My wife just told me not to blog about Keenan and Reuben case -- she knows I am a bit blunt while telling the truth -- but then I YAM WHAT I YAM.
I cant make a shovel out of a spade.
The whole of India knows about this case, where two boys were stabbed to death at 11 PM on a fairly busy street at Mumbai.
So this news clip below is only for my foreign readers, who form 85% of my reader base.
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QUOTE:--
The law has caught 21 young men in this case. Out of which 4 are being touted for hanging. There is tremendous pressure on the Indian Government to FAST TRACK this case-- and to bypass usual inquiry procedures to set an example.
I CONDEMN THIS MURDER.
MY HEARTFELT SYMPATHIES TO THE BEREAVED FAMILY. YOU CANT TAKE AN INNOCENT LIFE IN THIS MANNER .
To be frank to kill a man I don't need a knife, being trained in the Kalari martial arts system. A single blow given in blind rage will be 100% lethal-- and I usually walk away from situations where fools dare me to do my worst.
I am reminded of an similar incident which happened in my life at the age of 27 - today I am 55. I was a Ship Captain , NOT yet married .
Being a Captain means that I don't need any lecture on social responsibility . This happened in a cinema theatre next to Mumbai Gateway of India ( guess it is Regal ) for the 7 PM show.
I was alone .
The Dress Circle section where I sat was chock a block , as the movie was a hit. In those days they would play some documentaries before the main movie started.
In front of me 6 seats were empty. Pretty soon 3 girls and 3 boys ( around 18 to 20 years old ) trooped in, and sat in front of me.
From their dress code and their English speaking accent I knew they were the typical Bandra party--short frocks , bob hair cuts, signature French beards , cross chains, and Bandra slang. One of them had long dreadlocks like what our man Rueben Fernandes, used to sport before.
Suddenly a Mahatma Gandhi black and white documentary started.
Now Gandhiji is a soul who commands extreme respect in India.
In my previous blog about VAIKOM MUHAMMAD BASHEER I has mentioned that as a boy Basheer just touched Gandhiji's hand and became a revolutionary.
Gandhiji was hence my hero - like for 99% of Indians. The balance 1% who would respect someone in Italy or Saudi Arabia or Portugal more.
Such people will sell our country's secrets for a few pieces of silver.
The Gandhiji documentary was grainy and with poor audio -- some old footage which I had never seen. I was missing out on 20% of the proceedings as the " Bandra party " were in high spirits of extreme camaraderie. Why not, when I go with 5 of my friends , after a couple of beers, I would also be in the same groove.
Today if you see something on your computer or DVD you can pause and rewind. I did not want to miss out a word of this documentary- so I most respectfully submitted to the girl right in front that they should be a bit quiet till the Gandhiji documentary is over-- just a matter of another 5 minutes.
She looked back, and saw a clean shaven chikoo sweet guy, I was NOT a drunk unemployed evil looking smelly rowdie, "who stole water and electricity and did NOT pay taxes" . I did NOT eve tease her , or even cast a lecherous eye.
And you know what this CHUTNEY MARY screams " SAD GUY, HE WANTS TO SEE GANDHI !" .
What else she said -- I wont mention here. Cruel words are like nails, once driven, you can take them out--but the gaping holes remain for ever.
All the six of them burst into LOUD derisive laughter as if on cue.
May be they preferred to see the Pope, or a Portuguese soccer player or Elvis -- but I wanted to see the Father of our Nation , Gandhiji.
I could see that almost everybody around was now waiting for my reaction.
So I put both my feet on the shoulders of this mangy girl. My inner boots touching both her ears.
Immediately their boy dates got up and objected , a bit violently and loudly. For they wanted to be THE heroes for their gals.
In their Catholic system a boy and a girl has to find their own partners--like in the West. Their parents will NOT find a suitable bride/ groom for them. ( the rest of India have arranged marriages ) .
And these young boys tend to take the chivalrous part a bit too far , on a date -- to earn falthu respect.
They leaned over , threatened me , and told me to take my legs off this "Gandhiji scoffing" girl's shoulders.
So I dared them to take my legs off themselves -- or even throw a punch. If I was a weakling they would have slapped me around-- but here I was, any day tougher than Salman Khan.
Not a single onlooker came to the girl's rescue.
After a few pregnant moments I took my legs off her shoulders and said " One more word from you , ridiculing Gandhiji -- and I will put my legs right back . Let us have some co-operation!"
That was it-- the remaining two hours went without incident.
Today when I look back , I did the wrong thing. I will NOT do the same thing today.
To a person who did not know what transpired , yes I was an evil eve teaser!. How dare he keep his shoes on a young girl's face.
To my level headed wife ( I told her this story during our honeymoon ) , Madame Chutney Mary deserved it.
I know 100% what would have happened if the three guys had thrown a punch. Definitely I would exploded and pasted all the three of them in 30 seconds, probably busting their collar bones and sternums--
And may be I would have been in jail -- still a bachelor, without a job, without friends --
--- a loser in life !
Digression: One of my good Goan Roman Catholic Chief Officers' had told me long time ago -- Australia had opened out a free immigration office at Bandra Mumbai for one single day , and the queue was miles long. He said almost all his friends and even his own relatives were standing in this queue. So much for patriotism and loving your own country. He said " I felt like loading all of them on a ship and throwing them overboard off the coast of Australia , so that they could swim ashore like rats. There were some hardcore shameless young lesbians too in this line -- probably eager to come out of the closet and have fun in AUSTRAYYLYAAR"
This reminds me of a joke--and that needs me to digress and go off tangent for a while.
QUESTION: Why did two sisters fight in Australia?
ANSWER: Coz they were both DAAYTING the same guy!!
I wonder if anybody is entitled to extreme reactions , on the cause of patriotism.
Being a ship captain, I am also a cultural ambassador of India. This is NOT part of my job description, but then this is what we were trained to be on our training ship which had 250 cadets.
I am reminded of an incident 28 years ago. My ship was going to Felixstowe ( near London ) -- a busy private container port.
The pilot points to the gantry crane operator and tells me " Captain, do you know that that crane driver earns more than the President of your country?"
Needless harsh words.
These crane drivers get speed money for the number of containers they load in an hour. So on the days there is a EPL soccer match, they work like crazy, banging containers here and there and earn good money.
So the English Pilot was definitely right. He spoke the truth. But then our president has a garden ( Mogul gardens ). There are 800 gardeners, 50 of them to shoo away errant birds. I decided it was NOT worth , to be objective with this mangy Pilot.
So I replied " So fuckin' what? I know a WHORE in Mumbai who earns more money than what your British Prime Minister at Downing street 10 ( this door opens out into the street --TEE HEE ) earns in one whole year - in one single hour!"
The Pilot sulked till he left my ship.
Note: On my ship, I am fair. I see who provoked first, AND TO WHAT EXTENT?.
Who got physical first.
Who drew first blood.
Who was at the receiving end of the fight is secondary- as the tougher man wins, everytime.
However murder is murder-- you just cant take a God given life --unless you are in the army!
Now on the other hand--
Keenan was an out of work, cook --you can call a cook a "chef" and white wash him. Or you can call the accused barber, a "hair dresser"-- for the matter.
Reuben at the ripe age of 29 was unemployed and his pictures showing him in dreadlocks ( in India of all the places ) is now withdrawn from all TV shows .
The media has repeatedly painted all over that some of the assailants were unemployed--which is such a shame shame crime in India, right?.
Why do selective reporting? If a couple of assailants were unemployed-- what about the assailed?
As per Keenan's girlfriend Priyanka ( 19 ) it was Avinash Solanki who got physical first-- he slapped Rana the eve teaser. If at all somebody deserves a bravery award-- it must be this man. Not the others in the gang who kept their skins safe.
If I am getting attacked with a knife in a lonely street - I know that my wife is NOT gonna watch quietly-- she will kick ass and she will kick them good-- she wont mind getting stabbed !
You must ponder-- are all these fair weather friends ?
Keenan and Reuben and gang used to be at Amroli bar " as a ritual " every alternate day, (all this is on video clips of a National Network TV all over the internet ) -- as per Priyanka, who may be a bit naive and got carried away by emotion into giving such damning information.
How many parents will allow their grown up daughters to be in a bar at unearthly hours -- we will NOT be fooled into believing there was a cricket match every alternate day?
I have two sons --no daughters. If my imaginary daughter goes to Amroli bar every alternate day -- then what type of father am I? What type of upbringing is goin' on ?
Sorry-- I dont agree with Alyque Padamsee who said on national TV that Keenan's father Valerian must be given a National Bravery Award-- for telling on TV that " My heart is glad and I am willing to sacrifice many more sons to curb eve-teasing".
Since when have we started giving bravery awards for talking big on TV ?--shall we start off with our army and police?
Above is the picture used all over - to show how much this duo loved life. Yeah--one with pig sausages and other with beer. Well this is NO yellow hate speech -- just tellin' a fact. We live in India --NOT Brazil or Portugal.
Now let me digress-
Really men are such pigs-- such lechs -- they all need to be castrated , right?
On second thoughts, it is better to BOBITT all of the lecherous men on this planet who prey on innocent, angelic babes in the woods, right?
There must be a law where a woman wearing falsies, and full of silicon , can name and shame a decent man as eve teaser and get him hanged, --probably a tougher law that the Indian dowry harrasment laws , where a man can be arrested on the basis of just a complaint from a Big Boss 5 , Pooja Mishra prototype..
And of course , all bride burnings in India with Kerosene dousing, was done by cruel, father-in-laws, NOT sweet sati savirti Bharatiya Nari mother-in-laws, right?
All female infanticides in India , were done by men , right?
All adultry on this planet is fault of men alone , right?
Ever noticed that women who complain most about sexual harrassment on TV , are all revoltingly UGLY?
If a girl pumped up with silicon ( or a padded bra - aaaha--ring a bell? ) wears a plunging neckline and pretends to talk on mobile phone outside the gates of a men's hostel, using her perepheral vision, is so cute -- then a boy with a decoy banana or a cock sock inside his jeans standing outside a women's hostel , is a SICK pervert who must be castrated el pronto , right? Why double standards?
Our role models must be ugly Mayawati types, who declared a honest DIG of Police mad , dragged him away in full uniform in front of national TV cameras , and put him in a asylum --right?
-- or our sulking Bong Express , the bottomless enigma, (who will look good in a T shirt stating NEXT MOOD SWING IN FIVE MINUTES) -- who storms into a police station and gets her goons released, insulting the nation's constitution.
Like ANGELIC Pooja Mishra of Big Boss 5 would scream -- SPARE ME! Pity the fall guy who marries her!
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Punch into Google search SAILORS DO CRY- VADAKAYIL.
It is the true story of my handsome colleague, who slit his wrists 3 times , unable to handle the diabolical games of his wife.
After 2 years of marriage , she left him for a film producer who promised to make her a Bollywood actress, and she was indeed beautiful.
She forced him to sign the divorce papers , as soon as he landed up in his house after a hard contract on a ship. The previous 2 contracts she sailed with him on the ship. He was removing his shoes , after touching his mother's feet , when she thrust the divorce papers before him- -and commanded him " Sign here!" .
When he tried to reason with her , as they dated for 6 years before marriage, she threatened to throw his mother in jail for dowry harrassment and attempted bride burning. She had it all worked out, with the rich film producer's connivance.
Later , after 14 months , she came back grovelling, and asked him to remarry her -- the producer just USED her from all 3 orifices for a year -- if you know what I mean..
My friend had just recovered from depression . He showed her the three scars on his wrist and asked her " What would you do , if you were in my place".
Men don't go on TV and tell such sob stories.
Or maybe "mental whip lashes" are less painful than "bottom FUCKIN' pinching" !!
Why is it that all hate shrew mother-in-laws? Father -in-laws are loved and respected all over the world for his large heartedness and understanding !! pray?
CAPT AJIT VADAKAYIL
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I cant make a shovel out of a spade.
The whole of India knows about this case, where two boys were stabbed to death at 11 PM on a fairly busy street at Mumbai.
So this news clip below is only for my foreign readers, who form 85% of my reader base.
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QUOTE:--
Mumbai: Maharashtra Chief minister Prithviraj Chavan on Friday assured action against the killers of murdered youths Keenan Santos and Reuben Fernandez for protesting against eve-teasing of their friends.
Assuring justice to the the family of Keenan and Reuben, Chavan said state will press for death penalty for the killers. "I deplore this act and condolences go out to the families," he said.
Talking to Keenan's family on a news channel, the CM assured of coming up with an eve-teasing law.
Meanwhile, Keenan's father thanked CM Chavan for reaching out the grieved families and urged him to graft a tough law against eve-teasing.
On Thursday, the Andheri metropolitan magistrate's court extended the police custody of the four accused by a day.
On October 20, Keenan Santos and Reuben Fernandes, along with five others, including three girls, had gone to the bar to have dinner and watch a cricket match on a giant screen put up there.
Keenan and Ruben were stabbed while resisting eve-teasing. 24-year-old Keenan died the same day in hospital and 28-yr-old Reuben died on Monday.
Keenan and Ruben were stabbed while resisting eve-teasing. 24-year-old Keenan died the same day in hospital and 28-yr-old Reuben died on Monday.
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#################The law has caught 21 young men in this case. Out of which 4 are being touted for hanging. There is tremendous pressure on the Indian Government to FAST TRACK this case-- and to bypass usual inquiry procedures to set an example.
I CONDEMN THIS MURDER.
MY HEARTFELT SYMPATHIES TO THE BEREAVED FAMILY. YOU CANT TAKE AN INNOCENT LIFE IN THIS MANNER .
To be frank to kill a man I don't need a knife, being trained in the Kalari martial arts system. A single blow given in blind rage will be 100% lethal-- and I usually walk away from situations where fools dare me to do my worst.
I am reminded of an similar incident which happened in my life at the age of 27 - today I am 55. I was a Ship Captain , NOT yet married .
Being a Captain means that I don't need any lecture on social responsibility . This happened in a cinema theatre next to Mumbai Gateway of India ( guess it is Regal ) for the 7 PM show.
I was alone .
The Dress Circle section where I sat was chock a block , as the movie was a hit. In those days they would play some documentaries before the main movie started.
In front of me 6 seats were empty. Pretty soon 3 girls and 3 boys ( around 18 to 20 years old ) trooped in, and sat in front of me.
From their dress code and their English speaking accent I knew they were the typical Bandra party--short frocks , bob hair cuts, signature French beards , cross chains, and Bandra slang. One of them had long dreadlocks like what our man Rueben Fernandes, used to sport before.
Suddenly a Mahatma Gandhi black and white documentary started.
Now Gandhiji is a soul who commands extreme respect in India.
In my previous blog about VAIKOM MUHAMMAD BASHEER I has mentioned that as a boy Basheer just touched Gandhiji's hand and became a revolutionary.
Gandhiji was hence my hero - like for 99% of Indians. The balance 1% who would respect someone in Italy or Saudi Arabia or Portugal more.
Such people will sell our country's secrets for a few pieces of silver.
The Gandhiji documentary was grainy and with poor audio -- some old footage which I had never seen. I was missing out on 20% of the proceedings as the " Bandra party " were in high spirits of extreme camaraderie. Why not, when I go with 5 of my friends , after a couple of beers, I would also be in the same groove.
Today if you see something on your computer or DVD you can pause and rewind. I did not want to miss out a word of this documentary- so I most respectfully submitted to the girl right in front that they should be a bit quiet till the Gandhiji documentary is over-- just a matter of another 5 minutes.
She looked back, and saw a clean shaven chikoo sweet guy, I was NOT a drunk unemployed evil looking smelly rowdie, "who stole water and electricity and did NOT pay taxes" . I did NOT eve tease her , or even cast a lecherous eye.
And you know what this CHUTNEY MARY screams " SAD GUY, HE WANTS TO SEE GANDHI !" .
What else she said -- I wont mention here. Cruel words are like nails, once driven, you can take them out--but the gaping holes remain for ever.
All the six of them burst into LOUD derisive laughter as if on cue.
May be they preferred to see the Pope, or a Portuguese soccer player or Elvis -- but I wanted to see the Father of our Nation , Gandhiji.
I could see that almost everybody around was now waiting for my reaction.
So I put both my feet on the shoulders of this mangy girl. My inner boots touching both her ears.
Immediately their boy dates got up and objected , a bit violently and loudly. For they wanted to be THE heroes for their gals.
In their Catholic system a boy and a girl has to find their own partners--like in the West. Their parents will NOT find a suitable bride/ groom for them. ( the rest of India have arranged marriages ) .
And these young boys tend to take the chivalrous part a bit too far , on a date -- to earn falthu respect.
They leaned over , threatened me , and told me to take my legs off this "Gandhiji scoffing" girl's shoulders.
So I dared them to take my legs off themselves -- or even throw a punch. If I was a weakling they would have slapped me around-- but here I was, any day tougher than Salman Khan.
Not a single onlooker came to the girl's rescue.
After a few pregnant moments I took my legs off her shoulders and said " One more word from you , ridiculing Gandhiji -- and I will put my legs right back . Let us have some co-operation!"
That was it-- the remaining two hours went without incident.
Today when I look back , I did the wrong thing. I will NOT do the same thing today.
To a person who did not know what transpired , yes I was an evil eve teaser!. How dare he keep his shoes on a young girl's face.
To my level headed wife ( I told her this story during our honeymoon ) , Madame Chutney Mary deserved it.
I know 100% what would have happened if the three guys had thrown a punch. Definitely I would exploded and pasted all the three of them in 30 seconds, probably busting their collar bones and sternums--
And may be I would have been in jail -- still a bachelor, without a job, without friends --
--- a loser in life !
Digression: One of my good Goan Roman Catholic Chief Officers' had told me long time ago -- Australia had opened out a free immigration office at Bandra Mumbai for one single day , and the queue was miles long. He said almost all his friends and even his own relatives were standing in this queue. So much for patriotism and loving your own country. He said " I felt like loading all of them on a ship and throwing them overboard off the coast of Australia , so that they could swim ashore like rats. There were some hardcore shameless young lesbians too in this line -- probably eager to come out of the closet and have fun in AUSTRAYYLYAAR"
This reminds me of a joke--and that needs me to digress and go off tangent for a while.
QUESTION: Why did two sisters fight in Australia?
ANSWER: Coz they were both DAAYTING the same guy!!
I wonder if anybody is entitled to extreme reactions , on the cause of patriotism.
Being a ship captain, I am also a cultural ambassador of India. This is NOT part of my job description, but then this is what we were trained to be on our training ship which had 250 cadets.
I am reminded of an incident 28 years ago. My ship was going to Felixstowe ( near London ) -- a busy private container port.
The pilot points to the gantry crane operator and tells me " Captain, do you know that that crane driver earns more than the President of your country?"
Needless harsh words.
These crane drivers get speed money for the number of containers they load in an hour. So on the days there is a EPL soccer match, they work like crazy, banging containers here and there and earn good money.
So the English Pilot was definitely right. He spoke the truth. But then our president has a garden ( Mogul gardens ). There are 800 gardeners, 50 of them to shoo away errant birds. I decided it was NOT worth , to be objective with this mangy Pilot.
So I replied " So fuckin' what? I know a WHORE in Mumbai who earns more money than what your British Prime Minister at Downing street 10 ( this door opens out into the street --TEE HEE ) earns in one whole year - in one single hour!"
The Pilot sulked till he left my ship.
Note: On my ship, I am fair. I see who provoked first, AND TO WHAT EXTENT?.
Who got physical first.
Who drew first blood.
Who was at the receiving end of the fight is secondary- as the tougher man wins, everytime.
However murder is murder-- you just cant take a God given life --unless you are in the army!
Now on the other hand--
Keenan was an out of work, cook --you can call a cook a "chef" and white wash him. Or you can call the accused barber, a "hair dresser"-- for the matter.
Reuben at the ripe age of 29 was unemployed and his pictures showing him in dreadlocks ( in India of all the places ) is now withdrawn from all TV shows .
The media has repeatedly painted all over that some of the assailants were unemployed--which is such a shame shame crime in India, right?.
Why do selective reporting? If a couple of assailants were unemployed-- what about the assailed?
As per Keenan's girlfriend Priyanka ( 19 ) it was Avinash Solanki who got physical first-- he slapped Rana the eve teaser. If at all somebody deserves a bravery award-- it must be this man. Not the others in the gang who kept their skins safe.
If I am getting attacked with a knife in a lonely street - I know that my wife is NOT gonna watch quietly-- she will kick ass and she will kick them good-- she wont mind getting stabbed !
You must ponder-- are all these fair weather friends ?
Keenan and Reuben and gang used to be at Amroli bar " as a ritual " every alternate day, (all this is on video clips of a National Network TV all over the internet ) -- as per Priyanka, who may be a bit naive and got carried away by emotion into giving such damning information.
How many parents will allow their grown up daughters to be in a bar at unearthly hours -- we will NOT be fooled into believing there was a cricket match every alternate day?
I have two sons --no daughters. If my imaginary daughter goes to Amroli bar every alternate day -- then what type of father am I? What type of upbringing is goin' on ?
Sorry-- I dont agree with Alyque Padamsee who said on national TV that Keenan's father Valerian must be given a National Bravery Award-- for telling on TV that " My heart is glad and I am willing to sacrifice many more sons to curb eve-teasing".
Since when have we started giving bravery awards for talking big on TV ?--shall we start off with our army and police?
Above is the picture used all over - to show how much this duo loved life. Yeah--one with pig sausages and other with beer. Well this is NO yellow hate speech -- just tellin' a fact. We live in India --NOT Brazil or Portugal.
Now let me digress-
Really men are such pigs-- such lechs -- they all need to be castrated , right?
No prizes for spotting this glorious ass below -- it belongs to a world champion-- hint MH.
Girls who wear tights like this in India, know when to raise their hands to adjust their hair, and show off their camel toe ( reserved for handsome guys only )-- or let the pallu of the low waist saree fall.
On second thoughts, it is better to BOBITT all of the lecherous men on this planet who prey on innocent, angelic babes in the woods, right?
There must be a law where a woman wearing falsies, and full of silicon , can name and shame a decent man as eve teaser and get him hanged, --probably a tougher law that the Indian dowry harrasment laws , where a man can be arrested on the basis of just a complaint from a Big Boss 5 , Pooja Mishra prototype..
And of course , all bride burnings in India with Kerosene dousing, was done by cruel, father-in-laws, NOT sweet sati savirti Bharatiya Nari mother-in-laws, right?
All female infanticides in India , were done by men , right?
All adultry on this planet is fault of men alone , right?
Ever noticed that women who complain most about sexual harrassment on TV , are all revoltingly UGLY?
If a girl pumped up with silicon ( or a padded bra - aaaha--ring a bell? ) wears a plunging neckline and pretends to talk on mobile phone outside the gates of a men's hostel, using her perepheral vision, is so cute -- then a boy with a decoy banana or a cock sock inside his jeans standing outside a women's hostel , is a SICK pervert who must be castrated el pronto , right? Why double standards?
Our role models must be ugly Mayawati types, who declared a honest DIG of Police mad , dragged him away in full uniform in front of national TV cameras , and put him in a asylum --right?
-- or our sulking Bong Express , the bottomless enigma, (who will look good in a T shirt stating NEXT MOOD SWING IN FIVE MINUTES) -- who storms into a police station and gets her goons released, insulting the nation's constitution.
Like ANGELIC Pooja Mishra of Big Boss 5 would scream -- SPARE ME! Pity the fall guy who marries her!
###############
Punch into Google search SAILORS DO CRY- VADAKAYIL.
It is the true story of my handsome colleague, who slit his wrists 3 times , unable to handle the diabolical games of his wife.
After 2 years of marriage , she left him for a film producer who promised to make her a Bollywood actress, and she was indeed beautiful.
She forced him to sign the divorce papers , as soon as he landed up in his house after a hard contract on a ship. The previous 2 contracts she sailed with him on the ship. He was removing his shoes , after touching his mother's feet , when she thrust the divorce papers before him- -and commanded him " Sign here!" .
When he tried to reason with her , as they dated for 6 years before marriage, she threatened to throw his mother in jail for dowry harrassment and attempted bride burning. She had it all worked out, with the rich film producer's connivance.
Later , after 14 months , she came back grovelling, and asked him to remarry her -- the producer just USED her from all 3 orifices for a year -- if you know what I mean..
My friend had just recovered from depression . He showed her the three scars on his wrist and asked her " What would you do , if you were in my place".
Men don't go on TV and tell such sob stories.
Or maybe "mental whip lashes" are less painful than "bottom FUCKIN' pinching" !!
Why is it that all hate shrew mother-in-laws? Father -in-laws are loved and respected all over the world for his large heartedness and understanding !! pray?
Let me end with a joke:--
A man in a train looked up at the top berth on the opposite side , on which a gorgeous woman had just climbed up to sleep.
She first removes her wig, and he noticed that she is nearly bald.
Then she removes her false eye lashes.
Next she removes her false breasts.
Then she removes all her make up, using a cleanser. She does NOT look gorgeous any more.
And then to his utter shock, she unscrews her false leg and stows it in her bag.
The woman saw him looking, got wild and hissed viciously " What the fuck do you want?"
The man says" You know what I want. Unscrew it and throw it down !"
CAPT AJIT VADAKAYIL
Capt, would you say the same thing if the boy was your son? I have been to India, dressed from head to toe on my way to a temple and the comments passed would, make it seem like I was half nude and on my way to a bar. Point is it is a democracy and everybody has a right to live as they please, if it doesn't harm anybody, freedom of choice, speech and religion. For me leaving India was a simple choice, I live a simple life, I like to cook, hike, do yoga, drink coffee (no starbucks) by myself if I please. I don't like the hassle of being constantly reminded I am a woman and therefore a liability. Men in India need to respect women, no wonder there were millions of female fetuses (babies) killed in the past decade alone. I am not saying woman don't get raped here but atleast I can walk to the library without being whistled at or go by myself for a bicycle ride without having my bottom pinched.
ReplyDeletehi aaina,
ReplyDeleteyou need to read my post ADAM VERSUS EVE, THE BATTLE OF THE SEXES- VADAKAYIL.
ask good looking men what diabolical MENTAL games sati-savitri indian bharatiya naari women , moth married and unmarried-- are capable of playing.
at least the white woman is not a hypocrite. she is NOT afraid of social stigma.
i hope you understand the difference between MENTAL games and PHYSICAL games. the former leaves permanent scars.
i never give a plain girl even a genuine compliment--for she will haul me over the coals for sexual harrassment. on the contrary a genuine compliment to an attractive girl always extracts a sweet THANK YOU.
you must watch BIG BOSS season 5 on colors channel to see MENTAL games.
i can write a 1000 pages of naked truth , on this subject-- let it be!
capt ajit vadakayil
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Capt,
ReplyDeleteI dont watch TV much and don't have desi channels.
I agree a lot of women are shrewd and evil but does it make it ok for men to treat them like they do. A genuine compliment is always appreciated now if you whistled and pinched the woman bottom while telling her she is gorgeous ..not so much. I like the comment on the prime minister making less than the crane operator. good comeback. For instance what if your wife is out shopping for groceries and gets eve teased is that acceptable? men in India and middle east do not give women basic human rights like living free.isn't big boss scripted to make good television? i mean they wouldn't put someone who doesn't make an ass of themselves on national TV, its all about the ratings. having said that I will also say sometimes, women are their own worst enemies.
hi,
ReplyDeletei have asked many women point blank " why do you dress up so provocatively -- half your goodies are out ? why do you put on so much of make up and perfume ? "
the answer i get is always the same A , while the truth is always the same B .
i am sure everybody man and woman , knows what B is.
like i said in my blog , every womens magazine gives 50% space to --
1) why men are such pigs
2) how to attract such a pig.
if a man visits a brothel, it is like going for a crap for release.
when a sati savitri woman keeps doing MENTAL copulation on the street with every good looking hunk, and closes her eyes and dreams of some one else when her own husband makes love to her -- well-- well--
i suggest next time you ask one of your HONEST married indian women friends , why she keeps her eyes shut when her husband makes love to her.
at least a man does not do that.
any women who gets groped , if she turns around and hisses " next time i will expose and disgrace you " -- it will be a total idiot male who will do it again. she does not need to know kung fu.
but if she keeps quiet, enjoys the moment, later gets a guilty complex and startes bitching -- well-- well--
laws of mathematics states every act of sex, unless it is rape is 50-50.
i am a good looking guy -- i know what SLEAZY AND DIABOLICAL MENTAL games women from the age of 13 to 60 are capable of --
capt ajit vadakayil
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Capt sahab I agree with your views about the Bandraites. While I worked in Mumbai, the college going crowd never spoke in Marathi/Hindi, and the starting of the conversation invariably started with "Dude...". The worst part is even the Hindu ones towed that line, probably the College culture now adays is like that. I mean I too listen rock/hip-hop, but I also like the good old Kishore/Rafi. But the young ones are totally into the head banging. Once I saw a TV show where the TV guys randomly picked students at the college campus and asked the birth date of Gandhi, who is the father of the nation etc etc and the reply was "C'mon dude get a life", "loser" etc etc. It seemed the question offended the youngsters and drove them crazy. The point is most of these guys were studying accountancy, so it can be assumed that these guys were the back banchers and utter failures at studies and reason is obvious. The other point is some of the guys who come from well to do families end up in US universities studying for higher degress probably not on scholarship. India being a country with 80% poor, the Mumbai scene is a bubble with people living a completely diff lifestyle. And once these 'MTV generation' clash with the local marathi/hindi thugs, the comments "F***OFF" /"Dude..get a life" pisses the local thugs off their limits and the bubble breaks. This is typical Clash of Civilization and can be a subject of research for the sociologists.
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hi kumar,
ReplyDeletein 1978 my ship ( a VLCC ) dry docked at Lisnave, Portugal.
A Goan guy ( Portuguese immigrant citizen ) used to come on our ship to eat in the evenings. I was 2nd mate, and once i gave him a couple of beers, for i felt he was a good man.
after some time he started crying, and he spilled the truth, about the so called land of milk and honey. he was treated like a leper there.
so my good Goan Roman catholic Chief officer was telling me this.
His batch mate ( also a 3 striper on a ship earning good money) staying at Bandra too , got immigration to australia. he was shutting up shop , saying goodbye to India.
every day he and his young 19 year wife used to disappear somewhere, for a few hours.
one day the truth came out. Both were learning TRUCK DRIVING, to get a heavy vehicle licence, to get a easy job as soon as they reach there.
these pickle johns and chutney marys , prefer to be third class citizens there in GORA LAND and dont mind being truck drivers ,cooks and waiters. you go to Mc Donalds and see them cleaning toilets.
so what, it is a gora toilet right? gora shit does not smell, right?
and the best part -- both of them looked like adivasis , definitely not brown sabib and memsahib.
capt ajit vadakayil
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Very true Capt Sahab. While I was in Tianjin, China for 3 years, being a bachelor with no intention to cook dinner, I used to go to an Indian restaurant for Dinner, I found out that a Bengali gentleman is coming with his wife on week ends. One day through the Manager, I got introduced and found that the Bengali Gentleman was from Calcutta and he was in Tianjin for last 30 years and he was the first Indian in the Town. He also had a house in Japan and he primarily worked in the Iron Ore/Coal chartering business and so he had an office and house in Japan too. So one day I asked him if after 30 years of Chinese/Japanese life if he still maintains/owns an Indian Passport?? And his answer was which I remember correctly was "India is our motherland, and how you can you ever change your Mother??"
ReplyDeletehi kumar,
ReplyDeletetalking about mothers--
nearly 2 decades ago, i had a jamaican 2nd mate on my ship.
i was interested in this boy as he was very intelligent ( we love to look down on blacks , right?) .
during this process of mentoring, i made him realise the wisdom in marrying his live in girlfriend, with whom he had produced 3 lovely children.
-- and then i gave him french leave, he went home got married and came back and joined same ship.
having found sudden happiness in his life, he told me a lot of secrets about how the society of jamaica works.
he told me that hardly any jamaican crew on my ship knew who their fathers were. they all knew who their mothers were.
there was a sect, whose men tasted the first fruits of their own daughers ( cant name it here ).
he said if USA opens out free immigation , the last man in jamaica will have to put off the lights -- pretty same the condition of bandra D party.
i plan to write a book on pseudo indians-- whose heart beats for the flags of portugal and england.
capt ajit vadakayil
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Hi Captain,
ReplyDeleteIn Catholics we also have arranged marriages our Parents wants that there children are happily married like every parent.I had a arranged marriage.
Thanks.
hi francis,
ReplyDeletei do not mind , if my 2 sons have love marriages.
my elder son in usa, goes to las vegas every weekend to gamble -- he is not a gambler.
he attends rave parties ( no drugs allowed ) in usa, and there is a designated sober friend to drive back home, and his mobile is on vibratory mode. he goes there for the music and dance.
he is in the R&D division of computers and needs stress release. or he cannot be creative.
he is very transparent, and gives his mother a blow by blow account. we have brought him up well.
but-- if it was my daughter-- i will NOT give him permission to go to vegas, or attend a rave party.
my sisters had to return back home before sunset.
my 2nd sister was chosen for the keral state atheletic camp ( 100 metres sprint ),which has high standards. but my father did not allow. our family was conservative.
a manglorean lobo is different from a goan lobo.
the reason you can find in PORTUGUESE INQUISITION IN GOA FRANCIS XAVIER- VADAKAYIL.
by the way i am NOT picking on goan christians. i have just told the truth and my perspective.
capt ajit vadakayil
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Hope you can convince your son to come back to India, India needs bright minds in fields of research rather than a capitalist country like USA,
DeleteI have had to beg for H1b while I am so much more qualified than any american in USA that is the american ego, now I regret having spent a portion of mu life abroad even I am in R&D, brought up in traditional hindu family but being a man with values in US, I could not get sleep without drinking every day before sleep (I never touched alcohol in India), now I have tendered resignation have but company is not ready to let me go yet because of contractual obligations, understood value of Indian culture and values, as compared to US, have seen kids from slums top IIT in India but in US no chance of a poor or middle class kid will get into MIT or Stanford, need to do something back in India rather than build US IT infrastructure , let me know if you want to start something in India can try doing something in JNCASR or other research institutes in India.
We need to get rid of the firang waitress what is her capability as compared to any one of the poor kids In India who study Engineering on less than 2 meals a day???
India's Engineering college students can easily be motivated, Have to pay back my due to my motherland ready to violate contract and return. many lives have been spent in giving India its freedom lets ensure their sacrifices have not gone in vain.
We shall not let the sacrifices of our freedom fighters go down the drain they knew that we are more capable than the westerners, their dream was to show to the west that all their sense of entitlement and achievement were but an illusion as compared to an Indians intellectual capability
""I have told you over and over again that I do not acknowledge the authority of the Court, You can do whatever you like. I do not mind at all. You can pass sentence of death on me. I do not care. You white people are all-powerful now, but, remember, it shall have our turn in the time to come, when we can do what we like."Madan Lal Dhingra(UK Mechanical Engineer) before bieng executed in UK
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