Friday, March 1, 2013

JEALOUSY, THE GROWING ULCER WITHIN - CAPT AJIT VADAKAYIL


ENVY , THE FOUNTAIN HEAD OF MISERY ,  JEALOUSY THE DRAGON WHICH SLAYS ITS PREY BUT ALSO TORMENTS AND TEARS UP ITS OWN RAGING HEART- CAPT AJIT VADAKAYIL


In this post I will reveal a few of my secrets.  

I will reveal how I put ulcers within few people who deserved nothing better— this goes beyond getting under somebody’s skin.   

It takes a bit of intelligence to do this, and everybody cannot do this.

Often my critics and my well wishers ask me why I self inflict and deliberately keep the Sword of Damocles dangling all the time over me .  


Throughout my professional career I did that.  It was apparent to all, and they could never get over this.

I never bothered to explain.  I just tell them – it is mE style.

When it came to myself , here is the secret--

Insecurity or the sword of Damocles is the chief propulsive power in this world.   A maverick, like “yours truly” needed a quickened pulse caused by an adrenaline rush , to perform.

I had always treated this as an ally . It gave me a kick to convert fear into excitement, flight to fight.

When my shore bosses  gunned for me it gave me a chance to prove myself,  by doing things my way, by getting out of the beaten track .  It was the only way, as the lack of grey matter at sea is mind boggling.

Only people who have sailed with me know what I mean, rest will wonder WTF?

Punch into Google search BLUE OCEAN LEADERSHIP VADAKAYIL.

I have explained my type of leadership , tried and tested for 30 years as a leader of multi-national men.

This was about myself.  Now let me explain about others.

Often people who know me professionally have wondered about the type of official communication, I had with my bosses .  

My ship was an oasis of efficiency , peace and harmony.   My officers and crew will vouch that we had a ball,  like a huge happy family.  We worked hard and played hard.  

Yet I wore the pants, and walked around with an iron fist in a velvet glove. There was never a Lok Sabha or a Rajya Sabha on my ship.   Yet, I brainstormed frequently and got valuable feedback.


My shore bosses never dared to tell me from ashore " CAPTAIN HARD-A-PORT! " . They did this to other Captains , never me.

My shore bosses whom I liked , because they were clean hearted , I spared .  The rest of the black hearted knaves , I converted into their own worst enemies, for they deserved it.  I just made them jealous.

Jealousy has the power to destroy.  There is no greater punishment than the primal emotion of jealousy,  for it is the most potent cause of unhappiness.  Jealousy causes negative feelings and misery which corrode your innards like rust to iron.  


When you get jealous you drink poison and wait for the other person to die-  TEE HEEEE!.


Yes, now some people who read this post will remember that I would boast almost like Mohammed Ali , to a selected few “ I float like a butterfly and sting like ze bee”.


I must emphasize here.  A competent and self-confident person is incapable of jealousy at all. People whose jealousy can be kindled are insecure neurotics.

Let me put this in most lucid terms, meant for a layman .

What do you mean by kindling jealousy ?  If you are not good enough you can be burnt very badly . Basically I am a non-conformist who plays better to a hostile crowd.  I love to hit consecutive sixes into hostile raging faces.

Three and a half decades ago, as  young men, we were all standing in line to enter the examination hall at Mumbai MMD, for the First Mate's exam.

One of my long lost friends,  shouted out from behind the long line ( i was in front )--" Ajit , well prepared?"

I shouted back " Hum fail hoyega to kaun pass hoyega, saala "( Buddy, if I fail, who will pass ? )

And this made me very unpopular with the dumbos and the paranoids in line , some of whom who were giving their 3rd and 4th shots.

Now after giving this corny dialogue , If I fail, you can very well imagine my condition, for we all stayed together at the Seamen’s club at Ballard Estate.

Now I am rising above myself, to explain what jealousy is.

When I went to Russia in the Communist days , I noticed that all very happy. All were on a level playing field  -- ( just forget for a while about the Jewish Communist party members , their dachas and their watch dog Jew commisars).

There was no jealousy-as there was nothing to compare?  There was NO keeping up with the Joneses.


But then this is NOT the way god made human beings.  We are all hard wired and soft programmed for jealousy. Communism failed because even a baby girl would take care of her own doll, not the government’s common doll.

The was bound to be resentment when a genius knew that a moron gets the same salary as him.

And the Communist government tried to censor what type of fancy life went on in the Capitalist countries, and failed .   Word leaked in that life is far better in a Capitalist society.  And that people had a choice of what to eat , wear and how to live.

By the way, Communism was run by Jews.  Marx, Lenin, Stalin, Trotsky were all Jews.

The Zionists stole the enormous wealth of the Czar, then they siphoned off the spread out wealth of the common man, as they could NOT own property in a communist state.  In your home even your pillow was owned by the state.


The Russian communist people got news of the unlimited freedom in the rest of the world.   It created jealousy.  Basically it created  “grass is greener o the other side” effect.  If the whole world would be communist. Then there would be no jealousy amongst people, and the communist idea might work out better. 

In the deep countryside of Russia, people didn't know about the capitalist west. All they knew was communism.  And because they didn't know there was something else, they didn't mind it. They loved communism, and even today they vote for the Communist party.  

See what jealousy or lack of it does?  Jealousy doesn’t do anybody any good.  It makes you feel needlessly miserable and insecure.

Jealousy is very clearly seen in infants as young as 6 months old. This is the basis of sibling rivalry. The child knows that his younger brother or sister gets more attention and parental response to crying than him,  and it creates deep rooted resentment and animosity.  

Sometimes the parents spoil it by creating a role model for the rest of the brothers and sisters, and indulging in favoritism. This jealousy lasts till death and it is programmed into the DNA of the child.  Have you noticed how a small baby gets upset when some other child starts playing with her doll or toy?

Jealousy is a raw human emotion created when a person feels insecure about his value to other people.  It consists of negative feelings, revolving around   fear and anxiety over an anticipated loss .  When you compare yourself to others , it will lead to destructive thinking.

That is why you should never buy a flat in a building meant for the super rich and powerful.   You and your wife may not feel it being mature and self confident, but your children will start to compare and this will make them most miserable.  


The other children have flown off the Paris , Switzerland and Aruba for a holiday.  Their parents own Hummers, BMW’s and Mercedes SUVs'.  And here they are watching corny desi programmes on TV and eating bhajia and riding a battered Ambassador car.


Have you noticed how people go on Facebook and feel miserable.  For all and sundry are waxing lyrical of ZE good life.  Nobody complains on Facebook  that she has PMS migraine or that he bled a glass of blood from his piles or their child failed in class or takes hallucinatory drugs .


They have put in rosy pictures of their fancy holidays , how great a party they held with hundreds of cheering well wisher friends , how their child came first in some bullshit event , the expensive diamond ring presented by the husband ( it would be a fake actually ) ,  how loving and smart their pet dog is , their new SUV, their dream promotion at the work place- the drinks are on me -- BLAH BLAH.    



You start comparing and this plays up in your chattering mind.  Everybody in your circle is having a fabulous time but you.  

Jealousy surfaces and they feel frustrated with their own lot. . And believe me , they are comparing themselves with their true friends and relatives— and they are supposed to feel good at their “success” instead of turning green with envy . 


They get depressed , and short changed at being forced by destiny to take in the short end of the stick,  not knowing that everything on Facebook is sugar coated.




When you are constantly comparing yourself to the Joneses, you’ll suffer unintended consequences.


Jealousy does not do you any good . If you feel needlessly unhappy, and are having negative thoughts , and have started dishing out fake smiles , is it worth being on Facebook?.


Facebook is a forum where you give others the power to make you jealous and feel miserable. Unless you are ze guy who holds 3 aces all the while. 



This planet has been converted to a page 3 party place . You will see how a woman so wrapped up in herself , ( who thinks only she is worth it while the rest are not ) , will drag 4 feet of her white gown on the dirty red floor to draw the eyes of the world.  



Above: When trying to wrangle a trophy they tell the world that they want to be the next Mother Teresa, save the children , save the environment --  SNIFF -  BOO HOOOOOO !!!.

Some Western middle aged fat ugly women share on Face Book how many times they made love the previous night, after she put her man on fire with her sexy bikini .   Whether you will fall victim to this bull , and get mired in self pity,  it is up to you ? 



So Face Book is for shared laughter? Oh Yeah? 



Worrying about how you don’t measure up , and how your earning spouse is a loser, robs you of your present happiness.  It leaves you unable to think about how you really want your own life to look.

Friend or no, envy is an overwhelming emotion. When you are jealous you count the other fellow's blessings instead of your own, and lose your peace of mind—rather burn up inside.. It is in the character of very few men to honor without envy a friend who has prospered. The sure mark of one born with noble qualities, is being born without envy.  

Of the seven deadly sins, only envy aint no fun at all.



Let me digress briefly to “dog eat dog” office politics . It is purely based on jealousy.  Jealousy is,  the worst of all faults as it makes a victim of both parties. It is not love that is blind, but jealousy.


Knowledge of human nature and even style is the corner stone of political education.  Recognize tactics used on you.

Power does not come with position of authority.  Sometimes a slave could be more powerful than the great almighty Caesar .  Having said that be aware that knowledge is power— be respected and valued at all levels .

Be confident. Every power play attacker enjoys seeing fear in the victim. It is a valuable skill to know when to yield. Keep your emotions under a leash even when you are outraged, but don’t allow yourself to be the scapegoat for someone else’s mistakes.

Keep away from vicious smear campaigns. Do not encourage lying and deception. You will be judged by your communication styles—if you are defensive all the time—you give yourself away.

Be aware , stay focused and continue being the team player who will share man of the match awards. To stay focused you need to know the larger picture.  Do not use the larger picture as a convenient exit route.

In a shore office ( unlike a ship ) do not tell anyone anything that can be used against you—don’t let go too much even over a Saturday night beer session with buddies who may be opportunists —don’t even pass on rumors or share negative career experiences.  

Be a friend on matters that do not involve the office and an employee on issues that involve your career prospects. There is no need to prove your friendship at the expense of compromising your values.

The truth is without engaging in some sort of political activity or trying to develop followers , your career will stagnate.  This is why old blunt seadogs , like yours truly, who are not limelight oriented are misfits ashore.
Do favors and help others out. Even asking for help creates bonding ( what a paradox!).

Know your power—unleash it only when necessary at the right time.. Control impulses and rushes of blood.
Gain the trust of those with influence, be genuine here.

There are insecurity driven turds , in every office with the “crippler, undermining ,divide and conquer mindset” who enjoy telling you that you are worthless and unloved.  It gives them temporary happiness and how.  


Sailors who have sailed with me will cry “ Capt Vadakayil was the answer to these turds in the punch bowl . He was proactive and not reactive, with such miserable black hearted knaves “.

Do not allow yourself to be emotionally blackmailed by con artists who misrepresent their authority.  Use your intelligence and gut feeling here.

Don’t hurt working relation ships—you may need to be a hypocrite here. maintain your sense of humor. There is no hypocrisy at sea. You don’t see each other’s faces after a contract together. You can be yourself.


When negative politics are used by team members or negative energies are channelised for selfish needs, the resulting conflict can corrode the core of the team.  Team efforts are swamped by power struggles.


The jealous co-worker can be easily identified.  He will give you competition which gets obvious.  And he gives himself away when  badmouths you for any mistake you may make, behind your back.

Don’t cry wolf every time there is a common place power struggle. Play only by your own rules or the rules of the company. and don’t get too predictable lest you become a easy target ( aaha now every body knows why Capt Vadakayil keeps a cat as a pet ) .  Timing is everything .

Make sure you want what you get and not vice versa.

Surround your desk which trivia which makes you feel good—no!, you cant bring your pet along!!
Do not expect things beyond your talent.


At the work place productivity soars when everyone is working as one team instead of pointing fingers and trying to outdo each other. There must be an atmosphere of “we’re all in this together.”


Women with a high level of intrasexual competition are more jealous if the rival is a woman who is more attractive and more envious if this rival is more powerful .

Happiness is a victory lap—so solve problems, talk big ( like you know who ), keep the colour in your cheek and the glint in your eye. Be yourself, and have good friends who accept you as you are.

Laughing and crying are signs of relief valve lifting on the overstrung—JUST SMILE

Here is some wisdom--- Champions and heroes who challenge themselves have the knowledge, talent, skill , attitude and determination to easily handle the lifetime ahead of them—it is a piece of cake.

Can you name one country who is burning with jealousy?   Yes, you got it right- Pakistan.  


The wicked envy and hate, it is their way of admiring.  Anger, resentment and jealousy doesn't change the heart of others-- it only changes yours. The jealous are troublesome to others, but a greater torment to themselves.  

Pakistan sees India only though jaundiced eyes. For none of the Muslims in India want to go to Pakistan, and we have more Muslims than them.

The surest route to breeding jealousy is to compare. Since jealousy comes from feeling less than another, comparisons only fan the fires.  For Pakistan jealousy is just a reflection of their own pathetic failures. We Indians know that when Pakistani criticism doesn't make sense, it is surely coming from a different place marked J in upper case.


Insecure Pakistan tries to put happy and prosperous India down to raise themselves up.  They have now downgraded themselves to peeing on India to mark their territory.  Jealousy is an awkward homage which inferiority renders to merit.

The below list is wrong-India is ahead of Japan.



Jealousy is the religion of the mediocre. It comforts them, it soothes their worries, and finally it rots their souls, allowing them to justify their meanness and their greed,  until they believe these to be virtues. The fenced-in dog always barks at the one running free. 

In base minds worth begets envy, in great noble souls, emulation. Wanna check out India’s perspective?  Well, there was no pleasure like being envied on a mass scale from across the border. Heart-stopping envy is the sincerest form of flattery



And in India we had enough of Pakistan’s moral indignation thing.  This is an outlet where  envy or hate can be acted out under the guise of virtue.  We are NOT dumbos out here.


Do you want proof of Pakistani jealousy? 

The Pakistani spy agency ISI employs several trolls on the internet.  

On the TIMES OF INDIA E-newspaper ,  these trolls work overtime, trying to drive a wedge between Indian Hindus, Muslim and Christians.   

These trolls assume various avatars-- they come dime a dozen, as ‘Indian Dalits in India”, “Indian Muslims in india” , “Indian Muslims abroad”,  “Hindus abroad”,  “ Christian foreigners abroad”, “Indian Christians in India” , “Indian christains abroad”  etc.   Hey, how about "Dalits abroad" , thrown in for good measure? 

Their whole day’s job is to abuse India, spew venom and drive communal wedges in the comments column, and click on “Like / Dislike/ Recommend” .  

To these Paki trolls I will say “ Remove your not-so-bright head from that smelly dark place and take us head on !!” 



I suggest Pakistan must be content with with what Allah has given to them by saying Maashallah ( God has willed it )

Enough of petty minded Pakistan !!.

To find out a girl's faults you wish to marry , praise her to her girlfriends. One by one they will reveal all her faults.

He that is jealous is not in love.  Jealousy is bred in doubts.  When those doubts change into certainties, then the passion either ceases or turns absolute madness.  

True love is a unique condition where the happiness of the one you love is essential to your own. Love looks through a telescope and envy, through a microscope.  When jealous behavior goes completely haywire, it can erupt into aggression and possibly turn violent. .

It may be perfectly normal to feel brief pangs of jealously in response to a perceived threat, say if your girl goes to a strip club with a group of friends. Or your wife wears mini skirt and sits with her legs splayed for the benefit of a handsome guy whose eyes are transfixed you know where.

If a husband suspects another man is flirting with his wife, healthy feelings of jealously will  surface. He accepts them as a reminder of how much he cares for his wife and is quick to let them go because this relationship is based on mutual trust.

Jealousy is the result or fear of losing your girl to another.  In romantic relationships, both men and women continue to check out other men and women.  It's biologically driven and it's natural. However,  it does not mean that the person wants to leave the relationship.  It is, for most people, about appreciating the opposite sex human form and not about a roaming eye.  Touching is taboo, but jealousy makes looking also taboo.

On a ship if you have a beer with a buddy daily,  and one fine day you wait for him and see him having a drink with someone else without telling you,  you are bound to feel the pangs of jealousy.


Normal jealousy in a relationship generally stems from a place of love and commitment.  When jealously gets out of control, it becomes injurious to both parties involved. Unhealthy jealousy uses up precious energy and steals quality time .

Self worth comes with self appreciation and love.  People who are truly comfortable and secure with themselves, rarely let jealousy get in the way .

Celebrate the positives in your own life .  No matter what your situation is, youmust  have few things that many people don't have.  You can actively think about the great things that are in your life.  At least you must be healthy.   Sit down and be grateful for your good health at least. Cultivate an attitude of gratitude.  Only fools live in the past or carry envy to the present.

In Hinduism, envy is a disastrous emotion.  Hinduism maintains that anything which causes the mind to lose balance with itself , leads to misery.  Envy cannot coexist with truth and spiritual wisdom.


One who does not envy but is a compassionate friend to all ... such a devotee is very dear to Me. - Lord Krishna in Bhagavad Gita, Chapter 12, Verse 15. 4000 BC

Grace and peace!




CAPT AJIT VADAKAYIL
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32 comments:

  1. Captain,

    On Facebook: You have nailed it...:)

    Thanks,
    Shrinath

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  2. Hello Captain,

    Thank you for your fantastic blog post, I'm a regular reader of them and have immensely gained from it.

    Can I ask an off topic qn now:

    I'm a male and I have this urge to crossdress. It's been there for the past 20+ years - I'm 30 and single now. I find it hard to figure out what is wrong with me. In daily life I'm a friendly, honest and optimistic young man.

    What is your take/opinion on cross dressing? Can this habit be ever overcome? I have tried couple of times unsuccessfully. I consider myself to be bisexual/ or may be bi curious. Do you consider homosexuality to be a taboo? IS there any scientific evidence for cross dressing tendencies in males? Or is this just a fetish one can get over by some means?

    Thanks

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    1. hi,

      You must know that in Indian society cross dressers are socially ostracized. Hence whatever you do must remain a private fetish.

      Your own family will be badly hurt if you are shunned by society.

      Cross dressers want to shed the burden of being a man . It feels good , that it why they do it.

      This comes of out a glitch in DNA programming.

      Personally I do NOT appreciate homosexuality. But as you can see the world is slowly changing.

      Once you get married you will change. Meanwhile get involved in some sport which makes you feel like a dominating man.

      Heavens forbid that your wife or children catches you. She and your kids will want a HE-man , not a woman.

      capt ajit vadakayil
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    2. Thank u for the quick reply, captain. It would have been great if you can shed some more light into this topic from Science/Sociology point of view through a blog post here.

      By the way, I'm not sure of the change one can have by getting involved in some sport which demand masculine activity. One can find cross dressers all over even at unlikely of professions/activities. If it is something as a glitch in DNA how to overcome it?

      Thanks again.

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    3. hi sunny,

      punch into google search CELLULAR MEMORY, COMPLETE HEALING VADAKAYIL

      capt ajit vadakayil
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  3. Dear Sir

    I am a victim of jealousy, where i work all of my colleagues are getting higher salary. Even junior girl who has same designation get double of mine. My boss is repeatedly belittled me. I becomes lethargic, lost interest in job, just continuing to pay EMI. I am demotivated, nothing can motivates me to do great job in office, earning good money, promotion.

    Any suggestion.

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    1. hi das,

      you need to change.

      punch into google search CHANGE MANAGEMENT VADAKAYIL

      there is nothing as bad as losing respect at the work place.

      wherever i worked -- my officers and crew would say , that " capt vadakayil is the slave whose is more powerful than almighty caesar . he is our role model "

      there was only one reason they said that. nobody could do my job better than me. it is a great feeling.

      SO CHOOSE A DATE. THAT DAY DRESS UP DIFFERENTLY FOR THE BETTER. GO TO OFFICE 15 MINUTES EARLIER AND GET OF 15 MINUTES LATER.

      DO YOUR JOB THE RIGHT WAY. WORK FOR YOURSELF AND NOT TO PLEASE YOUR BOSS, FOR A CHANGE.

      after 6 months if things are not getting better for you, scout for another job, where you can start on a clean sheet.

      capt ajit vadakayil
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  4. Like what usually remarkable depth analysis and realistic !

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  5. hi,
    It would be extremely helpful if you could post an article about how to take over as a mate/master on parcel carriers. Esp new mates/masters would find it really helpful.

    Thanks,
    ravi

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  6. Dear Captain ji:

    Great post. Sometimes I think jealousy manifests itself not from one's self but as a result of somebody else's actions. I've seen this particularly in groups where there are school going kids. The parents are friends.. but once their kids get to school age and comparisons are drawn.. the game of jealousy starts.. It can bring out the worst out of clean hearted people.

    Could you provide an insight on how to get ahead of these situations and move away from these useless or rather uncontrollable situations?

    A professor (Phd) once told me that he believes in favoritism. I was aghast when I heard that. He was clear in his intentions.. and even said that he would rather help his own son than a friend's son to be ahead of the competition. I lost my respect to that professor after hearing this.

    I think unless people start practicing the principles laid out in the Bhagawat Gita, particularly about Karma Yoga, we'll continue to see these fissures in social relationships.

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    1. hi,

      when my sons were in LKG and UKG I went to school for some competition programs.

      the competition was NOT among children, but among parents.

      some of them were even involved in bribing the judges, using political pull etc -- all for a recitation contest or something like this.

      some mothers were even blatantly cheating by prompting from hidden areas, when the child forgot the lines -- all planned well in advance.

      capt ajit vadakayil
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  7. Dear Sir

    Should we enroll for Aadhar Card?

    Govt is making it mandatory. It seems that everyone could be tracked from the card. Should we wait untill next election?

    Please advise.

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    1. hi,

      UPA is making sure that you cannot function with AADHAR card.

      i do NOT have one yet.

      the whole idea is to make sure that the banking cartel controls you.

      today in USA nobody takes hard cash.

      very soon you cannot travel, or cook, or withdraw money or stay in a hotel or visit a hospital etc -- without aadhar card.

      capt ajit vadakayil
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  8. Slowly truth is coming out in mainstream media....

    But we already knew it because of Capt. Ajit.

    http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/world/uk/Mother-Teresa-saint-of-the-media-controversial-study-says/articleshow/18760028.cms?

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  9. Capt.

    Good one yet again. Had been reading but did not comment.

    Am already way too confident about myself and with loads of positivity. Even when people said that I would go thru a bad time due to my nakshatra and rashi, I din't feel so.

    I have already read your post on the black onyx stone. I 've one stone on me all the time. Does nakshatra and rashi and lagnam have something to do with the black onyx stone on some one. Or is the stone good for any one. What's your take. Also what's your take on colour of clothing and other things to do with nakshatra and rashi

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    1. hi keeth,

      everybody has a stone which is good for him, based on his horoscope.

      punch into google search DOWSING, POWER OF QUARTZ CRYSTAL VADAKAYIL

      the west thought that this is indian mumbo jumbo superstition till they invented the kirlean camera.

      when you wear your stone, your aura gets brighter and larger.

      at the micro level your body is just energy.

      capt ajit vadakayil
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  10. Capt.

    Thanks for your response.

    What I understand is, Black onyx cannot be worn by anyone or everyone. It should be worn only if it suits him based on the horoscope. Correct me if I am wrong.

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    1. ho keeth,

      onyx which is brown, orange, red, honey ,is worn by leo and capricorn.

      BLACK ONYX is universal, can be worn by all.

      capt ajit vadakayil
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    2. Thank you for the clarification...

      A question out of your response... is the English zodiac relevant or true than the Horoscope which has stars and raashi etc... because person's birth on the same day in a English month but different time, differs in nakshatra and raashi... but in zodiac sign they will be "LEO" for example if their birth was between July 22nd to aug 21st. ???

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    3. hi,

      leo is zodiac.

      greek system is copied from india, as pythagoras and plato studied in india.

      punch into google search VEDIC COSMOLOGY OF INDIA 5000 BC VADAKAYIL

      capt ajit vadakayil
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  11. Capt.

    I think I did not ask my question clearly...

    1000 people born between June 22nd and July 21st will be "CANCERIANs" according to Zodiac signs...

    But, 2 people born on the same day, one at 9 AM and another one at 10 AM will have a different Nakshatra and Raashi...

    So, which is right ???

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    1. hi keeth,

      i suggest you consult people who make a professional living out of this.

      capt ajit vadakayil
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    2. Nakshatra and Raashis should not be confused with Zodiac signs..Zodiac signs ARE CONSIDERED IN WESTERN ASTROLOGY on the position oF sun while Raashi and Nakshatras are considered in in Eastren or hindu or vedic astrology on the position of moon.People born between particular time period for example 22 jun-21 jul are "CANCERIANs" as there sun sign is cancer which is same for all but rashi is a moon sighn which would be different for different people.

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    3. Hi Keeth
      Zodiac signs.. based on the birth dates are calculated as the position of sun while zodiac sign in horoscope are calculated on position of moon.Moon signs are calculated as Raashis not the sun signs.

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  12. Hi CaptainJi,

    I have this problem that i sometimes makes silly mistakes (logical & arithmetic) . I know 100% that i would have done it right first time. And later on i feel very depressed and curse myself for this.

    Its like some kind of "missing" while i do it.
    Is there any way to streamline thought process. ? Or is it a limitation of my brain ?
    Will wearing gem/diamond help ?

    regards,
    Mahesh

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    1. hi mahesh,

      do SO HAM.

      punch into google search SO HAM MANTRA VADAKAYIL

      capt ajit vadakayil
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  13. Sir,

    This is by far, your best article till date. This is a must read for everyone!

    Rgds

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  14. Anup March 8, 2013 at 12:05 PM
    hello capt

    very happy and impressed to see your huge ocean of knowledge about our dharma and proud to be a part of the BESTEST of the world only one wish that you shold some day take on one on one that a** h*** fakir naik. Its ok for him to propogate his own religion but why does he need to show other religions specially sanatan in bad light.

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    Capt. Ajit Vadakayil March 8, 2013 at 4:50 PM
    hi,

    dr zakir naik is sponsored by WTE ( waitress turned empress ).

    this man is very shrewd, and used loud FALSE rhetoric to score brownie points, which no other religion does.

    all religion ( including islam) praised their own religion. But zakir Naik pushes down hinduism-- that is his whole and sole agenda.

    i head him telling on TV that atharva veda tells that sun goes round the earth. this is a blatant lie.

    punch into google search HELIOCENTRICITY VERSUS GEOCENTRICITY VADAKAYIL

    indians were the first to say earth goes round the sun-- rest only stole and copied.

    I heard zakir naik tell on TV that lord shiva cut of his own son's head and put an elephants head instead. he said that this son was created by parvati by making a statue with MAILA ( waste ) from her BADAN ( body ).

    this is again a big lie.

    punch into google search LORD GANESHA AND THE MILK DRINKING EPISODE VADAKAYIL.

    whatever he tells about hinduism is a lie. today even his DUMBO followers do not believe him any more unless they are muslms first and then indians ( terrorists and pakistanis ).

    hinduism cannot be damaged by this CHOOHA.

    capt ajit vadakayil
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  15. @Sunny

    In addition to excellent suggestions by Captain, May I also suggest you watch Alizee sing and dance (videos on youtube). Instant cure :-D

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    1. hi,

      punch into google search-

      FROM ALIZEE TO SALMA BALMA VADAKAYIL

      capt ajit vadakayil
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    2. Facebookiney kurichu paranjathu valarey correct. Spot on.

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