Sunday, December 5, 2010

HAPPINESS FROM WITHIN-- CAPT AJIT VADAKAYIL



“ Open happiness “ – Coke cries gleefully.

“ Good morning happiness” – screams a swank cooking range advertisement.

Surely marketing whizkid know zilch about happiness. It cant be bought or sold by money.

Happiness is FREE. It is about filling up the space deep inside, or gratification of the soul. It is about equilibrium or dynamic balance between your SPIRIT , MIND AND MATTER. For life is a combination of spiritual, intellectual and physical aspects. It is achieved by deserving.

Happiness has to overtake you. Say—if you choose harmony over truth , you are overtaking happiness— it wont work.

A cold fizzy coke will not make you happy. Never equate happiness with matter. It is more of spirit and mind. Inner peace, like peace at home will make you happy. A free swank cooking range could ignite the heart of a house wife , but it wont gratify her soul or cause her heart to sing.

Happiness is a victory lap of positive forces over negative forces in your life. Now let us call the positive forces Pandavas, and the negative forces Kauravas. Just for the sake of simplicity. ( Pssst--both Ramayan and Mahabharata have been written backwards. The principle of nothing succeeds like success has been applied . If Ravan had won the war, we would have been shooting fire arrows at Ram on Dusshera day. Read both the epics and have an opinion for yourself )

Let me make a list of Pandava forces, in a random order – for all prefer to have their priorities. Let us assume you have no needs which come from insufficiency, rather you have only wants . To be without few things you want is a indispensable part of happiness.

Freedom from want is the greatest liberator. The gambler who waits for one more spin of the roulette is not exactly liberated.

The Mahaprajnaparamita Shastra states:

"When one seeks an object of desire,one suffers.

When one gets an object of desire,One fears losing it.

When one loses an object of desire,One is greatly troubled.

At each and every point,There is no joy."


All things of great value are absolutely free, given an received in silence without an audience :-

PANDAVA FORCES:#############



  
    
Good robust health. A hospital stay is a great leveller. Feel young—you cant do that unless you exercise. It releases feel good chemicals.

A positive cash flow. I call this commonsense—we are in the 21st century. Never respect utter poverty.

An abundance of free time (like mE pet cat) . Many interests to keep you busy , so that you don’t get bored. Free time to discover what makes your heart sing, to chill out or be a bit reckless and merry once in a while -- free time to discover your talents and polish them and show case them.

Where you can be who you are , comfortable in our own skin. No need to fake it or go against your grain or be a pretender—no need for wigs or high heels or hair dye. Where an elephant need not try to be a horse to improve its self esteem . Where you don’t need to make heads turn or show off or do oneupmanship. I call this place a home—it is different from egopowered page 3 partyplace where a woman so wrapped up in herself will drag 4 feet of her gown on the dirty floor to draw the eyes of the world. Have you ever wondered why yester year heroines put a red bindi, the size of a lemon on their foreheads?

Your home is for you to live in not others to gape at. That does not mean a cluttered or dirty home.

Being close to beautiful nature— feeling ze cool wind through your hair, crisp air in your lungs, clean blue waters— rather feeling one with nature-- a natural high. If you are allergic to your area , flee from it. Harmony with nature is a must. No point in having wheezing and a blocked nose. You cant even sleep properly or enjoy your food .

Freedom from worry, compulsive thinking , negativity and clinging .

Loving your job—in which case it is play , not work. Some autonomy is needed so that you work on your own terms ( this does not mean you can bring your dog to work ) , not your boss leading you by your nostrils on a tight leash. No golden handcuffs on you, that you cant quit the undignified job if you want. Freedom , like health , is appreciated only when you lose it.

Have integrity—where you walk your talk or where is video is congruent with your audio. Have clear meaning and purpose to your life.

Being creative, productive, wearing yourself out for a purpose, to leave a lasting legacy to the world. Living your life by design—not default.

Wiping a tear from a hungry man. Giving a lift to a footslogger whom you have always ignored. Visiting someone who never expected you , in the hospital. Feel the happiness course through your veins. I call this bliss. Being socially responsible.
Riches of the mind. Intellectual property. Following the path of self discovery.

An open heart .

Patience.

Celebrations when you have won something your deserved and worked hard at.
Sleeping well at night, because you have a clean conscience – for you have never stitched up anybody . Because you have a sense of accomplishment in managing the pieces of your day and feel like a winner. Because you have run your own race . You have no need to over analyze and then declutter your mind or tonsure the past with booze and drugs.

Responding to daily events in a manner which is in harmony with the oneness of the fabric and principles of the universe. “ Num myoho renghe kyo “ . It you want to know further , google chrome this Tibetian mantra.

The feel that your are growing in life.

Good books, great music, good friends.

Ability to say NO and pull the plug. Ability to cast a shoe aside that does not fit. Being graceful , mature and poised while doing this.

Use pain solely for feedback. Using pain as a message from nature.

Responding to life proactively , not reacting.

Not eating too much.

Ability to play a bad hand well.

A good sense of humor.

Never to breach a trust.

Pride in own character.

Hope in defeat. Faith in your abilities.

Heart free of hate. Happiness is a huge by-product of those actions we take for the benefit of others. Thus compassion and forgiveness are perfectly selfish and wise acts. Kindness, generosity, patience, tolerance, humility, fairness , helping others to grow and reach their potential -- all create happiness.

Following your emotions but know when to control them. An easy and calm mind can only be attained when emotions are allowed a safe expression.

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A king sized ego. Perfectionism is a deep ego trip. Inability to separate your pride from the situation in hand.

Jealousy.

Material greed to fill up the hole in your life and psyche. Allowing beautiful things to own you.

Selfishness.

Inability to see your own assets with pride. Inability to see the positive.
Lack of age reversing emotions like joy, forgiveness, love, respect, friendship, self esteem and lightheartedness . The skin tone shows on people who are not self actualized and unable to laugh. Only laughter can release those chemicals which electrify your nerves.

Lack of zest and enthusiasm for life. Bad manners.

Taking things personally and hypersensitivity . Dwelling on nasty remarks . Inability to move on after grieving.

Seeing only problems—no possibilities. Mired in self pity. Crying type.

Inability to enjoy the moment or give a full blooded shot.

Lack of grace under pressure.

Negative revengeful thoughts.

Expecting too much. Concentrating on what you don’t have.

Breaking your own word to yourself consistently.

Going to bed with unresolved differences with your wife and children.Inability to spend quality time with them.

Addicted to emotional drama, hysteria and cynicism.

Being happy at the expense of anothers deep unhappiness.

Inability to adapt and CHANGE to the new order — remaining vulnerable and unhappy in the unfamiliar zone.

psssst, the best for the last---

one of the PANDAVAS is -- you must experience as many colours hues of nature every day ( flowers, blue water, white clouds, green grass, red sunset etc ) during a nature walk , -- and as many food taste varieties ( salty, sweet, sour, bitter etc ).

never let a small dispute injure a great friendship--

if everything you did in life was perfectly safe and straight-laced--well you never had any exhilarating moment you could think about on your deathbed , and puzzle the sad onlookers. security is the lowest form of happiness-

--NEVER SWEAT THE SMALL STUFF, NOR SHORT SELL YOURSELF-- LEARN TO LET GO AT THE RIGHT TIME-- the more crap you put up with, the more you get on your face--

everyone cries out of selfishness-- keep away from SELF PITY, for it will interfere with positive action-- nobody has ever shed a tear on this planet for someone else--

make peace with your past --so that you don't mar your present --

never jump into the bandwagon, or bow to precedent-- never be preoccupied with stuff over which you have zilch control--

treat life as an adventure-- never let criticism shake your confidence-- 

happiness is NOT in the mundane, but in the deep ocean of happiness that lies beneath.  live beneath your means and within your seams. 

 happiness is not a constant. just because you are not happy it does not mean something is wrong. perfect utopia lies only in the minds of unhappy perfectionists.

identify and avoid disruptive behavior. never bow to precedent.  cut off ties with dishonest , mean and negative people. the more crap you put up with, the more crap you will get. refuse to be swayed by emotion when it conflicts with reason. avoided problems will not go away, rather it becomes worse.  always have your opinions.  silence has lead the way to every atrocity in history. never show weakness while negotiating.  make peace with your past so that it does not mess up your present.  accept that life is NOT always fair.

if your purpose of life is security then you will be a failure.  security is the lowest form of happiness ( ask an animal in the zoo ).

Happiness cannot be thrust upon you, it comes from within as a result of your own actions. Al seasons are beautifu for the person whose happiness comes from within. Have a sense of humor, or you are like the car without a suspension , jolted by every pot hole. Use sense of humor as a balancing pole pole on the tightrope of life . 

Forget about Maslows theory-- you cannot be happy unless your job is something yo love and you feel it matters. Unless you make peace with what you are , you  will never be content with what you have. 

Shared laughter creates bonds of friendship. Shared laughter melts all divides.

Like Tennyson said--The happiness of a man in this life does not consist in the absence but in the mastery of his passions.  Stop worrying about things which are beyond the power of your will. To be truly happy you need a clear sense of purpose and meaning in life.

The movie Saturday night fever taught this lesson from Aristotle to western folks-- Dignity consists not in possessing honors, but in the consciousness that we deserve them. 

The most difficult thing that you can do is to watch the person you love , love someone else.  When you contribute to a team effort-- you're happiest while you're making the greatest contribution.

Knowing what is right and not being able to do it is cowardice. Such a man cannot be happy. The current is food on the table. The past is shit in the septic tank. Why do you insist on entering this stinkin' tank every hour of the day? Self pity and resentment are self destructive.

THE CRUX IS TO UNCOVER THE HAPPINESS HIDDEN IN EVERY MOMENT, THAT SILVER LINING--THIS MUST BE A MINDSET -- follow your heart--

--AND FINDING WORK YOU ARE PASSIONATE ABOUT.   LIFE IS TOO SHORT FOR DOING WORK YOU DONT ENJOY.  at work, be the team player-- try to increase the size of the whole pie, not just your portion on ze pie--

--AND REMEMBER-- ALLOW TEMPTATION TO OVERTAKE YOU , ONCE IN A WHILE ( VADAKAYIL'S ADVICE --TAKE IT OR LEAVE IT )

LIVE LIFE ON YOUR OWN TERMS -- WITHOUT FREEDOM THERE CAN BE NO HAPPINESS. Never short sell yourself.

Keep life simple.   a happy bloke does not expect too much of gratitude.
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Man  is the only animal who makes bargains. Can you imagine a cat making a conditional bargain—if I help you out of this mess , you must gives me the head of your dinner fish.

Remember that happiness is not constant. Some people think that if they're not feeling happy, something is wrong
One of the great secrets to happiness is to be immersed in an activity that is complex, where you have the skills to match that activity. By stretching your mind as you work, you enter into a state of mind where you lose all sense of time. 


AFTER THE GAME OF LIFE , THE KING AND THE PAWN GOES INTO THE SAME BOX--    WHAT IS ALL THIS 

BULLSHIT  ONE-UP-MANSHIP WHILE ALIVE ?  

ALL OF US ARE IN RAFTS ON A RAPID RIVER HEADING FOR THAT PLUNGE DOWN THE WATER FALL OF DEATH  --  100% SURE !!




Capt Ajit Vadakayil
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27 comments:

  1. Namaste Acharya

    I am 21 yrs old doing my B.Tech. My hair fall is very severe .I think about 60 starnds of hair fall daily and also my hair is becoming white. About 40 percent of my hair has become white . I am very much worried about my Hair fall and hair becoming white. I think i will become half bald within 6 to 7 yrs .Plzzz suggest how to reverse my hair fall and hair becoming white.
    Is it better to apply oil in hair before Bath or after bath .

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    1. hi ns,

      punch into google search-
      HAIR LOSS PREVENTION AND BALDNESS CURES VADAKAYIL

      capt ajit vadakayil
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  2. Dear Capt....
    Nice blog.....
    an eye opening dialog is......
    if your purpose of life is security then you will be a failure. security is the lowest form of happiness ( ask an animal in the zoo ).

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  3. Dear Capt.,

    Recently I have been feeling a lot of anxiety and stress related to various things. I am worrying a lot about future, security etc.
    You wrote: Stop worrying about things which are beyond the power of your will.

    Can you spare some time to kindly suggest how do I overcome these worries? Friends are suggesting visiting a Psychologist.

    Regards,
    Sharad

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    1. hi s,

      all the psychologist can do is to take away for your money .

      do pranayama and shambahavi mudra daily.

      punch into google search-
      PRANAYAMA VADAKAYIL

      and

      SHAMBHAVI MUDRA , BYPASSING THE AMYGDALA BY PRATYAHARA TO STILL THE MIND VADAKAYIL

      capt ajit vadakayil
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    2. Dear Capt.,

      Thank you for your reply. I have gone through both of these blogs of yours, not after your reference today, but earlier. I have been a regular visitor of your blogs since 2012 and there isn't any blog of yours that I have missed. Well almost!

      While I realize 100% of whatever you have written is the truth, I, somehow, am not able to motivate myself to follow them.

      Thank you for your time sir.
      My one of the earlier question was not answered by you because you thought of it as loaded/corny :) , so getting your time & advice here was helpful.

      Regards,
      Sharad

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  4. Respected Captainji-

    I've been an avid reader of your blog since the past couple years. I especially liked the way you've explained the Advaita and Dwaita concepts and how they are unified in our Sanatan Dharma. A lot of your posts, especially on history are eye openers but the best ones are the ones on which you've given practical wisdom which go straight to the heart. I want to thank you from the bottom of my heart for your efforts. I wish I had you as a mentor much early in my life so that I could have avoided a lot of negativity. God bless you!

    Many humble pranaams,
    Kalpesh

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  5. Rakesh Kumar Khandelwal
    October 21, 2014 at 4:14 AM
    This article is one of my favorite write ups on your blog..I read it almost monthly basis ...
    There is something seriously wrong with Indian mindsets..may be kind of cerebral disintegration due to centuries of slavery...This article & "MANAGING TIME" one...has to be BLUEPRINT CODE for young people like me in 30-45 group..because we are on the cusp of experiencing these issues..But strangely only 12 comments here and may be 5-10 there...But on the new "Fart" one there are 200+..
    Also Captain...These blogs are of days when the innocence was still preserved...Now a days too much of discussion is based out on Toilet Paper of India...too many trolls..too many sycophants...
    You wont believe i have this,time,humor management & that "Super typhoon bart" printed and stapled with me..brilliant content. There is one post which is SERIOUSLY awaited by many readers.."Good Upbringing of children"..you know general guidelines ..we all know all but Captain Style Mind Reformatting Guided Missile is what I am waiting..

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    Capt. Ajit VadakayilOctober 21, 2014 at 5:11 AM
    hi rk,

    every young indian about to take a corporate job must read the following posts compulsorily.

    nowdays people who have never seen a mountain write books on mountaineering and land up in the TOP 100 OF TIME MAGAZINE..

    http://ajitvadakayil.blogspot.in/2010/12/change-management-capt-ajit-vadakayil.html

    http://ajitvadakayil.blogspot.in/2013/04/domino-effect-in-change-management-capt.html

    http://ajitvadakayil.blogspot.in/2010/11/blue-ocean-leadership-capt-ajit.html

    http://ajitvadakayil.blogspot.in/2010/11/time-management-capt-ajit-vadakayil.html

    http://ajitvadakayil.blogspot.in/2010/11/virtual-teaming-capt-ajit-vadakayil.html

    http://ajitvadakayil.blogspot.in/2010/12/mentoring-at-sea-capt-ajit-vadakayil.html

    THINK IS THE HARDEST THING ON THIS PLANET.

    I DOUBT THE EMINENT PEOPLE WHO COME ON PRIME TIME TV -- THE MANAGEMENT GURUS -- CAN EVEN UNDERSTAND WHAT I HAVE WRITTEN ABOVE .

    capt ajit vadakayil
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  6. Respected Captain

    Thanks for penning this article. A finest piece of literature!

    Regards

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  7. STOP PRESS:

    NO COUNTRY OR RELIGION CAN MATCH THE JOY, OUR RIP-ROARING HINDU FESTIVALS DELIVER . . .

    THIS IS THE MEANING OF FULL BLOODED CELEBRATIONS. . .

    NOT SOME BULLSH#T DECADENT SEX CHARGED CARNIVALS WILL ALL PRETENDING TO BE HAPPY . . .

    Every time the BENAMI Indian media and the foreign funded Christian missionary NGOs try to dampen the spirit of the revelers .. .

    They have even gone to the extent of saying that our army jawans are wasting water by playing Holi. . .

    Holi is the greatest leveler in India, where an ordinary Jawan can walk up to a General and spray colour on him and the General reciprocates by putting colour on the Jawan and hugging him. . .

    During Holi celebrations there are no caste , gender, age , creed and financial status divides. All are equal. These celebrations have been going on for 6000 years .

    It is stress busting time. The atmosphere is electric with fun and joy. People dance, sing songs and beat drums.

    The government does NOT arrest people who had Marijuana or Cannabis ( Bhang ) as long as they are not disruptive. . .

    Enemies have heart to heart talks and make up on this day. Holi is celebrated on the day after the full moon in early March and glorifies good harvest and fertility of the land . . .

    Holi has NOTHING to do with Radha the FAKE and back dated creation of Rothschild. . . Nobody heard of Radha the mistre#s of Lord Krishna till the white invader came to india . . . .

    VANDE MATARAM !

    capt ajit vadakayil
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  8. My dad earned good money. But he could not enjoy it.
    everything was duped by my uncles.
    He was too naive.

    I had feelings of enmity. but now I really don't know what I must do? forget all that happens at home or grow strong and fight them.
    I am just 25. My dad died due to such troubles. What would be right for me forget or grow strong and fight?

    My uncles have been bullying me since childhood. It affects my personality but now I tolerate it.

    Please Ajit sir.

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    1. hi rk,

      you are 25.

      take care of yourself .

      anybody trying to bulldoze you UNFAIRLY -- warn them you will drag them ,and their children through courts till they die.

      capt ajit vadakayil
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  10. would it be good for me to do surya namaskar?

    I am asking as I don't want my mind to be over active.

    so hum
    vipassana
    pranayama

    keep My mind in control.

    I will meet Amma after My exams 20th-28th June.

    Reading Ramana maharishi's words of wisdom helped a lot.

    I started reading your history posts first. To be honest I must have read health and blogs on life values first.
    dil se kahu toh aapne sanatan dharam me meri aastha bargad ki zado si bana di h.
    My faith in Santan dharama has grown like the roots of Banyan tree.

    Your liking of best of the best leaves me impatient to perform My best.


    And for the family disputes, our Ancestor's land has been under 800 years of slavery yet it rose like the phonix. so it shouldn't deter me from the moral path. right intentions, good karma.

    charan sparash

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  11. from Devi Mahatmyam
    या देवी सर्वभुतेषु
    Ya Devi Sarvabhutesu
    Devi Durga
    नमोदेव्यैमहादेव्यैशिवायैसततंनमः।
    नमःप्रकृत्यैभद्रायैनियताःप्रणताःस्मताम्॥१॥
    Namo Devyai Mahaa-Devyai Shivaayai Satatam Namah |
    Namah Prakrtyai Bhadraayai Niyataah Prannataah Sma Taam ||1||
    1.1:Salutationsto theDevi, to theMahadevi;Salutations Alwaysto Her Who is One withShiva(the Auspicious One).
    1.2:Salutationsto Her Who is theAuspicious(being One with Shiva)Primordial SourceofCreationandControllerof Everything;We Bow AlwaystoHer.
    रौद्रायैनमोनित्यायैगौर्यैधात्र्यैनमोनमः।
    ज्योत्स्नायैचेन्दुरूपिण्यैसुखायैसततंनमः॥२॥
    Raudraayai Namo Nityaayai Gauryai Dhaatryai Namo Namah |
    Jyotsnaayai Ce[a-I]ndu-Ruupinnyai Sukhaayai Satatam Namah ||2||
    2.1:Salutationsto theTerrible,Salutationsto theEternal, theShining Oneand theSupporterof theUniverse.
    2.2:Salutations Alwaysto Her, Who has a Cool Brightness like theMoonlit Night,Andthe RadiantFormof theMoon, and Who isJoyHerself.
    कल्याण्यैप्रणतावृद्धयैसिद्धयैकुर्मोनमोनमः।
    नैर्ऋत्यैभूभृतांलक्ष्म्यैशर्वाण्यैतेनमोनमः॥३॥
    Kalyaannyai Prannataa Vrddhayai Siddhayai Kurmo Namo Namah |
    Nairrtyai Bhuubhrtaam Lakssmyai Sharvaannyai Te Namo Namah ||3||
    3.1:We Bowto Her Who is the Source ofWelfare, Who isGreat,Fulfilledand Abides as theUniverse,

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  12. http://www.greenmesg.org/mantras_slokas.php

    link from where i copied the devi strotram.

    My conscience says not to publish it.
    Its your ship sailing in sea of consciousness.

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  13. hari OM
    "Better a thousand enemies outside the house than one INSIDE"

    Will try to get My family together. or atleast those who want to be useful to each other. The rest I don't value.

    Being grateful to My Ancestors living on Earth or away from Earth(deceased ones) helped a lot.

    First My body needs to be cleaned.

    ya devi sarbhuteshu _________ rupen santhita ....... Namo Namah.


    "whatever you look for is all over My blogsite...." one of your replies

    Captain's Ship in the sea of consciousness. smiles

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  14. Namaste Srimaan

    updated your blogposts

    gogle grateful vadakaYil

    gogle ego vadakayil

    as My other name on Facebook.

    one of My relatives read it.

    dead sure as My younger cousin hinted twice.

    now for the first time in My living memory : My uncle send his son to ask My mum, whether she would like to take grains which have come from our village.

    whatever be the reason for his kindness but it matters a lot to My family.

    will share more of your blogs.

    its your ship in the sea of consciousNess, spreading positive vibes. your words allay the weak( weakness is only due to circumstances) and wreak havoc on wrong doers.

    There are questions in My mind. But My family, work and My people need me more.

    Lets our good wishes for the collective welfare come true.

    ya devi sarvbhuteshu ___________ rupen santhitha namastasye namastasye namo namah.

    _/\_ Smiles

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  15. http://www.talesofpanchatantra.com/


    Reading panchtantra wisdom tales.

    getting closer to My Friends.

    yoga Divas ki subhkamanaein
    21st June
    Have a nice day sir.

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  16. Hello Captain,

    I am a 29 Year old, married 1.5 years ago. (love marriage) ever since I am married I feel like I am cramped up for my space. She is really sweet but don't know whats the problem with me. few months ago I had an anxiety attack and has tried so many methods but couldn't persist on any therapy. Psychologists,Ayurveda, Sleeping Pills nothing helped much.. Slowly I am getting very depressive thoughts.. But I feel these thoughts stopping me from focusing. Can you please let me know a remedy for this.

    Regards
    Barath
    barathcipet@gmail.com

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    1. http://ajitvadakayil.blogspot.in/2011/10/surya-namaskar-11000-year-old-vedic-sun.html

      http://ajitvadakayil.blogspot.in/2010/11/pranayama-capt-ajit-vadakayil.html

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    2. Thanks Captain ! I will practice this regularly

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  17. Captain,,, If I have a strong bad impression about someone..(In my case., My wife) How do I clear those bad memories from my mind (Sub conscious ??). It keeps banging my though process Captain

    Thanks
    Barath

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    1. http://ajitvadakayil.blogspot.in/2012/05/shirodhara-6000-year-old-massage-for.html

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  18. Pranaam captain...can u please tell us about the importance of Tilak..and some things one should wear which will fill him with purity..

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  19. Visvanathan Srinivasan
    April 7, 2017 at 10:35 AM

    Thanks for your eye opening blogs captain..You are the fighter of true justice for this world.

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    Capt. Ajit Vadakayil
    April 7, 2017 at 10:44 AM

    THE WHITE MAN SAYS THAT INDIA IS 122 rd ON THE PLANET ON THE SCALE OF HAPPINESS ( BOTTOM SCUM )

    BALLS

    INDIA IS THE HAPPIEST NATION ON THE PLANET-- THE NO 1

    I HAVE SEEN THIS PLANET FOR 4 DECADES

    PEOPLE WHO MADE THIS BULLSHIT COUNTRY LIST OF HAPPINESS, ARE FROGS INSIDE THE WELL

    THEY THINK TRAVELLING IN A FANCY LIFT, OWNING A YATCH, PLAYING GOLF, ATTENDING PARTIES WHERE THEY STAND FOR HOURS WHILE SIPPING SOME BULLSHIT WINE , BEING A MEMBER OF A ELITE CLUB, IS HAPPINESS

    SORRY

    http://ajitvadakayil.blogspot.in/2010/12/happiness-from-within-capt-ajit.html

    IF THE WHITE NATIONS ARE SO HAPPY-- WHY DO THEY COME TO INDIA FOR LIFE MANAGEMENT LESSONS?

    HEY WESTERN CUNTS--SPEAK UP

    http://ajitvadakayil.blogspot.in/2010/11/life-management-capt-ajit-vadakayil.html

    capt ajit vadakayil
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