Khimchi , for good measure.

Punch into Google search-

RESPECT CULTURE VADAKAYIL

 A house does NOT become a home, without an abundance of grace and honour.  Compromise is never considered as weakness , and this comes out of care and love.  Yet nobody is a prisoner of war to tradition— there is no strait jacketing at all.  

Romance aint a Caribbean cruise, an expensive meal in a 7 star hotel or a lavish gift of diamonds. Rather, romance lives and thrives in the everyday, little things.  Happiness is FREE. A content wife is a Kohinoor laden crown to her husband.

A man who gets nagged badly must record her voice using his mobile phone and play it back to her when she has snapped out of her ugly mood.  

Love at home is  like a plant –it must be watered and nurtured, by both man and woman.  

And be sure your misery is NOT because you are competing with the Joneses.  Nowadays FACEBOOK is the cause of most miseries – arising out of jealousy ulcers..


I would recommend that all “inadequate” husbands with nagging wives know the contents of the post below.

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JEALOUSY, THE GROWING ULCER WITHIN VADAKAYIL

To break the nagging wife’s routine, frequent getaways are a must— either together or alone.   If she still nags you the same way, while on a weekend holiday, it is better for you to go alone and stay somewhere in a hotel or with a friend, without telling her when you will be back..

Tell the nagging wife to make a written list and give it to you.
I LOVE YOU WHEN YOU-
I HATE YOU WHEN YOU-
I WISH YOU COULD CHANGE YOUR UNDESIRABLE BEHAVIOR WITH RESPECT TO-
Tell her to be brutally frank, when writing this—because it is for her own good.

Joke:  Once a couple , due to be married soon ,  were petting in the park on a bench.   The female asks the male for a verbal exercise like the above.   Then she pesters — what other changes will you make for me, what other vices will you give up for me .  The would be husband says “ I have given up the idea of marrying you” – and he walks away.

When you have a nagging wife — discern rather than judge. Don’t be the first to offend.  Always reciprocate a good thing. Live in the NOW.

Now let me say something that will get the wannabe gora gaand , PJ/ CM in sarcastic mode— oh boy they are gonna sneer for the next one month..

Blockages or restrictions of chakras will result in imbalance and disease at psychological and emotional  level.  Get her to do pranayama.  Rather do it together.   

The focus of the lower 3 chakras is ourselves.—security , sex and power.  Unless these 3 are balanced the love we feel in our hearts will be conditional As we move up each chakra switches its polarity.  For men –the root, solar plexus , throat and crown chakras are yang , our outer way ( the rest inwards ).  For the women the sacral, heart and 3rd eye is yang.  

When the Manipura or solar plexus chakra is blocked, there is  a sense of victimization and lack of emotional stability.   My wife uses a quartz crystal pendulum to check this out. When the sacral chakra or the Swadistana is blocked , there will be emotional problems and frigidity.


The Hindu woman puts sindoor on her forehead daily.  This is also an antidote to nagging as it fills her with a sense of gratitude .

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SINDOOR, VERMILION , THE HINDU WOMAN'S MARK OF DHARMA AND GRATITUDE  VADAKAYIL


To nourish the nagging wife’s spiritual needs, plant a garden.  Walk on the sea shore , with your bottomless enigma , if you are near one.

Some rock salt in satchels hidden in the bed room behind curtails or under the bed , absorbs negative energy. Incense we use in Hindu homes, is known to purify our space, raise our vibrations, protect us from negative influences and enhance our spiritual healing.  This prevents demons from the past  slaughtering your present.

Try and eliminate the fears in her life.  Fear and negativity sends creativity into hiding.

Hope must never die in the home. A home becomes a house when it is devoid of hope or even a vision. Pain is part of the process of moving from where you are to where you wanna be. 

Encourage dissent in your nagging wife.  Allow her  to voice resistance. When resistance is diverted it too often becomes covert and destructive.

If she is attending kitty partied or subscribing to women’s lib magazines— tell her to stop it. 

Presidents of Women Liberation Organisations , still demand that they must be first rescued from sinking ships.  Women’s lib magazines advise her to go through her life , demanding to see the manager.

It is your own fault, for you failed in some wisdom   “Respect yourself and others will respect you”.

At least you should strive to make the silence between you and your nagging wife to be comfortable.

When all you have tried has failed—because she is a shrew of the first order— either kick her out or think of the children and suffer her out.  Remember, she will still force you to yawn with your mouth closed or fart without smell.

Nagging is like living next to the airport—after a while you don’t notice it anymore.  And you wont get ulcers , if you know what I mean.


It is easier to put on slippers that to carpet the whole world.   “ Be yourself “ is obviously the worst advise you can give your shrew.   

When all else fails –there is always self delusion.   Happiness can be a  poor memory too.




MY NAGGING WIFE

Sometimes I like to sit and contemplate about things I like, just to destress
But then I am sure to be rudely interrupted by mE loud nagging wife
She will holler,  don’t just sit there you slob, there is plenty for you to do
As if on cue she will moan and surely pick up mE shoe and mE socks
What the hell is wrong with you,  whole day you sit around like a lazy bum
Moan moan moan , nag nag nag,  this endless routine goes all day long
Right from when I  get up from bed , till I drop back into a weary slumber
Why cant she just be quiet and leave mE poor head and mind alone,
All her nagging about this and that and everything is driving me up the wall  
Can't imagine she was once the sweet girl I adored and then fell in love
How she has changed to a shrew who aches for a chance to kick mE shin 


EVERY GIRL WHO WANTS TO GET MARRIED-- MUST READ THIS POST-- THIS IS HER MODERN DAY BIBLE -- THE QUALITY OF HER FUTURE LIFE BOILS DOWN TO THIS..



Grace and peace !



CAPT AJIT VADAKAYIL
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117 comments:

  1. Dear Ajit,

    You have started the topic in a brilliant way and will see the the final result.


    With best Wishes


    Sushanta Das

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  2. Dear Captain,

    I presume feminist dogs barking again.

    Regards
    Jayan

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  3. Hi Captain,

    Around 10 police Uniforms have gone missing now before Modi's Bangalore rally.
    It is sad that none of media is interested in reporting it, except for few of the local ones.

    I think they would be happy to report it post a mishap.

    Regards,
    Venkat

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  4. Captain,

    I had read the poem once and I read it again today. You are awesome. Salute...:)

    Regards,
    Shrinath

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  5. Sir,

    I think these days it'll be difficult to find a woman who will have this much common sense...All are busy proving their feminine strength which is nothing but ego.....

    Sir I have this strange fear of splitting up with would be woman (I am single) as I want to be with just one woman for the rest of my life but women of today are making it impossible to bare the cribbing.....I am a one woman man and not a dog....

    I acknowledge the female power but not the female ego.....Even Lord Shiv has acknowledged it.....

    I am just hoping to get a female and not an ego cannon otherwise it's better to be single for the rest of our lives.....

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    1. hi gk,

      a simple hindu ritual like KARVA CHAUT is an antidote to vicious nagging.

      have you seen the number of hindu indian men who attacked me for writing this post.

      well they cannot delete what they have written -- and it goes against them.

      punch into google search-

      KARVA CHAUTH, SYNCHRONISING THE FERTILITY CYCLE WITH THE MOON PHASE VADAKAYIL

      today the white man wants to marry a indian woman raised up in india-- at least they will have PEACE and happiness at home.

      capt ajit vadakayil
      ..

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    2. Sir,

      I do agree with you but feminist fanatics are going haywire over it....

      Taslima Nasreen goes on to say even the best and loveliest of traditions as patriarchy....Though I admire her courage and will....but I felt strange and lost my belief in her when she said that Homeopathy and Ayurveda are bullshit and unscientific.....

      This is not turning out to be a battle for equality but battle of the sexes.....

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    3. hi gk,

      ever since i posted nearly 3 years ago --

      punch into google search--

      FATHERS OF SURGERY AND MEDICINE 4200 BC - VADAKAYIL

      how to increase the blood platelet count with TENDER PAPAYA LEAVES , overnight -- the whole world is doing it.

      capt ajit vadakayil
      ..

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  6. pranam guruji,
    excellent post once again.in the morning today i had some discussion with one of my fillipino friend. he informed me usa sends relief full of 5 jumbo aircraft and no phillipino politicians authorized to touch it,they will directly provide it to the victims of super cyclone.he also said it proudly that the corrupt politicians should touch it.i asked him why,do u sold your nationalty in the hands of usa.they only wants to create a distrust among the ruler and people.i just adviced him go back sometimes acess ur past and compare with now,no social,family value,large no of single mothers.who created this.guruji already u mentioned in ur post.this is what they want to imply on india.they are attacking pur family,our culture,they will never suceed.
    regards
    \abinash

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  7. Hi Captain ... This post is just amazing.I love the way you describe things especially when it comes to women and their behavior and traits.

    The poem you have written is awesome.I can feel the nostalgia you would have had when you spoke about singing a song while mopping the coffee spilled staircase.Your cadets must be confused .. isn't it ?

    I am sure topics like these that you write will help a lot of men who are about to choose their life partner.Hindu marriages are indeed a life time commitment and there isn't a question of divorce.Once married, the couple stays together for the rest of their life.This is an amazing hindu concept of marriage.But it is a shame that many women these days (esp those in cities) doesn't seem to agree with these views.

    It will be very very hard and difficult for a man to find a simple kind woman these days without ego issues who is more in touch with her feminine qualities.But a nagging one is easily available all over.Hope men are careful and makes wise decision.Your blog post will definitely help them choose a better one.

    I am touched by your words when you describe that Sailors are the children of the Captain whom the captain takes care of 24 hours.You are indeed a wonderful captain.I am sure whichever sailor has served under your command is lucky and must have felt very safe in your hands.Doing a job as a duty is one thing.But loving and caring for a job is something special.

    One would wonder why don't honest desh bhakt dedicated people like you enter into politics ? .... If that was the case, India would have been different today.

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  8. Hi Captain,

    This is very true - "Socrates and Abraham Lincoln were famous people who went home only to sleep — as their wives were battle axe nags"

    Socrates tells - "By all means, marry. If you get a good wife, you'll become happy; if you get a bad one, you'll become a philosopher"

    Chanakya Neeti - "It is better to be without a kingdom than to rule over a petty one; better to be without a friend than to befriend a rascal; better to be without a disciple than to have a stupid one; and better to be without a wife than to have a bad one"

    Other Quotes from Chanakya Neeti on Good wives -

    i) Lakshmi, the Goddess of wealth, comes of Her own accord where fools are not respected, grain is well stored up, and the husband and wife do not quarrel"

    ii) When one is consumed by the sorrows of life, three things give him relief: offspring, a wife, and the company of the Lord's devotees.

    Great people have spoken through ages. We (the present generation) will have to learn from their experience and not reinvent the wheel again, to rediscover the above wisdom!!

    Regards,
    Venkat

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  9. Excellent article,

    a practical approach (or the lack of it) can make us realize heaven (or hell) in this very life.

    Captain,

    a disturbing event has happened in the past few days. On November 9, Tehelka hosted a seminar called Think 2013 which was addressed by Chidambaram. It was also attended by Mulla Abdul Zaeef, co-founder of Taliban and Robert Grenier, former director of CIA's Counter Terrorism Center.

    1. Taliban's topmost person gets Indian visa.

    2. India plays host to CIA-Taliban, as USA is trying to save its rear end from Afghanistan.

    3. By this move we embitter our relations with Afghanistan and Iran. Under waitress' rule now we have taken an almost pro-USA stance.

    4. Post 2014, USA would have quit Afghanistan and thousands of jobless (actually mindless) terrorists would go where? Of course, Kashmir!

    5. We are heading for an election in 2014 where unless BJP secures 250+ seats alone and Modi comes to power, it is going to be a bad situation.

    Captain, what do you think will happen? From middle east to Indian subcontinent, one wrong signal and unimaginable destruction.

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    1. hi,

      why has india allowed VISA ON ARRIVAL?

      visa on arrival has fuelled drug trafficking in goa. our univeristy towns are full of drug peddlers.

      a big chuck of drug funds go the the politicians.

      punch into google search-

      JEWISH RUSSIAN MAFIA VADAKAYIL

      capt ajit vadakayil
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    2. Dear Ajit,

      Is the " VISA ON ARRIVAL " Is only meant for Goa ?

      Only to peddle the illicit Drugs


      With best wishes


      Sushanta Das

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    3. hi skd,

      12 other indian airports have it- for more than 40 countries.

      and this includes switzerland-- who cocks a snook at india , wrt black money. now the swiss bankers will come to india to take signatures etc .

      capt ajit vadakayil
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    4. Dear Ajit,

      A good answer , can you please mention the name of other airports


      I know how Swiss Banks are being opened not following RBI Guide Line.


      To my knowledge Balasore is now going to be a hub of illicit Drug and I know how the east coast is now becoming the Center of drug Peddlers.


      With best Wishes


      sushanta Das

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  10. Hi Captain,

    Could you also please write about the duties and responsibilities of men too. What kind of proactive action should men take to break out of this cycle of negativity? Now the life of middle class in India under WTE has become such that both spouses need to work to in order to buy a house or to enjoy minimum luxurieṣ. I feel most of the conflict in households is due to thiṣ. The wife has to come home and the do all the cooking , taking care of the childrenś home work, paying bills on time and general cleanliness of the house Some may be blessed with good in laws who can take care of the household work but there are always exceptionṣ .
    Hence there is a lot of stress and negativity in middle income and lower middle income familieṣ. How can this cycle be brokeṇ.

    Thanks

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    1. hi e,

      if the woman is ALSO working, the man must either employ a maid/cook.

      if he cannot afford that extra expenditure -- then he has to share some household chores .

      he must be SELF STARTER rather than waiting for his wife to NAG him.

      if he cannot be a self starter , then he deserves what he gets from his harassed wife.

      capt ajit vadakayil
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  11. Captain,

    i apologize for digressing, but more good news. as you wanted contents not links posted, below i copy paste from TOI.

    QUOTE------

    SRIHARIKOTA: A minor fire broke out at the high security Satish Dhawan Space Centre (SHAR) at Sriharikota in Andhra Pradesh's Nellore district early on Thursday.

    Equipment worth about Rs 1.23 crore was reportedly damaged, but alert CISF personnel immediately informed the fire service department which controlled the flames from spreading to other places.

    SHAR director MYS Prasad has ordered a probe into the fire as it involved security concerns.

    Officials told TOI the blaze was contained immediately and there was no cause for concern.

    The fire occurred in the morning but Premier Explosives Limited (PEL), a private firm which supplies defence equipment, filed a complaint late in the evening. PEL has been managing solid propellant plant area for some time now. ISRO has leased out the supply of fuels, explosives and its management to the firm.

    PEL deputy general manager Prithviraj claimed he had reached the store around noon due to some preoccupation.

    He found crucial equipment and machinery gutted. But a senior staffer said only some electrical equipment was lost.

    ------UNQUOTE





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  12. This might be of interest, I always recommend the captain to western readers.

    http://aangirfan.blogspot.com/2013/11/the-cia-modi-and-gandhi.html

    Still one of the posts here was detailing " Sita Sings The Blues" I am still laughing captain because it is all so true. India has the same problems America and the all of the west for that matter faces. :)

    I love you guy

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  13. You are truly a voice in the wilderness

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  14. captain... (god you posts are so long and full of "western" memes and pictures)...
    Why do you ask your readers to "PUNCH" anything into google search. You can just ask them to "google it"... it is not a boxing match you know.

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    1. hi sj,

      my response ?

      TEEE HEEEEEEE !!

      capt ajit vadakayil
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    2. hi sj,

      ok--i will NOT leave you in the dark.

      did you check out the indian divorce percentage?

      does this give you that sneaky little feeling --

      that this post is NOT for indians --but for my foreign readers who constitute 89% of my blog's readership.

      why do the white men read my blogs when i keep shooting them with their own sh#t day after day?

      if this is abouve your comprehension--let me tell a joke.

      a lawyer was promoted and he became a high flying honourable judge.

      after one month he resigned.

      all were surprised-- for this was a post where you rub shoulders with the president, in parties. and the salary was fantastic.

      he said-

      I WOULD RATHER BULLSH#T THROUGHOUT THE DAY-

      RATHER THAN LIST TO BULLSH#T THROUGHOUT THE DAY.

      you should be able to figure it out now -- even a child can.

      or are you an animal?

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  15. HI Captain,

    You wrote about jews, congress, communists and who not, but let me tell you frankly that only to post these kinds need much braveness in our country as any politician/ celebrity would think twice before talking any thing about women and their behavior in modern india. In one of the sensation rape cases in AP , the ex DGP of HYd spoke some facts about current women's dressing style which is dragging some men to commit mistake and he pointed out that even it has reached villages now taking his own village as example. He was almost banged by mahila mandali folks there after for such comments which were actually nothing wrong. I'm really surprised to see no women commenting wrong about what you said.

    My actual question was ( which will really be helpful for the guys like me who will get married in years)

    Astrologers say that Kundali should match to have a perfect married life. How that two matched rasi people can only stay together happily. Is this fact or just cooked up?

    I feel it right because all the arranged marriages are based on kundali and 80% of them stay forever happily and around 10% though they have frequent quarrels the bonds still stay stronger and i see more than 50% of love marriages fail in India. The main aspect what i observed is , women respect men more in arranged marriage cases when compared to love cases.

    Would you suggest youth to also consider moon signs before getting married?

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    1. hi rd,

      i will be matching horoscopes when my elder son gets married.

      you think i am a fool?

      whatever little divorce percentage you see for india are the city bred CHRISTIANS -- who ape the west .

      capt ajit vadakayil
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  16. Dear Captain,
    Let me share from my personal experience,
    Case 1: (I'm sure this is a phenomenon local to certain regions of tamil nadu and maybe elsewhere in India with similar conditions)...Some districts in Tamil Nadu are highly polluted due to Dying industry and this has a direct connection with the fertility rates of men in this region...Some of my family friends circle got their girls married to sons of rich industrialists in these regions and they got separated within months of marriage...it turns out that the groom failed to inform the bridegroom about his impotence..The girl having discovered this separates and carries on with her life(in most cases) rather than filing for divorce ..In one such case the father of the girl was a professional astrologer and vasthu expert.
    Case 2: I personally know couples who live separated from each other for other reasons such as domestic issues and quarrels. In one such case the husband remarries without getting divorce without giving notice to his first wife. (against the law)
    Case 3: Husband has multiple wifes (example: Karunanidhi and many more).

    It seems to me that the institution of the traditional arranged marriage is loosing sanctity among urban masses regardless of build in safeguads like astrological matching. Perhaps the modern way of life has introduced so many negative factors that outweigh these safegaurds..?

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    1. Hi Naveen,

      Astrology is a science, if you give in wrong input data to it, it will deduce a completely wrong output and information. So if we go to an astrologer and give him wrong birth data, then he will give you a birth chart as per the wrong data!!

      Parents have to ensure that the correct birth date, time, place are recorded at the time of birth of child and the chart is prepared then only. So as the child grows, correction can be made based on the child's growth way of life, behavior, experiences of life etc.

      These things do not go wrong in families, which have a historical, ancestral tradition of capturing all the birth data of child and having its birth chart prepared. It is a family custom.

      Multiple marriages, pre-marital love relationships, live in relationships, love marriages, extra-marital affairs, death of a person so on, can be predicted from the accurate birth chart itself. The cases you have presented do exist in society.

      If doubt is there, then nothing wrong in seeking multiple opinions of different astrologers.
      There is no use in seeking multiple opinions with the wrong birth data. It is sheer waste!!

      Marriages fail when the deciding factor for families is based on money, power, status, job and other worldly things. For individuals, if it is just sexual attraction or some other matter of convenience.

      **Do not mistake me for an astrologer. My interest is limited only to seeking, finding and ensuring that I practice some divine remedies to overcome my own hardships/maladies of life**

      Thanks,
      Venkat

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    2. hi v,

      every atom within us depends on the rest of the cosmos. this is the basis for Vedic Jyothish or astrology.

      Quantum Physics which suddenly appeared in the 20th century -- as a direct result of ancient 7000 year old vedic sanskrit texts being translated by the christian invaders .

      matching horoscopes for marriage is NOT for placebo effect.

      the entire universe is in fact a single living conscious organism with complete awareness of itself.

      capt ajit vadakayil
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    3. Hi Captain,

      Thanks.
      You spoke the language of our Vedic Seers here.

      Regards,
      Venkat


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  17. Namaste Acharya

    today i was reading TOI in which i read about "Sun will 'flip upside down' within weeks, Nasa says" can you please explain about the flip and its effect on our lives particularly brain. willthe cosmic energy flow will increase .

    now the congress and the media are trying to falsely implicate AMIT SHAH.


    regards
    Nelson Singh

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    1. hi ns,


      the north pole has already changed sign, while the south pole is racing to catch up.

      the solar flip-flop coincides with the event known as “solar maximum,” a time when sunspot activity is especially intense, leading to huge solar flares and coronal mass ejections, which send bursts of particles screaming out into space.

      that upheaval, known quite appropriately as “space weather,” can trigger intense auroral displays (aka the Northern and Southern lights).

      the 11 yearly swap could however cause intergalactic weather fronts such as geomagnetic storms, which can interfere with satellites and cause radio blackouts.

      the pole reversal happens at the peak of each solar cycle as the sun’s “inner magnetic dynamo” reorganises itself.

      punch into Google search-

      POWER GRID FAILURE INDIA, APOCALYPSE NOW VADAKAYIL

      capt ajit vadakayil
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  18. hello captain I have read several article of yours both professional and spiritual , you have always taken
    interest to inform the people about scams and scandals and the media who takes people for a ride .
    But never I found any article about the fraud that is going on in the country in the name of MERCHANT NAVY.Many of the guys I know from especially from south have ruined thier career enrolling for CADETS and MARINE ENGINEERS and still there is no reduction in number of students enrolling for these courses .....sir could you please write an article about this to save innocent people who are un aware of this industry and fall into clutches of agents....

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    1. hi pm,

      i guess you are right.

      i was called by the MD of a company , to choose cadets for his company.

      after some persuasion--as i was on leave , i acquiesced.

      so me and the MD drove down from mumbai to lonavala .

      we were to choose a lot of cadets--but when i came to know that he misrepresented the number of the ships in his company-- i agreed to select only half the number he originally wanted.

      we were at lovavala for 2 days.

      later-- he persuaded me to work in their singapore office for setting up their chemical department.

      so after 2 months-- i day , i walked in into his office cabin and asked him--of the cadets i selected--how many have started sailing.

      he started to give bull-- and i cut him short-- for i knew the truth.

      i then gave him an ULTIMATUM and a dead line --which the whole office heard.

      --for i was involved in this FRAUD-- yes--i call it a fraud.

      all the chosen cadets were absorbed within the dead line.

      later i did a ship in this company.

      one if the cadets was telling me --VEREY DAY FRIENDS, RALITIVES AND NEIGBOURS USED TO INQUIRE , WHEN HE WILL START SAILING--

      AND HIS PARENTS WERE LITERALLY SICK AND TIRED OF TELLING " VERY SOON".

      you see they had already finished celebrating.

      these new sprung marine colleges do afe advertisements that they will ENSURE placement-- for which they do NOT have the wherewithal,

      yes-- it has been down right cheating.

      capt ajit vadakayil
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  19. Just a Saying i read in a book and felt like sharing
    Human truth is always flawed—realities are multiple and everyone has some degree of bias. The closest one might come to objectivity would be in the aggregate, which is why a disputed episode with time-honored phrase “Only God knows for sure.”

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    1. hi s,

      these fence sitters are napunkaks guys who get the prizes for popularity. but to be frank most of them don’t give a shit or are plain indecisive.

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  20. Hi Captain ...

    I was reading a news article in TOI about a Female law graduate alleging a sexual harassment against a recently retired male judge.

    Let me copy paste what the retired judge has to say about this ...

    Quote #####

    The advocate, ML Sharma, in his criminal writ petition said the sole purpose of "this comment in block (blog), her interview in legal India (Legally India), publication by Times of India and written petition (sic) by the Attorney General for action within Vishaka judgment is only to create a discussion to tarnish image and goodwill of the Supreme Court, its judges and their reputation under allegations of sexual harassment of ladies as societies sensitive upon ladies sexual harassment and do not like to hear any truth if such allegation is there (sic)."

    He added that he has "learnt through ancient books which has already disclosed and established several times that (a) lady never speak (the) truth. Even for a short benefit or for revenge for denial (of) her demand she can go up to any extent for revenge. No one can control her revenge/greed. Upon disclosure of truth she puts herself as a poor helpless in the world. All empires and fight happened due to her ego and greed (sic)."

    Unquote #####

    Captain .... His statements are indeed right.If we think of it, we would realize that all if not most of the war in the history has been fought because there is a Woman involved.The woman is either directly or indirectly involved in the brutal wars of history.The woman may have achieved revenge, satisfied her greed, fulfilled her ego ... But except for that what has the war achieved ? ... Millions of Men lost their lives .... Wife became Widowed ... Children became fatherless .... Parents lost their warrior son.War doesn't yield any good outcome unless it is fought for defending one's country which is in imminent threat.

    Captain ... It seems like Woman NGO's & other female organizations has once again begun their immoral allegations and acquisitions against innocent men (this case it is a retired judge of supreme court).The retired judge was right when he said that there are many foreign funded women's organization front that are trying their best to tarnish the image and goodwill of the supreme court.Such women are now using and abusing their "sexual harassment" weapon to use against men and are playing "victim card".

    I think that they want to give bad reputation to supreme court because they want indian people to NOT trust the supreme court or the judges.Thus their Judgements will also not be taken seriously.What if in the future after election all the congi politicians (from ower level to the top) are investigate and accused and punished by supreme court ? .... What if these criminal congis then claim and defend that supreme court judgement cannot be valid because the judges are involved in sexual harassment ? .... Are the criminals of this country trying to replace male judges with female judges who can then be easily corrupted and manipulated and can amend anti-national, anti-marriage laws/amendments ? ... Now are the foreign funded Christian NGO Fronts gonna deploy their paid female agents to hold protest against this retired judge across this country ? ... Are the criminals and traitors of india joined hands to make "Supreme Court" invalid and unconstitutional thus they can get away from any punishment ? ....

    If this is the situation for a retired supreme court judge, then how can a common man who is voiceless and powerless defend himself ? ... Is this a true democracy ?

    I know some of these may be far-fetched, but anti-national elements and espeicially the congis will go to any extent to ruin India and destroy its culture and religion.That's what they have been doing all these years in power since 1947.There is clearly some hidden agenda going on to show supreme court and its judges in the bad light.

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    1. Sir, i beg to differ. False witness and false materials will attract perjury u/s191 ipc.

      By the way, women do misuse law for their favor. I know a case, the husband wife were divorcee. She told her lawyer that her husband was allegedly involved in a bomb blast, the lawyer made a written complaint to the cops. And the police, kept riding his ass for days!

      False rape cases are also not unknown to our courts. Check out the case radhu vs state of mp. dowry and domestic violence laws can also be used as tools of tyranny, and women are well aware of it.

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  21. Dear Captain,
    If I'm not mistaken in one of your posts or comments section you mentioned that your last vote was for congress..? Why..? what triggered a change of heart..? (no offense or accusations intended!)

    Thanks,
    Naveen

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  22. Sir, is there any truth that freemasonry is real ?Do they actually rule the world ,or is it just a plain failed conspiracy theory ?

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    1. hi rc,

      punch into google search-

      FREEMASON LODGE OF CALICUT VADAKAYIL

      calicut is my hometown.

      capt ajit vadakayil
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  23. Dear Ajit,

    Yet another amazing post ! However this time Dear Sir , I have few questions about the same topic and some off topic questions. I do really hope that you will answer my questions .

    1. Suppose one were to marry a girl in case of arranged marriage , how would one come to know that the prospective bride may be a drip drip nagger ( considering that not all women / ladies nag )

    Off Topic questions :

    1. As of writing this mail you might have been well aware of the fact that govt has decided to honour Prof. CNR Rao and Sachin Tendulkar with Bharat Ratna . I have already read the post in which you have talked about Sachin , given that would you think since he is an MP too , he has been honoured with this
    award ?

    2. How legitimate is the question raised by the opposition regarding Bharat Ratna for Atal Bihari Vajapayee ? or what is your opinion on awarding Mr. Atal Bihari Vajapayee with Bharat Ratna ?

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    1. hi vk,

      atal bihari vajpayee has never been abused or heckled or drowned out by back ground noise in the indian parliament. .

      in indian politics this is something special.

      have you ever seen anybody attack our ex-president abdul kalam ?

      this comes out of earned respect.

      i remember once--he went to inspect an indian embassy abroad. the ambassador complained against his deputy to PM vaypayee. ( this is never done )-- that he drinks too much.

      as expected by protocol he censured the diplomat.

      then when he was about to leave -- he turned back as told the crestfallen diplomat --PIYO PIYO -and then he left.

      this shows he has leadership spirit. he has no family being a bachelor-- he gave his nation his all.

      who is more deserving?

      sachin tedulkar who overstayed his welcome by 3 years -- with connivance from BCCI and the ruling congress?

      cricket is played only by NINE AND A HALF countries on this planet.

      in arranged marriages -- the parents do a thorough back ground check.

      in hindu families how many wives nag? only working women or rich family women nag their husbands.

      yes-- there are some clinical cases -- where her hormones are out of whack--or she is a schizopheric.

      that becomes your bad luck-- if references keep you in the dark.

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  24. Hi Captain,
    Just watched rape of nanking video where japan soldiers raped thousands of chinese women. is this incident true of hyped from small incident. the images were disturbing though.

    Thanks
    SD

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    1. hi sd,

      punch into google search-

      DOCTOR DEATH SHIRO ISHII, EMPEROR HIROHITO AND QUID PRO QUO VADAKAYIL

      capt ajit vadakayil
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  25. Hello Captain Sir

    Wanted to share this Adi Sankara composition,on the auspicious Kartika Purnima day.

    http://www.sringeri.net/2009/11/20/stotra/subrahmanya/sri-subrahmanya-bhujangam.htm

    The composition was fairly difficult to even read in a flow. But post-familiarization, the vibrations were brilliant

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  26. Sir I read in the comment section someone arguing about AXIS Bank ownership . here is a link http://news.in.msn.com/business/axis-bank-to-be-foreign-owned-after-hike-in-overseas-investments-report

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  27. Don't know if this had caught your attention: Last week (I guess, or perhaps a couple of weeks back) Lata Mangeshkar expressed hope that Modi becomes PM. Predictably, soon a congi minister demanded that she be stripped of her Bharat Ratna (saying indirectly as "those who support communal forces should be stripped of the awards" or something like that). I wonder why she did not give it back - dignified silence, I guess. I wonder why nobody in the media has called this behaviour by the minister "intolerant"...?!!

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  28. Sir,

    Out of the topic question....

    I want to learn Sanskrit. Where Can I learn it from?

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    1. hi gk,

      employ a sanskrit tutor.

      or but a self help book.

      you can also download a MONIER MONIER WILLIAMS sanskrit dictionary on the internet.

      capt ajit vadakayil
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  29. Sir,

    These days there is this craze about that women prefer hairless men.....men been waxed and hairless is a bouncer for me...How can a man live without chest hair?

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    1. hi gk,

      your info is wrong !

      capt ajit vadakayil
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  30. Hi Captain,
    I've been reading your blog and find the articles an eye opener. Thanks. May I please request you to write about the Somnath temple in Gujarat? I recently had the opportunity to have the darshan of Somnath again. Have been looking around for books to know more about the place; pains me to know so many Hindus laid down their lives fighting to protect it. And many of us in the present day aren't even aware of the significance of this place.
    Thanks
    Amit

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  31. Guruji, Extremely happy to read that Mr. Modi reached out to disheartened Scientist Nambinarayan and talked to him about his greivances and plea for justice. Now I am convinced the big M is indeed reading your blogs. Jai Bharat, Shrestha Bharat.

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  32. Talking about cricket and Tendulkar who is your favorite cricketer. ?

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    1. hi nk,

      in childhood ajit wadekar-- later srikkant-- later kambi-- then sehwag-- now viraat kohli.

      GRAFTERS who play for themselves , can never excite me.

      capt ajit vadakayil
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  33. Dear Captain,
    Is the "black cat crossing your path equals bad luck" a western superstition or is it a Indian belief..? If it's a genuine ominous premonition what does it signify and is there any parihara to rectify this..? I've had this happen to me 5 times in the path 2 months! Please advice.

    Thanks,
    Naveen

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    1. hi n,

      in india if a black cat crosses your path-- it means -

      IT IS GOING SOMEWHERE .

      capt ajit vadakayil
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    2. Guruji,

      "IT IS GOING SOMEWHERE" That gave me a hell of laugh. I was seriously going through the content and it's suddenly like ice cream on sizzling brownie.

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  34. Hi Guruji,
    I have been following your blog since almost an year and you have really influenced me by your blogs. sir is there anyway that I can write to you on your advise regarding my personal issue other than this platform..please let me know as its very important for me to get your valuable advise. Regards, PP

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    1. hi p,

      you can choose one of my old posts --and comment on it.

      capt ajit vadakayil
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  35. Hi Mr.Vadakayil Im 24 years old male I'm suffering from severe hair loss, I tried many medicines and oils but it is of no use still im loosing my hairs is there any natural methods to stop hair loss like yoga or any other method if there any please mention.. I'm waiting for your response...

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    1. hi dg-

      punch into google search-
      HAIR LOSS PREVENTION AND BALDNESS CURES VADAKAYIL

      capt ajit vadakayil
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  36. Namasthe Ajitji,

    Now, there is another airport @ Aranmula is planned in Kerala. I feel there is some conspiracy to destroy our state. What do you think on this subject?

    Krishnadev

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  37. Namaste Ajit Sir , you would obviously unaware about that i am your greatest of greatest fan or follower of yours , as belong to a patriotic family background , so i when were i get little bit of time out of my job , i keep on searching about past history about our country or incident which happen in our country which have change and we are sufferring as citizen . i have read many of your post , but not all, each i read your post , i get annoyed , because ditch as citizen we have faced , and you will be surprise to know, that i circulated to all my friend , colleagues, family , that you should know the truth.Sir with all my heart , i wish to talk to you , listen you as follower, i am sure will not dishearten me , do give your number on my mail id amit_bitu@yahoo.com , you can find on fb & twitter. waiting for your reply.

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    1. hi am,

      you will have to communicate with me via the comments column.

      i can delete it for you later-- you can choose an old post, so that other readers do NOT read what you write.

      capt ajit vaadkayil
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  38. Capt. Ajit Vadakayil

    January 17, 2014 at 11:34 AM
    hi t,

    A woman may spend the majority of her life riding the waves of hormones – from PMS in her teens to the whirlwind of menopause in her 50’s.

    Estrogen is one hormone that is affected during menopause; the decrease of estrogen can result in several menopausal symptoms. Hormones, such as estrogen, influence the production of serotonin, which is a mood regulating neurotransmitter. When serotonin level is high, your mood soars; when it is low, so is your mood.

    Some common symptoms of menopause include hot flashes, headaches, vaginal dryness, and mood swings.

    If you may find your children more annoying and your co-workers frustrating, you actually are experiencing one of the most common symptoms of menopause mood swings. Mood swings are also associated with Pre Menstrual Syndrome (PMS).

    Mood swings happen during menopause and also at the beginning and end of your menstrual cycle. There is no great difference in the science behind them - both are caused by hormonal imbalances in the body. However, mood swings during menopause can last longer.

    To help control your mood swings you should make sure you communicate fully with those around you. Let them know how you're feeling. Knowing that they understand what you are experiencing ,they may ACCOMMODATE you.

    Practice Pranayama and Yoga . Increasing fruit and vegetable intake and reducing consumption of meat has benefit in management of mood swings.

    Mood swings are caused by fluctuating estrogen and progesterone levels,. It is common in the west to prescribe hormone replacement therapy (HRT) to treat this fundamental imbalance. I must warn you that this can cause breast and ovarian cancer.

    By eating a balanced diet rich in foods that boost serotonin levels, and by avoiding mood-crashing sugary foods and excessive amounts of caffeine, it is possible to stabilize mood levels to some degree. Eat more carbohydrates to boost serotonin levels.

    Foods high in protein, such as fish, and yoghust , cheese may help women to cope with mood swings. Drink plenty of water. Get plenty REM sleep . Avoid stress.

    Spending time with loved ones boosts a woman's levels of oxytocin, which is a feel-good hormone that counteracts mood imbalance—this could be a loved one or even a pet.

    Like most menopausal symptoms, mood swings tend to disappear after a woman reaches menopause. However, they can persist into her postmenopausal years.Up to 80% of women going through menopause suffer from mood swings.

    Common Symptoms of Mood Swings
    • Frequent mood changes
    • Unexplainable emotions
    • Depression
    • Sadness
    • Lack of motivation
    • Extreme moods
    • Irritability
    • Aggression
    • Decreased patience
    • Increased stress
    • Anxiety
    • Nervousness
    • Melancholy queen prize with tender breasts, constipation, and nausea.

    Menopausal Causes of Mood Swings
    • Night sweats
    • Hot flashes
    • Physical changes
    • Fatigue


    Psychological Factors
    • Past mental illness
    • Stress
    • Past trauma
    • Relationship issues
    • Coping with change

    Hormones can affect a woman's mood throughout her lifetime. Sometimes the impact on mood can affect a woman's quality of life.

    Your natural levels of another female hormone, progesterone, also change with the menopause, and this hormone is mainly to blame for premenstrual syndrome (PMS).
    Menopause is defined as the permanent cessation of the menses. Perimenopause is defined as the transitional period from normal menstrual periods to no periods at all. At this time menstrual periods gradually lighten and become less frequent. The transition to complete menopause may last anywhere from a few months to a few torrid years

    ow you know why some women leaders build ugly statues of themselves.

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  39. Hi SirJi,

    Though I like all your posts. But this one Iam must say is not very convincing.
    Iam married for 20 Yrs now, and Iam equally triumphant of having anchored my family well, similar to the way you have detailed above, with my own MODULATIONS to it.
    I feel you have blatantly attacked women's nature and put yourself (I mean a man) in good light.
    I will not claim( like you have), that I never had my share of rough weather (nagging) in my marital tenure.
    Initial 2 yrs was not that great ( we are HINDU and MARRIAGE was arranged).Then I was forced to venture into analytical spin and gradually steered my vessel to safety( with out surrendering my values as a MAN)
    NOW ,THIS IS WHAT AN AVERAGE MARRIED MAN NEEDS TO HAVE AN ADVICE ON.
    Your post I admit does have ingredients required for a man to adopt so as to ensure a happy family.
    But the stuffs are very scattered and not guiding well, I feel.
    Iam writing this , coz, i feel you have written this post for the benefit of married people.
    Would be great if you can post a crisp and practical advice, keeping men's generic nature in mind.
    Every one cannot be a Capt.Ajith Vadakkayil to apply your theories which are specific to your nature.
    Its like, a cadet must learn from his Chief Officer or Master.But some cadets get over-impressed by their Chief Officers or Masters and try to imitate them in their professional and personal lives as well. The result is generally disastrous.They will end up being useless to his organisation. They can neither be themselves nor imitate their role model correctly, coz their(his Role Models) ways are specific to their nature. It is not generic.
    So, my point is, men must handle their wives/family members basis the above post, choosing the ways which will suit their nature.

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  40. Cap, How does one proactively prevent one's wife from nagging especially when both are newly married and the relationship is in its infancy stages where both are learning each other's boundaries. I believe this is the best time to set boundaries and let other person know what is acceptable and what is not. Like for instance, if the wife starts nagging in the beginning of the marriage, then if the husband can correct way ahead in the beginning itself, then the nagging will be, if not completely gone, a little less anways. So how does an husband go about doing it? It seems that nowadays, even non working woman nag because of the macro effect of the media/ society. Even if the husband is a good listener and a proactive guy, even then there is always something that he is faulted with. How does s husband be 'smart' and stop this nagging right in its infancy stages? Pl advise. 1) He could immediately show anger which will tell the woman that such behaviour is not tolerated but then this could build a feeling of revenge inside the wife only to burst out later- 2) He could totally ignore her and walk away- this again is classic problem avoidance only to burst out later 3) he sits and listens to her and keeps saying sorry and try to pacify which will in the long run make him a patsy 4) He does somethign else radical which is what I am seeking your advice on.

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    1. hi rs,

      from day ONE the husband must NOT tolerate nagging.

      BUT--

      first he must check out if she has a genuine point--which is just repeating UNPALATABLE TRUTH regularly -- like he stinks , he should wash his balls or wherever.

      MARRIAGE IS A COMPROMISE -- SOMETIMES YOU MUST YIELD , IF THE WOMAN IS WORTH IT.

      if both of you can laugh together every day -- if you run your PISTON properly-- and she can respect you, and look up to you -- such nagging should NOT make a dent .

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  41. One more question in response to your comment, Captain-

    You said from day one, the man should not tolerate nagging- well, as you would know, for him not to tolerate nagging, he must either retaliate back or ignore her both of which results in a cold war kind of situation. Women have a greater tendency to sulk and carry on this cold war more than a man and this creates a very bad tension in the home which ultimately the man cannot bear and he tends to try and pacify so everyone can move on with life- But a woman, for whom her ego and the feeling in her small head that 'she is right' is more important, tend to carry this cold war forever which men, who tend to see things more in the long run, cannot compete with. Your idea/ comments are welcome.

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    1. hi rs,

      read my post again.

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  42. Hi Cap, Ok , i will try and get my answers from your post again. Actually, I am reading it more carefully now to see if I can glean the answers I seek, myself.

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  43. STOP PRESS:

    TODAY WE HAVE MOTH EATEN FACES FIGHTING FOR THE RIGHT OF INDIAN WOMEN TO WEAR BIKINI OR BEACHES--

    the TV anchor substituting for arnab goswami -- instead of mediating as an anchor was driving home his own ideas--about indian men's MIND SETS .

    THE MOST VEHEMENT WAS RANJANA KUMARI - SHE LITERALLY CALLED RAHUL EASHWAR AN IDIOT .

    HEY, RANJANA KUMARI-- EVEN AT THE AGE OF 18 IF YOU HAD WORN A BIKINI NO MEN WOULD HAVE LOOKED AT YOU .

    who is ranjana kumari -- a prime time TV favourite of our supari fed TV channels?

    Even Arnab Goswami does NOT interrupt her.

    Ranjana Kumari is National General Secretary of the women’s organization Mahila Dakshata Samiti, , advisor to the Ministry of Labor, Government of India and Coordinator of South Asian Forum for Women's Political Empowerment.

    She is also a member of the National Mission for Empowerment of Women by the Prime Minister of India

    Pea brained Dr. Ranjana Kumari has also been a member of the Task Force on Industrial Relations for The International Labour Organisation (ILO) in Geneva— a R sponsored post. Read this para twice.

    The National Commission for Women (NCW) is a statutory body for women established in 1992 by Government of India. This body allows the playing field to be tilted towards the female gender AGAINST THE PROVISIONS OF OUR CONSTITUTION. In January 2007, the NCW mindlessly ruled that the law cannot be changed to make adulterous wives equally prosecutable by their husbands.

    Do you have any idea how many indian woman have extra-marital affairs ?

    The mathematical ratio is 50:50 — and math does NOT lie.. A man needs a woman to accept his thing in with great glee ( or else it becomes rape ).

    However the NCW insisted that women are never offenders. They are always the victims— going against the PURE laws of mathematics and perception.

    I LEARNT MY LESSON 35 YEARS AGO.

    As a junior officer , once I saw my usually cheerful colleague moping around-- in deep depression. He had neglected his watch and made critical mistakes which could affect safety of life on the ship. So I asked him , whatver happened.

    He wept and said " Captain's 11 year old daughter told me today morning -- give me chocolates or I will tell daddy that you pulled down my knickers. Now who is gonna believe me - everybody will believe her . She looks so angelic and cute. I look like a villain "

    I SUPPORT MULAYAM SINGH YADAV WHO SAID THAT WOMEN MAKE FALSE COMPLAINTS OF RAPE AGAINST MEN – AND IF A RAPE CHARGE IS PROVED WRONG, THEN THE WOMAN SHOULD BE PUNISHED SEVERELY .

    we need people like rahul eashwar -to take on big brother's SUPARI FED stooges !

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  44. r
    September 3, 2014 at 1:11 AM
    guruji pranam

    i have B12 defeciency, pls help me out on this. alaways thnaks

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    Capt. Ajit Vadakayil
    September 3, 2014 at 5:00 AM
    hi r,

    When vitamin B12 is low, normally rapidly dividing blood cells are not able to effectively reproduce their DNA, leading to abnormally big cells.

    This phenomenon, called macrocytosis, is often the first way doctors suspect problems with the vitamin.

    VEGETARIANS MUST GUARD AGAINST B12 DEFICIENCY —ESPECIALLY BABIES BORN TO VEGETARIAN MOTHERS.

    Yoghurt , cheeseand eggs have B12. For non-veg people sardines ( fish )is very good.
    Vitamin B12 is necessary in the production of multiple neurotransmitters.

    Low levels of vitamin B12 can impair production of serotonin, a neurotransmitter linked to mood control and depression.

    Not having enough Vitamin B12 can lead to anemia, which means your body does not have enough red blood cells to do the job. This can make you feel weak and tired. Add B12 to your diet for increased energy and not for weight loss.

    The most common cause of vitamin B12 deficiency symptom IN PEOPLE WHO ARE NON-VEG is not a dietary deficiency, but a problem related to malabsorption. This condition is called pernicious anemia,

    The liver can store three years worth of vitamin B12 under normal conditions.

    B12 vitamins are found in NON VEG foods and not in VEG foods. It is in liver, oysters, mussels, fish, crab , lamb, cheese and eggs.

    Anaemia is caused by a lack of vitamin B12.

    Unfriendly bacterial growth and parasites in intestine cause B12 deficiency.

    B12 deficiency may occur at 500–600 pg/mL—so take your readings from two different labs.

    EVIL PHARMA makes fake claims that B12 can be used as a weight loss supplement .

    B12 does help metabolize fat and protein but not in large enough quantities where it actually causes weight loss.

    Vitamin B12 is only produced in bacteria TEE HEEE !

    Punch into Google search-
    PROBIOTICS, PREBIOTICS, FRIENDLY GUT BACTERIA VADAKAYIL

    A deficiency of vitamin B12 can lead to vitamin B12 deficiency anemia. A mild deficiency may cause only mild, if any, symptoms.

    But if untreated, it may cause symptoms such as:

    Weakness, tiredness, or light-headedness
    Rapid heartbeat and breathing
    Pale skin
    Sore tongue
    Easy bruising or bleeding, including bleeding gums
    Stomach upset and weight loss
    Diarrhea or constipation

    Vitamin B12 deficiency can happen if you have certain conditions, such as:---

    Atrophic gastritis, in which your stomach lining has thinned

    Pernicious anemia, which makes it hard for your body to absorb vitamin B12. Every day, our bodies dump out a small percentage of stored vitamin B12 into the bile and the intestine.

    Luckily, we are usually able to reabsorb most of this vitamin B12 back into the body; yet people with pernicious anemia are not able to do this as well.

    Surgery that removed part of your stomach or small intestine, including weight loss surgery ( like arun jaitley )

    Conditions affecting the small intestine, such as Crohn's disease, celiac disease, bacterial growth, or a parasite

    Heavy drinking

    Immune system disorders, such as Graves' disease or lupus

    Long-term use of acid-reducing drugs

    Note: NERVE DAMAGE that happened due to B12 deficiency could be permanent. The insulation sheath about nerve fibers begins to break down, making it harder for signals to get to the periphery. As you might guess, symptoms first become apparent in the hands and feet, and then progress toward the brain.

    Vitamin B12 is the only vitamin that contains a metal (cobalt).

    Vitamin B12 is a necessary co-factor for the production of DNA, the genetic material that acts as the backbone of all life. This process requires folate and vitamin B6, as well, and disruptions of any of these nutrients can lead to problems.

    The diagnosis of vitamin B12 deficiency is often dependent on problems with DNA production.

    in south india vegetarians finish off their meals with bacteria ridden curd .

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  45. Capt. Ajit Vadakayil
    October 15, 2014 at 7:00 PM
    STOP PRESS:

    I AM WRITING THIS AS I PROMISED ONE OF MY READERS 45 MINUTES AGO-- HE RAN UP TO ME DURING MY MORNING WALK--

    HE WANTED TO KNOW OUT OF MY 300 PLUS SCOOPS IN MY NEARLY 845 ODD POSTS--WHICH IS NO 1 AND WHICH IS NUMBER 300.

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    well let me make it clear , these 300 scoops are CONSTRUCTIVE SCOOPS .

    all these 300 scoops are in the plane of INVENTION and NOT innovation.

    none of these 300 scoops are DESTRUCTIVE -- so my posts proving that edison, newton, darwin, einstein etc are IDIOTS does not find a place in these scoops.

    so waht could be the no 1 scoop?

    it is about providing a HINT on how to make a astronaut hibernate while travelling to mars -to cut down on food and water .

    it is about keeping alive a seriously wounded soldier till he can find proper medical care.

    punch into Google search-
    HIBERNATION WITH HYDROGEN SULPHIDE GAS VADAKAYIL

    and

    FUMAROLES FOR FREE ENERGY AND HYDROGEN SULPHIDE SUICIDES IN JAPAN VADAKAYIL


    one of my russian chief engineers who lived near siberia , a place infested with HUGE bears had once woken up a bear while on hibernation in a cave ( as a child ) and he told be how furious the animal was. Before they go into months of hibernation they would kill a large animal ( bury the dead animal it in the ground ) and would NOT eat it unless it became putrid , reeking of rotten eggs..

    WELL WHAT WOULD BE NO 300 RANK.

    it is about PIN WORMS on as$hole.

    Check out the comment dated 18th Dec 2013 , about surcharging the anus with oxygen 5 times a day to prevent pinworms disrupting your REM sleep. This is a 6000 year old Ayurvedic cure for pinworm which happens when you eat non-veg heavy meats and do NOT wash your as$hole after a crap.
    Punch into Google search-
    VEDIC PRACTISES IN MECCA VADAKAYIL

    If I were a white JEW, I would have been an international celebrity. but then who cares?

    I have reached a stage where ONLY I can evaluate myself--

    one of my DUTCH bosses tried to patronise me nearly 2 decades ago -- he said he has given me a good confidential service report-

    so i told him something in Hindi -- with its translation.

    VADAKAYIL KHUD QUESTION PAPER SET KARTA HAI !

    VADAKAYIL KUD EXAM LIKTHA HAI !!

    VADAKAYIL KHUD NUMBER DETA HAI !!!

    capt ajit vadakayil sets his own exam question paper, he writes the exam , and then he gives himself the marks .

    THIS IS THE MEANING OF LIBERATION.

    believe me -- that man hugged me ( NO patronising here ) and said -- he expected such an frank retort from me .

    he said- every other captain would have said thank you .

    he was told to enter into this dialogue by the single man owner of that shipping company . this was about my " CUT THE CRAP " EMAILS -- where i would point out that the EMPEROR IS NAKED .

    99% of the people will NOT even understand the wisdom and gravity of the statement above.

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  46. Ramesh Rattihalli
    October 20, 2014 at 1:47 PM
    Dear Capt.

    Thank you very much. Got clarity on lot of things... specially the Kaal - Sarp Yoga.

    Sir, frankly speaking, most of us have stopped looking at google and wiki for the Sanatana Dharma, after started reading your blogs, and getting correct knowledge about our Dharma. We feel we have been cheated for so many years... even my daughter said the same in very depressed tone, Papa we have been cheated by our own schools, teachers and society by giving us wrong knowledge about our country, culture and our own religion. Now in such condition you are the only one to give correct knowledge and guidance.
    In future I will try to avoid questions of such nature.

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    Capt. Ajit Vadakayil
    October 20, 2014 at 4:49 PM
    hi rr,

    why has WIKIPEDIA gone to extreme lengths to comment on every aspect of hinduism?

    because their only agenda is to make the hindu SELF LOATHING .

    and they have been successful .

    almost every hindu organisation in india is funded from abroad .

    did we NOT have a TRIPLE SRI say on NDTV that hindusim allows homosexuality ?

    did he not tell barkha dutt and karan thapar that lord ayyappa , the 9th avatar of vishnu was the product of a homosexual union between shiva and vishnu.

    this man who pretends to be holy, does NOT even know that shiva and vishnu are cosmic force fields - personalised as myths .

    shiva and vishnu are sodomising each other - putting prick into as$hole ? and we still respect this man ?

    and did he not try to fool the stupid IIT students with some magic fu#kin' oil ?

    he has deleted all videos on the internet- but i have provided two pictures of TRIPLE SRI fooling , the student with black horizontal white stripe T shirt .

    http://ajitvadakayil.blogspot.in/2013/12/ipc-section-377-love-lust-perversion.html

    I WANT ALL MY READERS TO SEE THESE TWO PICTURES .

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    Capt. Ajit Vadakayil
    October 20, 2014 at 4:55 PM
    ALL READERS--

    I HAD FOOLED A FEMALE IN THE GYM USING THE SAME METHOD OF TRIPLE SRI, TWO YEARS BEFORE HE DID IT.

    SO I KNOW.

    I WORE A BRACELET AND THIS GIRL WANTED TO KNOW WHAT IT IS .

    since this girl was VERY vain,i decided to fool her and said --it balances my left and right brain lobes.

    and then i made her stand on one leg-- destabilised her with my finger.

    then i made her wear my bracelet.

    by now the entire gym of 20 people were watching us in a circle.

    then i pretended to try and push her off with both my hands -- the is trickery in this .

    i could not ( TEE HEEEEE !)--she was sort of WOW !

    and all wanted to but that bracelet off my hand-- any amount ,, kich bhi--and some of them were very rich.

    TRIPLE SRI just used magic ( sic ) oil.

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  47. STOP PRESS:

    ALMOST ALL OUR HINDU FESTIVALS , RITUALS, PRACTICES , HYMNS, KIRTANS ARE OF "GRATITUDE".

    now the western lunatic asylums and mental homes, try this method in a stupid manner.

    they make these patients repeat -- I AM GRATEFUL TO THE SUN, I AM GRATEFUL TO THE MOON, I AM GRATEFUL TO DICK, I AM GRATEFUL TO PRICK - NAY-- TOM--

    we are proud of our ancient indian culture-- we are proud of being born in india -- we are proud of the deep happiness in our homes --

    remember all things of great value are FREE.

    http://ajitvadakayil.blogspot.in/2011/09/proud-to-be-hindu-proud-to-be-indian.html


    Gratitude is the noblest of all virtues.

    Ungrateful people are always jealous and greedy—like the decadent west. Ungrateful people, bites the hand that feed them.

    Yet they make fun of us for touching our patents feet or a wife observing karva chauth.

    Even concealing a kindness received is ingratitude. Conveniently forgetting it is even a greater sin. We gave shlter to the Jews for 3000 years—yet they are ungrateful and robbed us blind.

    Gratitude has the strongest link with mental health of any trait. Grateful people experience very deep levels of happiness.

    Gratitude is not only the greatest virtue, but is is the parent of all other human virtues. Gratitude is the most beautiful and fragrant flower, in the garden of your soul.

    Gratitude has a unique relationship with your mental and physical health. Grateful people are happier, less stressed and happier with social relationships.

    Grateful people have better self acceptance and are at peace with themselves. They have more positive ways to cope up with difficulties, and are more likely to seek help.

    They are less likely to avoid a problem, blame themselves and then get drunk or use drugs--for they sleep better, having less negative chatter in their minds.

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  48. SUBJECT : Why all Indian men should know how to cook .
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    IN INDIA OUR WIVES DO NOT ALLOW US TO ENTER THE KICTCHEN, LEAVE ALONE COOK .

    WE ARE PROUD OF OUR CULTURE !

    FU#K THE WESTERN DECADENCE !

    punch into Google search-
    NAGGING, UNHAPPINESS AT HOME , DEATH OF MARRIAGE VADAKAYIL .

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  49. Hi Cap, I am an avid reader of your blogs. Can you pl delete this comment once you have answered it. I am a 39 year old married Hindu male living here in North America. I was single for a long time before I got married through arranged marriage. I was in fact living happily single and always thought that if I get married, i will be more happier (seeing all my friends). Now after 1 year of marriage, I am finding that it is not so. My wife, though she is from a good family and is a nice person, is prone to lot of bickering and cribbing and she unjustly accuses me (gently) of course of trying to be stingy when in fact I am not or accuses me of dominating her when in fact I am far from dominating. What I can understand is that she has been programmed by the society to brand every 'man' as bad and something they need to always be careful about. She is from a functional family with one sibling etc and is a homemaker presently and is not a working woman. I thought if i marry a non working woman, i will be subject to less drama but now I am realising that is not the case as every woman today is using their 'weak feminine' status to gain an edge in the relationship and as you say in your blog, all this is just in her own head and is her own creation. I am not the enemy even though she wants to believe so.
    Believe, she does make a good meal atleast twice a day and we do have good times but sometimes i think to myself the following and which i present to you as questions for you to answer and provide me wisdom from your vast experience of not just being a man of this world but also an elder brother who has managed a household with wife and two sons:

    1) Was I not better off single? Did I really need to get married? Did I just create more problems for myself in an attempt to create more happiness? What will I gain out of marriage if I am subject to so much cribbing and bickering? Is there some ultimate happiness like say maybe fatherhood or companionship in older age for which putting up with this is justified?
    2) how do I manage my spouse? Believe me, she is not a 'shrew' by any means but there are moments when she picks a non issue and blows it up into a mahabharat and uses vile language just to win argument and basically spoils the entire atmosphere at home.

    Your valuable thoughts are most welcome and needed.

    R

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    1. hi rts,

      you are NOT alone.

      we indians are lucky that our wives are NOT as bad as the white women.

      take a printout of this blog and tell her to read it.

      after two days discuss it with her.

      marriage is a HUGE compromise.

      as long as you run your piston well till you get a child she will be in control.

      once she gets a child her priorities will shift.

      after you read this tell me to delete it.

      TELL YOUR WIFE, NAGGING MAKES YOU UNHAPPY AND YOU ARE UNABLE TO CONCENTRATE AT WORK.

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  50. Hi Captain, Thank you for your valuable insights. I just want to further ask you on one more aspect which I want to take your valuable thoughts on: Is marriage really necessary for a man or is he better off single than staying married to such women who want to use their 'feminine' status to keep an 'imaginary' edge on the relationship thereby denying themselves the happiness of a companionship? What is the 'compromise' that you refer to when you say 'Marriage is a huge compromise'? Compromise for what benefit on the other end? Would you pl offer your valuable thoughts on this?

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    1. hi rts,

      do NOT marry a chutney mary !

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  51. Great post has been posted here by you on nagging and unhappiness, found it informative to read.How to make him commit is one of the useful site which will really liked by the girls who were looking for the marriage.

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  52. I have read most of the blogs here. All blogs are very effective. One more site is there for girls i.e. how to improve your marriage.

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  53. SUBJECT : Indian couples have less sex?
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    http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/life-style/relationships/man-woman/Indian-couples-have-less-sex/articleshow/9943548.cms

    THE INDIAN COUPLE IS BONDED BY LOVE . . .
    THEIR DECADENT WESTERN COUNTERPART IS BOUND BY LUST . . .

    The bharatiya naari gives herself in gratitude to her to her husband and children and is fulfilled by seeing them thrive and receiving their love, respect and gratitude.
    . .

    Indian men instinctively protect their women and will even sacrifice their lives in this process, the way it is programmed in his DNA. . . . .

    Sex is the symbol of this exclusive divine bond meant to procreate rather than for pleasure . . .. . Orgasm from LOVE ( and not LUST ) electrically charges healthy sperm , and hence the off spring will NOT be a depraved homosexual .. . . ..

    In contrast ,the western woman have nothing left to exchange for love but sex. Thus, many are unnaturally obsessed with appearance , putting plastic inside their bodies and pathetically give their bodies to all and sundry. . . .

    Displacing men in the traditional role of providers destabilizes the family. ...The new world order uses BENAMI Indian media for foul propaganda , that women are exhorted that self-fulfillment lies in career success and not husband and family . . .

    Many women in India have become schizophrenic as they attempt to reconcile their natural motherly instincts with constant exhortations to do the opposite. . .

    Zionist owned sex magazines constantly tell men, you don’t need to own a cow to drink milk You don't need to get married to have sex. . Marriage and children are a bore and a chore. . . .

    In most foreign funded Indian TV channels a woman anchor will lose her job is she wears sindoor, bindi or a mangalsutra. . . .

    God's love can be seen in a woman's dedication to her husband and children. I would like all my readers to stop reading and reminisce the love your mother gave you. . ..

    I ask Indian bachelors, ensure that you marry a woman who can take care of you and your children. This is more important than good looks. . . .

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  54. Capt. Ajit VadakayilFebruary 27, 2015 at 3:43 PM
    hi sk,

    an indian woman is a homemaker.

    she has succeeded in life is she could sustain happiness and harmony in her home.

    she has been able to feed her children and her husband well ( NOT THE WAY A CHUTNEY MARY WILL DO BY HAVING A DOZEN SERVANTS ).

    she can teach her children and help them in their homework. she shows a great willingness to make sacrifices and working at settling differences .

    my sons who has been mothered and brought up the ideal way, will never ever fall prey to big brother’s schemes. a man’s greatest sorrow is to watch his own son wasting away in decadence.

    chutney marys are exhorted by the NWO that self-fulfillment lies in career success and not husband and family.

    displacing men in the traditional role of providers destabilizes the family.

    many women in India have become schizophrenic as they attempt to reconcile their natural motherly instincts with constant exhortations to do the opposite.

    zionist owned sex magazines constantly tell men—you don’t need to own a cow to drink milk you don't need to get married to have sex. marriage and children are a bore and a chore.

    bachelors – ensure that you marry a woman who can take care of you and your children. this is more important than good looks--and the fact that she earns good moolah . moolah cannot bring happiness in the home.

    do NOT allow big brother and his BENAMI media and their perception moulders , to bring you and your wife 'head-to-head' ( miserable one upmanship ) in an artificially created conflict, to create a synthesis of the two 'gender roles'.

    MOST OF THESE MOTH EATEN FACES HAVE NO HAPPINESS IN THEIR HOMES--

    MOST OF THESE MISANTHROPES DONT EVEN HAVE CHILDREN- WHAT IS THEIR STAKE IN THE FUTURE OF THE NATION OR THIS PLANET?

    In the late 1960s, the NWO introduced feminism it was like lobbing a grenade into every home.

    the divorce rate skyrocketed. most feminists today argue that feminism was a natural out-growth of the medical advances in birth control, but their arguments do not explain why feminism became such a media darling or why the NWO gave it so much free advertising.

    india has the lowest divorce / rape / homosexual percentage on this planet-- the west is jealous of the happiness and tranquility of Indian homes.

    feminism is merely a big brother created cancer that serves to systematically denigrade both men and women at the same time, hence weakening the moral fibre of the human race.

    its advocates are sanctimonious charlatans who have grown rich and powerful from it. they include a whole class of liars and moral cripples who work for the elite in various capacities: government, education and the media.

    none of these moth eaten faces who are rooting for gay rights, have ever experienced TRUE love. they do NOT even know the difference between love and lust. have you checked out the FAKE body language of the debauched people who participated in AIB ROAST ?

    after a homosexual pervert has climaxed in a crowded bus, the first thing she/ he tries to do is to escape at the next bus stop.

    lust is what a man feels when he goes to a whore. he will NOT even wait for the whore to dress up.

    men have fought great wars over lust, but they all come back home for ONLY for love. he has this this feeling that life would be totally empty without his wife waiting for him back home...

    http://ajitvadakayil.blogspot.in/2010/05/marriage-sans-fights-capt-ajit.html

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  55. http://idiva.com/photogallery-relationships/15-marriage-rules-that-no-longer-apply/35084

    WE INDIANS NEED TO LEARN FROM KALKI KOECHLIN ( OF HUM BHI FRENCH, TUM BHI FRENCH RINCHET - MAJJA HAI FAME ) HOW TO MANAGE INDIAN HOMES .

    HAVE YOU SEEN THIS UGLY WOMAN WITHOUT MAKE UP?

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  56. Lol if this is. I can't even do one thing right.i don't even like to do house chore...Game Over.

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  57. http://blogs.timesofindia.indiatimes.com/toi-edit-page/what-about-britains-daughters/

    SUBJECT : What about Britain’s daughters? Nine English women raped every hour. That is higher than India where statistics reveal a woman is raped every 20 minutes.

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    IS THE BENAMI INDIAN MEDIA TRYING TO ESTABLISH THAT A RAPE TAKES PLACE IN INDIA EVERY 20 MINUTES- SORRY- IT IS A FOUL LIE . . .

    INDIA HAS THE LOWEST RAPE / DIVORCE / HOMOSEXUAL / VIOLENT CRIME / INCARCERATION RATE , ON THIS PLANET BY PERCENTAGE .

    THE POPULATION OF BRITAIN IS A WEE 53 MILLION , WHILE THE POPULATION OF INDIA IS A HUGE 1260 MILLION . . .

    IT THE PERCENTAGE WHICH MATTERS , .NOT THE NUMBER . . . . . .

    the west is jealous of the harmony in Indian homes . . .

    punch into Google search - -

    . . . NAGGING, UNHAPPINESS AT HOME , DEATH OF MARRIAGE VADAKAYIL . . .

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  58. hi dp,

    indians will not urinate on the streets if there are clean toilet every 500 metres---- like in the west who became rich only by stealing from third world countries.

    india has the LOWEST rape/ divorce/ homosexual/ violet crime percentage on this plant . see i have travelled and seen every nook and corner of this planet-- i know.

    in india we have arranged marriages -- the girl does NOT allow the boy to taste her fruits -- as she knows that her parents will find a good boy for her.

    IN THE DECADENT WEST ,THE GIRL MUST ALLOW THE BOY TO TASTE HER FRUITS-- WHICH SHE ALLOWS ON EVERY DATE -- IT STARTS WITH A GOODNIGHT KISS AND WITH EVERY SUCCEEDING DATE IT GOES FURTHER TILL THERE IS SEX.

    IF THE GIRL DOES NOT ALLOW SEX , THE BOY WILL SPREAD THE DESTRUCTIVE WORD AROUND THAT THE GIRL IS FRIGID OR A LESBIAN.

    NONE OF THESE DATE RAPES ARE REPORTED--AS THEN THE GIRL WILL DIE AS A SPINSTER -- SEE THERE IS A CULTURAL ANGLE TO THIS.

    WHAT IS LOVE MARRIAGE-- IT IS BULLSHIT --

    ARRANGED MARRIAGES WORK- AND THE JEALOUS WEST WANTS TO BREAK THE INDIAN HOME HARMONY.

    APCO BRANDED NARENDRA MODI IS GUILTY OF ALLOWING THE BENAMI MEDIA TO PAINT HINDU WOMEN AS PROSTITUTES AT HEART-- RESTRAINED ONLY BY FEAR OF SOCIAL STIGMA.

    http://ajitvadakayil.blogspot.in/2014/02/the-best-and-worst-commercial.html


    my wife can afford a hundred cooks-- yet she makes tea for me and cooks for me and my son.

    the day i call my wife DARLING ,wish her good morning and pull a chair for her , and invite her to eat with me -- she will wonder what i am up to .

    my wife is more educated than me --and that too from india's no 1 cosmopolitan city city mumbai. she has good traditional kerala upbringing -- that is all.

    women in the house hold are seen NOT heard .

    i cant imagine my wife behaving like the HINDI SOAP " bold and the beautiful " type TV serial you get to see on star TV and colours TV..

    women are dressed up like in a wedding and men wear 3 piece suits at home with shoes .

    while in reality men will be wearing a crumpled white kurta pyjama with the area of the balls discolored brown .

    the white man never talks about the 1 million RAPE anglo indian products .

    i know because i did my LKG , UKG and 1st standard in st Josephs anglo indian girls high school in calicut -- with my sisters. my mothers office colleague was an anglo indian girl ( telephone operator ) who pulled strings , as her elder sister was a teacher there.

    I REMEMBER I WAS TRAUMATISED ( EARLIEST AND ONLY INCIDENT ) BY A WHITE BRITISH NUN - WHO SHOUTED AT ME FOR SPILLING MY LUNCH RICE OUTSIDE MY PLATE -

    THERE WAS TOO MUCH STUFF ON THE PLATE-- I WAS JUST 4 YEARS OLD .

    MY AYAH WAS WITH ME -- AND SHE REPORTED TO MY MOTHER WHO THEN BOUGHT A SPECIAL STAINLESS STEEL PLATE WITH 3 INCH STEEP SIDES.

    http://ajitvadakayil.blogspot.in/2010/05/marriage-sans-fights-capt-ajit.html

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  59. http://www.afaqs.com/advertising/creative_showcase/index.html?id=50915&media=TV&type=Indian

    AN AD BY ZIONIST ARIEL TO DRIVE FISSURES INTO THE HAPPY INDIAN HOME

    SUCH SLIMY ADs WILL AFFECT ONLY CHUTNEY MARYs, PICKLE JOHNs AND WANNABE GORA GAANDs..

    WE INDIANS DO NOT CARE IF THEY ROT IN HELL -- THEY CAN MIGRATE TO GORALAAND FOR ALL WE CARE.

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  60. Thank you Sir for such a great post. Your are truely great. I wish I could touch your feet someday. You have really changed my life so much
    I cannot thank you enough.

    God bless you and your family

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  61. http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/india/Maneka-says-526-cases-of-sexual-harassment-of-women-at-work-reported-in-2014/articleshow/48398299.cms

    WHEN WOMEN DO NOT GET PROMOTED BECAUSE THEY LACK MERIT, THEY THREATEN SEXUAL HARASSMENT.

    THESE WOMEN NEED TO BE HANDLED VERY FIRMLY- OR THEY KEEP DOING IT AGIN AND AGAIN EVEN TO HIJACK “MERIT “ FOR THEMSELVES BY BLACKMAIL/ BULLYING .

    READ ABOUT A CASE INVOLVING MY SONs FRIEND .

    http://ajitvadakayil.blogspot.in/2011/07/bully-capt-ajit-vadakayil.html

    Some of these women who claim sexual harassment are just dreaming it up. These women are SICK ( schizophrenia ) and are NOT criminals.

    HANDSOME GUYS KNOW HOW DEVIOUS A FEMALEs MIND CAN BE.

    I am reminded of a TRUE INCIDENT-

    I LEARNT MY LESSON 36 YEARS AGO.

    As a junior officer , once I saw my usually cheerful colleague moping around-- in deep depression. He had neglected his watch and made critical mistakes which could affect safety of life on the ship.

    So I asked him , whatever happened maaan ?.

    He wept and said " Captain's 11 year old daughter told me today morning -- give me chocolates or I will tell daddy that you pulled down my knickers. Now who is gonna believe me - everybody will believe her. She looks so angelic and cute. I look like a villain "

    Mulayam Singh Yadav said that women are making false complaints of rape— for which the death sentence is given in India. There is NO need for witnesses.

    The National Commission for Women (NCW) is a statutory body for women established in 1992 by Government of India.

    This body allows the playing field to be tilted towards the female gender AGAINST THE PROVISIONS OF OUR CONSTITUTION.

    In January 2007, the NCW mindlessly ruled that the law cannot be changed to make adulterous wives equally prosecutable by their husbands.

    NCW created by the NEW WORLD ORDER insisted that women are never offenders. They are always the victims— going against the PURE laws of mathematics and perception.

    IN EVERY ACT OF SEX ( WHICH IS NOT RAPE ) A WOMAN IS AN EQUAL PARTNER – THE EQUATION IS 50:50-- THIS IS THE MEANING OF PERCEPTION.

    MAN NEEDS TO HAVE AN ERECT PRICK TO RAPE . THE WOMEN’S VAGINA IS JUST AN ORIFICE . SUCH IS THE WILLOF GOD.

    YOU CANT HOLD MEN RESPONSIBEL FOR RAPE “IF THE WOMAN HAS SEDUCED THE MAN AND INITIATED SEX”

    This means in any act of adultery a woman is an EQUAL partner - the mathematical ratio is 50:50 — and math does NOT lie..

    SALMAN KHAN WILL TELL YOU THAT THERE IS A VERY THIN LINE BETWEEN THE "SWEET PURSUIT OF LOVE" AND A "DIABOLICAL STALKER "-

    - IT ALL DEPENDS ON THE GIRLs WHIMS ON THAT PARTICULAR DAY BASED ON HER BODY HORMONES— WHICH IS AGAIN BASED ON HER MENSTRUATION CYCLE.

    EVER HEARD OF A WOMAN SCORNED ? SHE WILL DRAG YOU OVER THE BURNING COALS TO GET EVEN !

    Next time when you go out with your wife for dinner--just try this.

    Praise the hair or beautiful lips --or whatever -- of any random girl in the restaurant , to your wife -- and just lean back and watch the fun.

    WHY DO YOU THINK PEOPLE ALL OVER THE WORLD FLOCK TO THIS BLOGSITE?

    THIS BLOGSITE IS RUN BY A MAN WITH PERCEPTION.

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  62. http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/life-style/health-fitness/health-news/More-middle-aged-women-using-vaginal-estrogen/articleshow/48465849.cms?utm_source=TOInewHP_TILwidget&utm_medium=ABtest&utm_campaign=TOInewHP

    SURE WAY TO GET CANCER -- BY SYSTEMIC EFFECT !

    Vaginal atrophy occurs after menopause. Vaginal atrophy, is thinning of the vaginal walls because GOD does NOT want you to have sex after menopause .

    There is now a change in the acid balance of the vagina, making you more likely to get a vaginal infection (vaginitis).

    THE 85 LAKH DONATION PARTY DOCTORS DO NOT KNOW THAT VAGINAL BACTERIA LIKE CANDIDA PRODUCE DRYNESS SYMPTOMS.

    IN KERALA IT WAS COMPULSORY FOR WOMEN TO BE WAIST DEEP IN CLEAN POND WATER WHILE TAKING BATH.

    APPLY FRESH VIRGIN COCONUT OIL – 6000 YEAR OLD AYURVEDA DOES NOT CHEAT YOU TO MAKE MONEY.

    IMAGINE THE DEMAND FOR ESTROGEN CREAM IF ALL WOMEN OVER 50 WANTS TO APPLY IT !

    EVIL PHARMA CAN LAUGH ALL THE WAY TO THE BANK.

    Coconut also contains caprylic acid, an effective and potent anti fungal and antimicrobial.

    The Caprylic Acid inherent in coconut oil destroys Candida yeast . This acid basically "pokes holes" in the Candida yeast cell wall, causing it to die.

    Lauric acid in virgin coconut oil fights infections.. Ferulic and p-coumaric acid components fights inflammation.

    It has an antioxidant effect which protects the vaginal walls from free radical damage.

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  63. STOP PRESS:

    Until 1973, homosexuality was recognized for what it is, a developmental disorder.

    The NWO used their monopolized media to call homosexuality a LIFE STYLE CHOICE and got even schools to support it and brainwash vulnerable young children.

    Today the NEW WORLD ORDER has made out homosexuals to be the salt nay bounty of this planet.

    Women are encouraged to divorce their husbands in the name of FREEDOM.

    In TV reality shows like BIGG BOSS vulgar homosexuals and transgenders who made a living by selling deviant sex were inducted and the contestants knew that if they have to continue without being evicted they have to prove that they accept homosexuality and anal sex as a natural thing, like being a left hander.

    In the military, soldiers are forced to live in close quarters with openly gay men.

    The new family model will be single parents or homosexuals raising the products of one-night stands and sperm clinics. Women are paid bonuses if they procreate using IVF and artificial insemination . Lesbians are paid more .

    The goal of Rothschild sponsored NWO is to redefine and manipulate human beings by taking away our family identity (husband, wife, sister, brother, father, son, mother, daughter.)

    Gay Director, Ang Lee's movie "Brokeback Mountain" (2006) was part of this subversive campaign to mainstream homosexuality. The BENAMI media sang the praises of this vulgar anal/ oral sex movie between men .

    Trojan horse NGOs funded by BIG BROTHER and BENAMI media now actively sponsor debauchery , living together , anal sex, sex with transgenders – and use terms like "art," "tolerance," "progress," "cool" and "chic" “chice”, right” -to trick people into behaving self-destructively.

    We can see R commies have taken over FTII- they want a decadence promoting DEAN—they don’t want a moral man like Gajendra Chauhan who will protect Indian culture and family values.

    Now Bollywood stars who promote homosexuality are given enough space in BENAMI media .

    In BROKE BACK BOUNTAIN -- "I ain't queer," one says. "Me neither," the other replies. Then they jump into the sack together and have anal sex . The implication is that all men are in denial.

    Statistics have proved that gay men need multiple partners. They prey on young boys . Let any gay who challenge me agree to undergo a truth serum test, so that we know at what age he first has gay sex and at what age he initiated a young boy into sex.

    In the west white gay marriages have lasted less than 2 years on an average – and that too with both having an OPEN MARRIAGE for anal sex – cuckolding with new partners preferably black men ( gigolos for a hefty amount ).

    No matter how much the BENAMI media and Trojan Horse NGOs disguise it, almost all gays want sex not marriage.

    The Illuminati is foisting a pathological disability on society. If you do NOT like homosexuality and say it, you are branded as a HATER. If you say you HATE something like anal sex and homosexuality there are FREE MASON judges in the payroll of big brother who will put you in jail.

    Heterosexuality is HOLY , the way god willed it. It is more about monogamy (marriage) reproduction and child-rearing. This is how most of us develop and fulfill ourselves. Obviously, this natural process is also essential for societal and mental health and happiness.

    The BENAMI media encourages them to be sluts, and experiment with lesbianism. In the west almost all school hostels uses lesbianism as a form of ragging - this is a deadly MAFIA .

    The Zionist west have been beamimg lesbian XXX porn movies into Islamic desert nations at night.

    In the west women are brainwashed to believe that children are a nuisance, NOT a fountainhead of infinite joy. There is a concept driven into the psyche that THERE IS NO NEED TO OWN A COW TO DRINK MILK.


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      In vulgar CANNED LAUGHTER TV serials is is COOL to be sarcastic or to abuse your parents and siblings. Indian children are brainwashed that it is OK to make a fool out of your father for money- and that too in connivance with their mothers .

      Self indulgence in a vulgar manner for PLEASURE now over rides personal and social responsibility.

      Most Indian city women have lost touch with their natural loving instincts. It is now all about MY MONEY/ MY LIFE/ MY CHOICE.

      Indian women are encouraged to wear a mental dildo and screw her husband even If she earns 50 rupees more than him.

      https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SHXFcYS6QA4

      The close family is in disarray, sexual depravity is rampant and birth rates have plummeted. IVF fertility is now a roaring business

      With a ZIONIST sponsored govt of APCO Modi, we get to see Indian culture being destroyed day after day.

      https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9mlh97NnLlI
      https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=B14tSO9DyR8

      https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=61kzsllDE6U

      For an Indian woman love to husband and children has been always been an instinctive act of self-sacrifice.

      She gives herself to her husband and children and is fulfilled by seeing them thrive and receiving their love, respect and gratitude.

      A woman makes this supreme sacrifice to only one man who will cherish her and provide for his family. Men instinctively want to fulfill this responsibility.

      Feminism and women’s lib has trained women to reject this model as "an old fashioned, oppressive stereotype".

      FALSE Zionist statistics tom tom using the BENAMI media that divorce rate in India is very high.

      Discord in the home is promoted by commercial Ads of wife telling her husband to “LAY OFF “

      https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TN_mGzEP6RM



      Now that love and marriage have been "discredited," women have nothing left to exchange for love but sex.

      The hidden goal of feminism is to destroy the family, which interferes with state brainwashing of the young. Displacing men in the role of providers also destabilizes the family.

      https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2hv42havE4w

      Today’s rape OVER DRIVE in India by BENAMI media has an agenda.

      Women are made to feel as victims by virtue of their sex.

      Thus women are inculcated with a sense of PERSECUTION MANIA. They are encourages to screw a male even if he looks at her –charging him of staring, winking, eve teasing etc.

      Every womans magazine devotes 50% space to WHY MEN ARE DIRTY PIGS and the balance 50% to HOW TO SEDUCE SUCH A DIRTY PIG .

      Why do Chutney Marys show their CAMEL TOE ( vagina groove ) by wearings tights or dispay their plunging neckline ?

      Extra-constitutional WOMENS COMMISSIONS have been formed headed by NWO payroll stooges. You can watch NWC “summoning “ even PM for stalking.

      Leisure for a well adjucted modern woman ( my choice / my right / my life ) now means,-time for yourself, spent alone, or with friends WITHOUT nuisance value husband and kids .

      NATION WOMENs COMMISSION HAS RULED THAT ONLY A MAN CAN BE CONVICTED FOR ADULTRY. A MAN CAN HAVE SEX WITH ANOTHER MANs WIFE , BUT ONLY A MAN CAN BE PUNISHED.

      Every single day we see atleast three pictorials of porn star Sunny Leone . For many weeks now we have another bimbette -POONAM PANDEY-JI sticking her ass in the air and doing an ICE BUCKET CHALLENGE – TEE HEEEEEEEEE !

      Indian wives are brainwashed that self-fulfillment and self worth lies in career success and not husband and children.

      Indian women are now told that she can divorce her husband if she is fed of having sex with the same man-- "no-fault divorce," i.e., divorce on demand. The issue of morality was now irrelevant.

      The first state to legalize no-fault divorce was California. Ronald Reagan (who himself had been divorced) signed it into law. By the end of the 1970s, it had swept America.

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      Supreme court of India has ruled that LIVING TOGETHER IS ACCEPTABLE IN INDIA AND IS NORMAL.

      Our security agencies know which all Indian judges are FREE MASONS.

      The BENAMI media is now a vicious toll for Rothschld Zionists to annihilate traditional culture and spirituality.

      The BENAMI media has diluted potent words like RACISM, APARTHIED etc ( VVIP racism / Fashion Apharthied ) .

      When a CM convoy is due to pass Trojan Horse NGOs hire private ambulances – just to prove to the world that VVIP racism is going on—the last instance 5 out of 6 ambulances were hired and FAKE.

      Old women after menopause are encouraged to masturbate telling them by doing this they can pull in blood into vaginal walls and thus avoid putting ESTROGEN CREAM in their vaginas .

      Wives are encouraged to charge a husband with RAPE , DEVIANT ORAL-ANAL SEX ( SEE IT IS OK ONLY MEN TO MEN ) , ATTEMPTING TO MAKE BLUE MOVIE WITH HER AS AN ACTRESS, TRYING TO BURN HER WITH KEROSENE, ASKING FOR MORE DOWRY etc.

      BENAMI media ridiculed Indians who have TRADITIONAL ARRANGED MARRIAGES . They ridicule young children who touch their parents feet—touting it as DISHONOURABLE .

      In Indian culture when a warrior in Mahabharata went for war, his mother told him only one thing ( after she applied tilak on his forhead with her thumb and the son touched her feet for blessings ) --

      SON, REMEMBER WHO YOU ARE , RETURN WITH HONOUR !!.

      India has the least amount of RAPE/ CRIME/ HOMOSEXUAITY on this planet . I have seen this planet for 4 decades.

      In a nation like India with 1300 million people , PERCENTAGE matters – NOT the COUNT .

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      Wanna know the divorce rates on this planet? Wanna know why the West is jealous of the happiness and tranquility of Indian homes?


      Country / % Divorce
      Albania / 19
      Armenia/ 17
      Australia/ 48
      Austria/ 47
      Azerbaijan/ 12
      Bahamas/ 5
      Belarus / 45
      Belgium/ 71
      Bermuda/ 25
      Bosnia & Herz/ 8
      Brazil/ 24
      Bulgaria/ 47
      Canada/ 49
      Chile/ 3
      China/ 22
      Colombia/ 9
      Costa Rica/ 47
      Croatia/ 25
      Cuba/ 53
      Cyprus/ 28
      Czech Republic/ 66
      Denmark/ 49
      Dominican Rep/ 41
      Ecuador/ 20
      Egypt / 17
      El Salvador/ 23
      Estonia / 58
      European Union/ 47
      Finland / 47
      France / 55
      Georgia/ 19
      Germany/ 49
      Gibraltar/ 49
      Grenada/ 22
      Greece / 25
      Guatemala/ 5
      Hungary/ 67
      Iceland / 37
      India/ 0.08
      Iran/ 14
      Ireland/ 15
      Israel/ 30
      Italy / 27
      Jamaica/ 9
      Japan / 36
      Jordan / 25
      Kazakhstan/ 27
      Kuwait / 42
      Kyrgyzstan/ 16
      Latvia / 52
      Lebanon/ 17
      Libya / 5
      Liechtenstein / 48
      Lithuania/ 53
      Luxembourg / 62
      Mauritius/ 17
      Mexico / 15
      Moldova/ 42
      Mongolia/ 32
      Montenegro / 14
      Netherlands/ 46
      New Zealand / 45
      Nicaragua/ 17
      Norway/ 46
      Panama/ 27
      Poland / 28
      Portugal/ 69
      Qatar / 29
      Rep of Macedonia/ 11
      Romania / 28
      Russia / 51
      Saudi Arabia/ 20
      Serbia / 22
      Singapore/ 28
      Slovakia/ 47
      Slovenia/ 38
      South Africa/ 17
      South Korea/ 35
      Spain / 62
      Sri Lanka 0.19
      Suriname/ 31
      Sweden/ 49
      Switzerland/ 52
      Syria / 9
      Tajikistan/ 6
      Thailand/ 25
      Trinidad nTobago/ 35
      Turkey / 20
      Ukraine/ 42
      United Kingdom/ 51
      United States / 56
      Uzbekistan / 8
      Venezuela/ 27
      Vietnam/ 4

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  64. STOP PRESS:
    Jewess Betty Friedan was in the payroll of the NEW WORLD ORDER Zionist banksters to drive fissures into family values .

    In 1963 she wrote a book The Feminine Mystique which was tom tommed by the Zionist media. In this book she did propaganda that a woman as a HOMEMAKER is like a potted plant— stifled and trapped.

    Friedan asserted that women are more than equal to man for any type of work.

    Pssssst---- PROBABLY THAT IS THE REASON WHY THERE IS NO MAMMAL OR BIRD ( INSECTS EXCUJJE PLEAJJE ) WHERE THE FEMALE GENDER IS MORE BEAUTIFUL , MORE INTELLIGENT OR STRONGER THAN THE MALE GENDER . OR WHY A MASTER COOK AND A MASTER TAILOR IS ALWAYS A MAN . OR WHY WOMENs ATHELETIC RECORDS ARE WAY LESSER THAN MENs RECORDS.
    She was made out to be a great intellectual.
    She was introduced to Rothschild communism at an early age and groomed for unleasing women’s lib.
    She asked lesbians to ENJOY !
    Today the BENAMI media does propaganda that Indian women are OPPRESSED , thus inducing a PERSECUTION MANI in their psyche.
    The term "politically correct" originated in the Rothschild’s Jewish Russian Communist Party in the 1920's.
    Betty Friedan did more to destroy the happy family in America than any other single individual in history.-all in the name of MY CHOICE/ MY RIGHT/ MY LIFE . This is what our BENAMI media is doing today, right?
    What Betty Friedan said was already in German Jew Karl Marx’s manifesto . Karl Marx was related by blood to German Jew Rothschild.
    “ no society can be successfully restructured unless all established cultural and moral traditions are abolished”
    The major goal of all R communist leaders had been to destroy families and to bring women into the work force. Sexual promiscuity ( whoring and lesbianism ) became "sexual liberation".
    Jew Karl Marx in the Rothschild Communist Manifesto:
    “The bourgeois sees in his wife nothing but an instrument of production. He hears that the instruments of production are to be exploited cooperatively and naturally can't think of anything else but that the lot of cooperatives will also affect the women as well....”
    I am incensed about misleading allegations of spousal abuse made by my ex-wife, Betty Friedan. They are all delusions, but in challenging these flights of fantasy I carefully make a huge divide between, one, her historical role in leading the feminist cause and, two, her current revamping of our personal history. I am appalled by her misrepresenting our personal family past with outright falsehoods just to satisfy her own legacy-. CARL FRIEDAN
    Betty had claimed that Carl used to give her black eyes often by punching her face.
    There was no exploitation of Betty Friedan in her marriage to Carl Friedan. She most certainly wasn't for him what anyone would call an instrument of production. If anyone got exploited, it was Carl Friedan. He was held hostage, and had no more of a chance to escape than any of the millions of battered husbands who ever fell victim to the battered husband syndrome.
    Betty has boasted that she gave back as good as she got though her husband was bigger than her. “ I was no passive victim of a wife-beater. We physically fought a lot, and he was bigger than me”
    “With the completion of agricultural cooperation, many co-operatives are finding themselves short of labour. It has become necessary to arouse the great mass of women who did not work in the fields before to take their place on the labour front....China's women are a vast reserve of labour power. This reserve should be tapped in the struggle to build a great socialist country.”

    Introductory note to "Solving the Labour Shortage by Arousing the Women to Join in Production" (1955), The Communist / Socialist Upsurge in China's Countryside, Chinese ed., Vol. II.

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      What ROTHSCHILD JEWISH COMMUNISTS did in China and Russia can be read in the posts below-

      http://ajitvadakayil.blogspot.in/2013/07/exhuming-dirty-secrets-of-holodomor.html

      http://ajitvadakayil.blogspot.in/2013/08/chinese-revolution-biggest-genocide-on.html

      ALMOST EVERY DAY WE HAVE BENAMI MEDIA EXHORTING INDIANS TO BE ATHEISTS-LIKE WHAT BETTY FRIEDAN DID.

      http://www.speakingtree.in/spiritual-articles/faith-and-rituals/it-s-good-to-be-an-atheist?utm_source=mailer&utm_medium=eng-daily&utm_campaign=21Aug2015-main

      CARL NEVER BEAT BETTY FRIEDAN –IT WAS SHE WHO BEAT HIM UP WITH HARD WEAPONS AND DESTROYED HIS PERSONAL BELINGINGS FOR FLIMSY REASONS .
      WOMEN TODAY ARE BEING MISLED BY THE LEGACY OF A MAD FUCKIN’ WOMAN.

      Carl Friedan found it necessary to counter is wife’s lies – he started his own web site at which he gives his own account of his life with his violent and paranoid ex-wife. Carl Friedan never ever dreamed of bringing any charges against his ex-wife for any of the numerous incidents of personal injury and destruction of property she committed.

      In the period between The Mystique and our splitting ('63-'67) she was a weight loss speed freak which compounded the venting of her violent temper. Betty already tottered on a thin line just this side of sanity. Amphetamines intensified it.

      QUOTE: Being with her was like walking a field of land mines. Bang! She'd explode unexpectedly, often out of the clear blue sky with no provocation at all. She was the most violent person I have ever known. I've seen women frightened by her. Men, too. In my desperate attempts to subdue and bring her frequent hysterial attacks and screaming under control we would both get hurt. This explains why she had an occasional black eye and my face was scarred by deep gouges. Did you ever try to fend off the attack of a wild, man-eating tiger? Spousal abuse has no gender.

      - a midnight in about 1967 - a year or so before Betty and I separated for good. We were living at our Dakota apartment then - Betty disagreed with something I said (that's all it took), went into one of her raging uncontrollable fits, screaming , her face twisted in hate and insane anger, "You fucking no good prick you, you no-good bastard, you fucking bastard, " meanwhile sprinting into the kitchen. Back she came straight at me brandishing two large kitchen knives. "You fucking Goddamn sonofabitch, I'm going to cut your fucking cock off - your big cock it doesn't mean a thing to me." At this I calmly picked up a kitchen chair, nailed her to the wall like a lion-tamer and took the knives away. And that was just a minor incident during that period when her explosive personality was further inflamed by amphetamines she was taking for weight loss, reinforced by alcohol.
      This episode started, as usual, with the decibel range of her voice rising. I tried as usual to calm her down. That did not deter her from turning her hysterical screaming into insane action. With the unbridled fury of a madman, she seized a narrow lamp base, the shade shoved to the floor, and proceeded to dart through the house using the lamp as a club, smashing the window panes one after the other after the other, screaming a stream of foul epithets at me. A cacophony of screeching and breaking glass resounded throughout the house."
      I took off, fled from there, something I instinctively did, if possible, when she went into one of her crazy spells. My not being present deprived her of her target, often diminshing her fury....
      It took all that day and another for a glazier to repair the windows – 27 panes of glass. I remember the number – 27,

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      We got in our car on the parking lot outside the restaurant and I started driving onto the highway back to the motel when Betty suddenly started screaming at me, "You never took me to Europe...you cheap sonofabitch, you never took me to Europe". I remember those words distinctly - they are etched in my brain because this episode was the most harrowing of any I have ever experienced in my life.

      There had been no time for any argument to develop. We had little if any conversation in the interval between leaving the restaurant and reaching the car. This was truly spontaneous combustion.

      The meaning of what she screamed is difficult to recall because it came out of her in such uncontrollable frenzied bursts. None of it made sense.

      I slowed down and tried to calm her. "For Christsakes, Betty, stop this, stop this. What is this about?" But she was beyond logic. She was raging about this Europe thing, completely out of control.

      With no letup in her fury she suddenly propped her back against the passenger side door and started kicking me furiously - while I was speeding along the highway. Then she lunged at my face with her nails. I felt my shirt being ripped and my chest bloodied.

      That's how these fits usually happened - right out of the blue. Then, suddenly she opened the car door and threatened to jump out. "I'm getting out of this car", she yelled. That was a scenario I had become use to, her opening the passenger side door while I was driving - it had happened a number of times before.

      This was sheer hell - here I am with my hands on the wheel, driving through the darkness, being furiously attacked by a raging woman, and the passenger door hanging out by its hinges. I managed somehow to hold her off with my right hand and to hold on to the wheel with my left. This is how I made my way back to the motel.

      The moment I stopped in front of our bungalows she rushed out of the car running up and down the highway shrieking wildly. I went looking for her for fear she could get killed by the speeding cars, but lost track of her in the pitch black of the night.

      I was standing by the curb peering into the darkness when suddenly she reappeared and started mauling me all over again with her claws. I fended her off, pushing her away as I did during these fits. That's how she acquired her "black eyes", just being pushed away. Eyes and faces are easily bruised. It doesn't take much, Just pushing her away can do it. It's like ribs -- it just takes a few pounds of pressure to crack a rib. In her case I often had to use some force simply to contain her.

      I fled to the motel rooms....She came screaming after me pounding on the door hysterically, and then, I really couldn't believe this - I guess maybe I could - I heard the screen on the window tear and there she was climbing through the window, breaking the screen on her way. She landed on the floor, but by that time I had ran out of the cabin into the night. She followed me threatening to call the police. I was too embarrassed to ever call the police. But in this state nothing embarrassed her. "Here's a dime" I said, "Go right ahead and call them" By that time it was I who needed the police. The police finally came and took us both to the Sharon police station.

      The sargeant at the desk looked me over, pointed to my gougings and asked, " Where did you get all that?' " It's pretty self-evident, isn't it" I answered. My wounds were far greater than hers. While she had minor bruises, I had bleeding wounds. He separated us - I went to my folks' house, she to the motel. This incident has to be among the records of the Sharon Police Dept. I am quite sure it was late summer of 1966.

      UNQUOTE – Carl Friedan.

      LONG LIVE WOMENs LIB !


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  65. testme54
    August 26, 2015 at 12:31 PM
    guruji, any easy ways to lessen out night-time bloating of the stomach (feeling of fullness till the throat even hours after having food).

    this is for my wife who is now 2 months carrying. she is having isabgol in the night post dinner but the fullness persists to the point she has to break sleep and sit for a while till the symptom lessens. highly discomforting.
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    hi t54,

    THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH YOUR WIFE.

    Once you're pregnant, you may find yourself belching or passing gas a lot more than usual

    The primary reason is that you have much higher levels of PROGESTENRONE, a hormone that relaxes smooth muscle tissue throughout your body, including your gastrointestinal tract.

    This relaxation slows down your digestion, which can lead to gas, bloating, burping, and flatulence and generally create miserable sensations in your gut, especially after a big meal.

    This slows down digestion, giving the nutrients from food you eat more time to enter your bloodstream and reach your baby.

    In later pregnancy, your growing uterus crowds your abdominal cavity, further slowing digestion, and pushes on your stomach, making you feel even more bloated after eating.

    For the same reasons, you may also start to experience heartburn or constipation during pregnancy, even if you've never been bothered by them before.

    Sitting still makes it so the gas just remains in the bowels, causing bloating and pain,
    If you find yourself burdened with an uncomfortable bout of gas, sit somewhere that you can elevate your feet,

    Don't eat big meals. Instead, eat several small meals throughout the day.

    Take your time and chew thoroughly. Don't talk while you're eating.

    Limit how much you drink before/ during meals. You can make up for it during the rest of the day. Drink plenty of water. This helps keeps things moving through your system to avoid constipation, which can aggravate bloating.

    Don't gulp your beverages.

    Even a brisk WALK can help your sluggish digestive tract.

    Ward off constipation (a big gas inducer) by consuming plenty of liquids and high-fiber foods.

    Avoid “artificial sweeteners, especially those in diet soda,”

    In early pregnancy, your uterus fills up with blood and the endometrial lining thickens, just as in your normal period. The difference is that the inside layer will not tear off and be expelled due to fertilization. A high blood flow increases the heart rate and uterine swelling occurs. The engorged uterus takes up more space in the pelvic cavity.
    The fetus also takes water from the mother, causing mom to have dry stools. It takes longer to expel the stool and increases the gas and bloating in the process.

    When you are eating for two, you just seem to stay hungry.

    Most of the gas that causes flatulence is produced when bacteria in the large intestine break down food that was incompletely digested by enzymes in the stomach and small intestine.

    Lactose intolerant folks get bloated and gassy if they have dairy products like humpless cow milk or ice cream. That's because they don't make enough lactase – the enzyme that breaks down lactose (the sugar in dairy products). Individual variation in the balance of bacteria in the colon may also affect how much gas you make.

    http://ajitvadakayil.blogspot.in/2013/08/probiotics-prebiotics-friendly-gut.html
    http://ajitvadakayil.blogspot.in/2014/10/no-farting-please-capt-ajit-vadakayil.html

    EAT RICE , INSTEAD OF WHEAT.

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  66. naveen sharma
    August 27, 2015 at 2:18 PM
    Dear Captain,
    One of my friend had severe bp hike in her 6.5 month of pregnancy. Doctors had to go for premature delivery. It was so disturbing that the infant could not be saved. Earlier also she had a premature (7 month) baby. How could this have been avoided. Kindly throw some light.

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    Capt. Ajit Vadakayil
    August 27, 2015 at 3:54 PM
    hi ns,

    High blood pressure and pregnancy isn't necessarily a dangerous combination. Not all high blood pressure is preeclampsia.

    HOSPITALS ARE NOW INFESTED WITH 85 LAKH DONATION PARTY GYNEACS.

    MOST OF THEM DON’T EVEN KNOW HOW TO MEASURE BLOOD PRESSURE (USING KOROTKOFF SOUNDS ON THE BRONCHIAL ARTERY ) WITHOUT A STUPID DIGITAL METER.

    The Asian race cannot be compared with Afro-American race in pregnancy BP data .

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bNApnYMR16w

    Before you're 20 weeks pregnant, if you have high blood pressure, it is called chronic hypertension or pre-existing high blood pressure. This means you probably had high blood pressure before you became pregnant. You'll only know for sure if this is the case if your blood pressure stays high after your baby is born.

    After 20 weeks, high blood pressure is called gestational hypertension. This is the name for high blood pressure that develops only during pregnancy.

    Gestational hypertension isn't usually a problem,

    Your blood pressure is at its lowest in mid-pregnancy , as the hormone progesterone relaxes the walls of your blood vessels. Then BP starts to rise gradually again from 24 weeks pregnant. By this time, you'll have made an extra litre (two and a half pints) of blood, which your heart has to pump around your body. If all is well, your blood pressure will return to its pre-pregnancy levels in the last few weeks before your baby is born. What's normal BP for you could be different from other mums-to-be, so it's best not to compare results.

    I WORKED FOR A COMPANY WHERE THEY WOULD NAME AND SHAME SAILORS WHOSE BODY MASS INDEX EXCEED THE OBESE LIMIT .

    I CHECKED MINE AS I WAS ALWAYS OUTSIDE THE BMI INDEX SCALE .

    ONE DAY THEY MAKE THE MISTAKE OF RIDICULING A CHIEF OFFICERS PLUMP WIFE.


    AND THEN I SEND A EMAIL TO THE COMPANY MD, COPIED TO ALL-

    THIS IS MY BMI—ALL THOSE WHO ARE LESS THAN THIS FIGURE IN THE OFFICE ARE WELCOME TO CHALLENGE ME IN ANYTHING PHYSICAL – FIRST LAY A WAGER .

    I WILL WHIP YOUR COLLECTIVE ASSES.

    THERE IS A FEMALE IN THE OFFICE WHO IS MORBIDLY FAT. TRY AND RIDICULE HER , AND SEE HOW THE GOVT ( FOREIGN NATION) TAKES YOU TO CHINA TOWN BY YOUR NOSTRILS .

    HIMMAT HAI ?

    NEEDLESS TO SAY THEY WERE ALL MIFFED. THIS “NAME AND SHAME” NONSENSE THEN STOPPED. I GUESS IT WAS ALL ABOUT FORCING THE CAPTAIN TO RATION THE SAILORS FOOD-MAKE THE CREW EAT LESS AND SAVE ON VICTUALLING DOLLARS.

    Getting back-

    However-

    Developing preeclampsia, a serious complication that may endanger the lives of both mother and child .
    One of these signs is proteinuria (an abnormal amount of protein in the urine). Women who have high BP with no protein in the urine are also at risk of developing the complication.

    High blood pressure during pregnancy poses various risks, including:

    Preeclampsia is commonplace in very obese mothers and the late age ones who had in vitro fertilization.

    Decreased blood flow to the placenta. If the placenta doesn't get enough blood, your baby might receive less oxygen and fewer nutrients. This can lead to slow growth, low birth weight or preterm birth.

    Prematurity can lead to breathing problems for the baby.

    Placental abruption. Preeclampsia increases your risk of placental abruption, in which the placenta separates from the inner wall of your uterus before delivery. Severe abruption can cause heavy bleeding and damage to the placenta, which can be life-threatening for both you and your baby.

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      Premature delivery. Sometimes an early delivery is needed to prevent potentially life-threatening complications.
      Signs and symptoms of preeclampsia?:--
      Swelling of face or hands
      A headache that will not go away
      Seeing spots or changes in eyesight
      Pain in the upper abdomen or shoulder
      Nausea and vomiting (in the second half of pregnancy)
      Sudden weight gain
      Difficulty breathing
      Nosebleeds
      Severe upper abdominal pain
      Reduced urination.
      Chest pain .

      Prevention hints: Drinking lots of water to stay hydrated. Consuming salt only as necessary -- sodium causes more fluid to remain in your body, requiring the heart to work harder

      Following a diet containing fresh fruits and vegetables Avoiding gaining too much weight in pregnancy .

      Following a regular exercise routine

      Taking extra dietary calcium ( ONLY UNDER MEDICAL SUPERVISION ) can help to avoid extremely high BP (preeclampsia) in high risk pregnancies. Don’t do this on your own. My friends Indian wife had too much calcium and the doctor advised abortion for fear of “ calcium monster baby “.

      Though my friend shat in his pants , his wife did NOT panic and had the baby—such a cute healthy baby!

      What doctors do NOT know is that when you increase intake of calcium—same must be done with potassium and magnesium, the three minerals known to help control BP.

      I WANTED TO EXPLAIN ALL THIS IN MY KARVA CHAUTH POST—THE MANGY CHUTNEY MARYs ATTACKED ME.

      TEE HEEEEEEEE !

      http://ajitvadakayil.blogspot.in/2013/10/karva-chauth-synchronising-fertility.html

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  67. STOP PRESS:

    A wellwisher asked me today—why is it that Hindusim looks down at women? Why are they not allowed to do Upanayana or be pujaris in temples?

    I can write a 200 page book on this.

    BUT RIGHT NOW I WILL ONLY DISPEL THE IGNORANCE AND FAKE PROPAGANDA DONE BY ROTHSCHILDs FAKE MUTTS and ZIONIST SPONSORED HINDU GURUS WHO MILK HINDUISM .

    In Hindusim women are equal to man.

    Brahma , Vishnu and Shiva are powerless without their consorts. Don’t ever believe in poison injected stories of Vishnu trying to screw Shiva’s wife when he is NOT around.

    The trinity is a COSMIC ALLEGORY personalized for human consumption.

    OPERATION BUE STAR is just a name—only an idiot will look for a blue star on the operation table—and we have lot of such idiots around..

    In the Sri Yantra triple lines intersect at 54 points only- the same as the number of Sanskrit/ Malayalm alphabets .

    Yet 54x 2 = 108 , the number 108 is the divine number— this is the meaning of SHIVA/ SHAKTI union.
    Upanishads, marmas, dance poses- even Dimitri Mendeleyeev’s Periodic element table is 108 ( till Hassium-rest are too short lived ).

    DOES ANYBODY KNOW THAT OUR VEDAS DO NOT ALLOW A MAN WITHOUT A MARRIED WIFE (DHARMA PATNI ) OR A WIDOWER , TO DO A HOMAM?

    YOU ARE NOW SHOCKED , RIGHT ?

    WHY HAVE THESE FAKE GURUS WHO DYE THEIR BEARDS AND EYEBROWS BLACK AND SILVER NOT TOLD ANYBODY ABOUT THIS TRUTH .

    THE FACT IS THEY DON’T KNOW.

    THIS IS EXACTLY WHAT I INTEND TO EXHUME IN MY NEXT POST ABOUT HINDUISM.

    Pativatasya agnihotram bhavati.

    A Hindu HOMAM ( sacrifice ) is done with GHEE.

    http://ajitvadakayil.blogspot.in/2014/11/all-animal-sacrifices-in-hindu-temples.html

    MARRIAGE IN HINDUSIM IS NOT LUST AND CARNAL PLEASURE.

    A WIFE CANNOT DO A HOMAN ON HER OWN.

    A man does a homam for his own inward purity and for the well being of all things animate and inanimate.

    http://ajitvadakayil.blogspot.in/2012/08/agnihotra-ghee-cow-dung-fuel-capt-ajit.html

    A woman by being a homemaker , being the fountainhead of happiness at home, taking care of her children and husband become INWARDLY PURE.

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  68. hi mp,

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=at-CfWUiClg

    The endometrium is the tissue lining the inner cavity of the uterus (or womb). The upper part of the uterus is called the corpus; the lower, narrower part of the uterus is called the cervix. The cervix is the opening between the uterus and the vagina. The outer layer of the uterus is called the myometrium.

    The endometrium is soft and spongy. Each month, the endometrium is sloughed and thereby changed as part of the menstrual cycle.

    Early in the cycle, the ovaries secrete a hormone called estrogen that causes the endometrium to thicken. In the middle of the cycle, the ovaries start secreting another hormone called progesterone.

    Progesterone prepares the innermost layer of the endometrium to support an embryo should conception (pregnancy) occur.

    If conception does not occur, the hormone levels decrease dramatically. The innermost layer of the endometrium is then shed as menstrual fluid. This leads to the cyclical nature of the menstrual cycle.

    Cervical polyps are smooth, red, finger-shaped growths in the cervix camera.gif, the passage between the uterus and the vagina.

    PROCESSED AND GM FOODS ARE THE REASON WHY WOMEN HAVE SUCH BLEEDING PROBLEMS.

    Uterine polyps are formed by the overgrowth of endometrial tissue. More than 60% of women with uterine polyps have irregular periods.

    Polyps do not need to be removed unless they bleed, are very large, or have an unusual appearance. If a polyp is discovered after menopause, it should be removed.

    Cervical polyps may be inflamed and rarely can become infected, causing vaginal discharge of yellow or white mucus. Polyps often occur without symptoms.

    Uterine polyps range in size from a few millimeters — no larger than a sesame seed — to lemon size. They attach to the uterine wall by a large base or a thin stalk.

    Uterine polyps most commonly occur in women who are going through or have completed menopause, although younger women can get them, too.

    Signs and symptoms of uterine polyps include:--

    Irregular menstrual bleeding — for example, having frequent, unpredictable periods of variable length and heaviness
    Bleeding between menstrual periods
    Excessively heavy menstrual periods
    Vaginal bleeding after menopause
    Infertility
    Some women have only light bleeding or spotting

    Uterine polyps are estrogen-sensitive, meaning they grow in response to circulating estrogen.

    Uterine polyps might be associated with infertility. If you have uterine polyps and you're unable to have children, removal of the polyps might allow you to become pregnant

    In Hysteroscopy the gyneac inserts a thin, flexible, lighted telescope (hysteroscope) through your vagina and cervix into your uterus. Hysteroscopy allows your doctor to examine the inside of your uterus.

    Uterine polyps may be confirmed by an endometrial biopsy, but the biopsy could also miss the polyp.

    Curettage (see above) may be performed along with hysteroscopy. While using the hysteroscope to look at the interior of the uterus, the doctor uses a curette to scrape the lining and remove any polyps.

    The stalk of the polyp (or pedicle) is usually short, but sometimes it grows long enough for the polyp to project from the cervix (the lower opening of the womb).

    Polyps are prone to bleeding, and a uterine polyp that develops near the fallopian tubes may obstruct the opening of the tubes, possibly leading to difficulty with becoming pregnant.

    http://ajitvadakayil.blogspot.in/2015/04/abnormal-uterine-bleeding-capt-ajit.html

    WOMEN WHO HAVE HEAVY PMS BLEEDING PROBLEMS CAUSE MAXIMUM PROBLEMS FOR MAN ( joke !)

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  69. STOP PRESS:

    NOW THAT ARNAB GOSWAMI HAS ESTABLISHED HIMSELF AS A GREAT DESH BHAKT OVER THE JNU INCIDENT

    HE IS NOW BACK TO PUSHING THE NEW WORLD ORDER AGENDA-- AS USUAL , FOR HIS ZIONIST JEW MASTERS .

    IT SEEMS 75% INDIAN HUSBANDS RAPE THEIR WIVES.

    WHO GAVE YOU THIS FIGURE , SUPER SLIME BALL ORANGUTAN ?

    ROTHSCHILD ?

    AND IF YOU ARE PUSHING FOR EQUALITY VIDE THE CONSTITUTION- FIRST MAKE ALL QUOTA NULL AND VOID.

    I ASK MY READERS TO PUT THIS COMMENT IN PMO, MODIs, RAJNATH SINGHs, LAW MINISTERS, RSS , SWAMYs WEBSITES -- AND DEMAND THAT WE WANT A SHOW CAUSE NOTICE TO BE ISSUED TO TIMESNOW TV -- FOR LYING !

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  70. http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/city/bengaluru/More-couples-inking-prenups-to-avoid-ugly-divorce-battles/articleshow/51771597.cms

    ONLY PICKLE JOHNS AND CHUTNEY MARYS SIGN PRE NUPITIAL AGREEMENTS.

    BECAUSE FOR THEM SEX IS MORE IMPORTANT THAN A SENSE OF BELONGING.

    BELIEF WORKS BOTH WAYS.

    TILL DEATH DO WE PART

    OR

    TILL FAILED BLOWJOB DO WE PART

    SUCCESS OF MARRIAGE IS A SELF FULFILLING PROPHECY-- WHAT YOU EXPECT WITH CONFIDENCE IS WHAT YOU GET .

    TO EXPECT DIVORCE - IS ALMOST DIVORCE ITSELF RIGHT AT THE STARTING BLOCK.

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  71. http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/city/bengaluru/More-couples-inking-prenups-to-avoid-ugly-divorce-battles/articleshow/51771597.cms

    ONLY PICKLE JOHNS AND CHUTNEY MARYS SIGN PRE NUPITIAL AGREEMENTS.

    BECAUSE FOR THEM SEX IS MORE IMPORTANT THAN A SENSE OF BELONGING.

    BELIEF WORKS BOTH WAYS.

    TILL DEATH DO WE PART

    OR

    TILL FAILED BLOWJOB DO WE PART

    SUCCESS OF MARRIAGE IS A SELF FULFILLING PROPHECY-- WHAT YOU EXPECT WITH CONFIDENCE IS WHAT YOU GET .

    TO EXPECT DIVORCE - IS ALMOST DIVORCE ITSELF RIGHT AT THE STARTING BLOCK.

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  72. Very informative and educative. Thank you sir.

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